What is the age difference between you and your SO? What is your limit if you're single?

My former lover and current wife is 10 years younger than me. The age gap was one of main reasons I resisted for so long when she first started chasing after me. (The other two being she was already in a relationship, and I was just not sexually interested in her). I’d only slept with two other women younger than me before both drunken flings in that year and was feeling guilty about those. with a gap of (2 and 4 years younger). However not my biggest age gap by a long shot I seemed to attract loud, often obnoxious older women rebounding off failed marriages and relationships in my late teens up to twenty when I got the hang of swerving them not sure what the largest gap was in excess of 25 years at least. I don’t know what age gap I could sleep with now, by the age of 17 I had realised that nearly all of the women I was attracted to were between 22 and 27 as I’ve got older this if anything has got more acute as my sex drive has fallen away so I guess about 26 at present and going up each year, if I ever get drunk enough to overcome my self revulsion it hitting on a woman that much younger than me whose interested, so very unlikely.
I'm 50 my wife is 73
 
6 months. Back in my 20’s probably 20-25 year older would be my limit. Banged a few mid to late 30’s but no 40’s. Now at 55. They would have to be incredibly fit for anyone older than 60, so five years. Younger, maybe 20 years any younger and I’d feel uncomfortable.
 
Younger, maybe 20 years any younger and I’d feel uncomfortable.

my lovers are typically between 18-28.

I had that uncomfortable feeling once with an 18 year old when I was 42 and broke up with her. What a mistake that was.

Tried women around my age; what a disappointment they were!

Young women are softer, juicier, prettier, more appreciative and more emotionally available.

There are reasons cultures celebrate young fertile women.
 
I am 26 and prefer dating above 35 and the limit tends to be around 70.

I have dated older men for the majority of my later teenage years. At 18 my first “real” boyfriend was 28.

I also have been a sugar baby for a few older men. They tend to be great lovers, the type to always cum last, which is something men my own age struggle with.
 
I am 26 and prefer dating above 35 and the limit tends to be around 70.

I have dated older men for the majority of my later teenage years. At 18 my first “real” boyfriend was 28.

I also have been a sugar baby for a few older men. They tend to be great lovers, the type to always cum last, which is something men my own age struggle with.
Always always always , ladies first , unless she insists otherwise. For me my f partners pleasure is everything..
 
I'm 6 years younger than my wife.

Before I married I have been with partners up to 25 years older than me and 10 years younger
 
Always always always , ladies first , unless she insists otherwise. For me my f partners pleasure is everything..
Alwasys. My preference is to have the lady orgasm at least once or twice before me. Orally is my preference but I do what i have to do. A woman who is so turned on that just the slightest touch of my tounge send her flying is ready for me!
 
I am 26 and prefer dating above 35 and the limit tends to be around 70.

I have dated older men for the majority of my later teenage years. At 18 my first “real” boyfriend was 28.

I also have been a sugar baby for a few older men. They tend to be great lovers, the type to always cum last, which is something men my own age struggle with.
Older guys have the sense to know making sure she is satisfied and happy means she'll keep coming back for more ;)
 
I’m eight years older than my wife.

The single rule of thumb of a socially acceptable age difference was half your age plus seven. I was 30 when we met, she was 22.

1/2 X 30 =15 plus 7 = 22 so it actually worked out for me. Interestingly enough, Theresa E. DiDonato Ph.D wrote an article about it in Psychology Today mentioning that it doesn’t work for everyone, but it’s a popular rule of thumb.
 
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