Hisbabydoll26
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Do you have just one or many? What are they?
What is your favorite task to give or receive?
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BiBunny
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My favorite thing to do is sit in the floor and rub his feet while he sits on the couch and watches TV after a long day at work. I can do it for hours. He loves it, and it makes me happy to see him happy. Then, when my back and legs start cramping and/or falling asleep from sitting in the floor, he always pulls me on the couch to cuddle with him. 
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BiBunny said:My favorite thing to do is sit in the floor and rub his feet while he sits on the couch and watches TV after a long day at work. I can do it for hours. He loves it, and it makes me happy to see him happy. Then, when my back and legs start cramping and/or falling asleep from sitting in the floor, he always pulls me on the couch to cuddle with him.
This sounds nice. I've only done it once for my guy and he loved it. I don't think it would occur to him to ask for it.
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For me at least, I've had to (and still am, really) learn to ask for what I'd like/need. It's not something that feels natural or that I'm used to doing. In essence, I'm having to develop new habits and overcome the idea that asking for service is selfish/demanding. Likewise, he struggles with his own ideas and patterns.Hisbabydoll26 said:
I don't know that I have a favorite thing to give or receive, but I definitely like it when he anticipates my needs and puts extra effort (or maybe just his best effort) into what he's doing, whether it's asking if I'd like a cup of tea or having a candlelit dinner when I get home. As far as me giving, I'm really enjoying wax (and fire soon, I hope) play, using our strap-on, orgasm control, making him beg and impact play.
And I didn't get a chance to respond to your thread on resources, but I've found a lot of good discussion and ideas on CollarMe (or, more specifically, collarchat.com). I haven't found the community as comfortable as this one, and there are a few members who irritate the hell out of me, but it's rather large and has a lot of knowledgeable members. Just be sure you use their search function and/or google (using the 'site:collarchat.com whatever_you're_looking_for' format) before asking a question there.
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Shagly said:
LOL
Um . . . what's the most fun? Anything that results in sex.
What makes me feel fulfilled? Their isn't one thing, because what he needs differs day to day. He recently had a brief bout with the flu. I rubbed his head to help with his headache, I got up in the middle of the night to give him the cough suppressant so he could sleep (and some more vit c). Today, he's feeling fine. I might clip his nails, or rub his back or do nothing extra, cause he doesn't want anything extra. Although to tell the truth, with the way he keeps groping me whenever the kids aren't watching I think that my mouth's gonna be full tonight.
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SweetErika said:For me at least, I've had to (and still am, really) learn to ask for what I'd like/need. It's not something that feels natural or that I'm used to doing. In essence, I'm having to develop new habits and overcome the idea that asking for service is selfish/demanding. Likewise, he struggles with his own ideas and patterns.
I don't know that I have a favorite thing to give or receive, but I definitely like it when he anticipates my needs and puts extra effort (or maybe just his best effort) into what he's doing, whether it's asking if I'd like a cup of tea or having a candlelit dinner when I get home. As far as me giving, I'm really enjoying wax (and fire soon, I hope) play, using our strap-on, orgasm control, making him beg and impact play.
And I didn't get a chance to respond to your thread on resources, but I've found a lot of good discussion and ideas on CollarMe (or, more specifically, collarchat.com). I haven't found the community as comfortable as this one, and there are a few members who irritate the hell out of me, but it's rather large and has a lot of knowledgeable members. Just be sure you use their search function and/or google (using the 'site:collarchat.com whatever_you're_looking_for' format) before asking a question there.
Thank You! I always find your information and perspective helpful. I think it will take awhile before he asks for things in terms of care of him, mainly because he is always taking care of me. Hard not to love that.
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graceanne said:LOL
Um . . . what's the most fun? Anything that results in sex.
What makes me feel fulfilled? Their isn't one thing, because what he needs differs day to day. He recently had a brief bout with the flu. I rubbed his head to help with his headache, I got up in the middle of the night to give him the cough suppressant so he could sleep (and some more vit c). Today, he's feeling fine. I might clip his nails, or rub his back or do nothing extra, cause he doesn't want anything extra. Although to tell the truth, with the way he keeps groping me whenever the kids aren't watching I think that my mouth's gonna be full tonight.
Grace....I have to agree those results sound nice. Thank you for pointing out that things such as care don't have to revolve around sex to get there. Sometimes I get shy and pull away from the groping but I sure hope he never stops.
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Chicklet said:laundry
no one likes to do laundry. if i do it, nobody else has to
How very domestic of you
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i love being told to take what he gives me
on the less sexual front, i love being able to help him out in any little way i can, whether its rubbing his back, or making his bed, or helping him with work.
on the less sexual front, i love being able to help him out in any little way i can, whether its rubbing his back, or making his bed, or helping him with work.
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Chicklet said:
Wow! Lucky him. I have to say there is a certain satisfaction having all of those things done, being able to look around and know that you did it yourself.
SweetErika
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Please say you have a twin who likes women and lives a couple of hours north of you.Chicklet said:
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I think that perhaps my favorite task was to go into a pharmacy, purchase 3 items, condoms, lube and an enema kit. They were to be the only purchases and I was to make the purchase through a male staff only.
Of course I had to not only have the items when we next met but the receipt.
...and the little snot had the gall to tell me to have a "nice night" with an adolescent grin on his face.
Of course I had to not only have the items when we next met but the receipt.
...and the little snot had the gall to tell me to have a "nice night" with an adolescent grin on his face.
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I love having dinner ready when she gets home. It doesn't always happen (work, kids, etc sometimes make it impossible) but the look on her face is worth any hassle it took to do it.
And she gets cranky when she's hungry. So it fixes that potential problem right up.
Good topic, I'm going to keep up with this one a bit.
And she gets cranky when she's hungry. So it fixes that potential problem right up.
Good topic, I'm going to keep up with this one a bit.
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Chicklet said:
Man, ohhh man, where were the girls like you when I was dating?
Best thing a girl ever did, outside of the bedroom was "Detail my house."
In a nighty, she cleaned the kitchen from the top down. After about 3 hours of this, I eventaully got involved and cleaned the hell out of my bedroom. Moved the bed, etc. I found the hair clips, panties, etc of dates past.
I have hard wood floors. Which are a PIA when you live near the beach. I was actually quite proud when I saw indentions from the frame pushing into the floor.
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We have a few set instructions for her.
Some of my favourites... cup of tea in the morning (she hates hot drinks first thing)..
"little girl" pyjamas (preferably with sheep on them heh) every night by 8pm sharp if we're inside.
Always take off my boots/shoes when I come into the house.
I suppose a lot of it is non sexual, we have our sexual stuff too of course, but those are the three which I particularly enjoy. Boring eh
Some of my favourites... cup of tea in the morning (she hates hot drinks first thing)..
"little girl" pyjamas (preferably with sheep on them heh) every night by 8pm sharp if we're inside.
Always take off my boots/shoes when I come into the house.
I suppose a lot of it is non sexual, we have our sexual stuff too of course, but those are the three which I particularly enjoy. Boring eh
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sexual or no...I was asking about favorites
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SweetErika said:Please say you have a twin who likes women and lives a couple of hours north of you.
No, if there is one she needs to live in the UK
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I did a thread on tasks some time back. I don't really have anything to add to what I said there except that I HATE failing at a task despite my best efforts. Even if HE doesn't blame me it really bothers me.
Okay, here is my old thread about tasks. I think there were some in there that I REALLY enjoyed. I hope you will find it somewhat interesting.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631
Fury
Okay, here is my old thread about tasks. I think there were some in there that I REALLY enjoyed. I hope you will find it somewhat interesting.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631
Fury
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My favorite is quite simple. I like having my nails clipped and filed. It's soothing having her hold my hand as clips and files my nails. It's been too long since had it done.
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FurryFury said:I did a thread on tasks some time back. I don't really have anything to add to what I said there except that I HATE failing at a task despite my best efforts. Even if HE doesn't blame me it really bothers me.
Okay, here is my old thread about tasks. I think there were some in there that I REALLY enjoyed. I hope you will find it somewhat interesting.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631
Fury
Fury: Thank you!
Guess I didn't do my homework. *pouts*
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Hisbabydoll26 said:Fury: Thank you!
Watch that pouting! You'll put my eye out with those things! JK!
I wasn't trying to imply that you hadn't done your homework. I think starting a new thread about something is fine. I just said most everything I could think of about tasks in that thread and I'm feeling lazy~
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