What is something you thought you'd hate 'til you tried it?

[BlondGirl]

When I was a newbie--interested yet still horrified and feeling a bit guilty--I had a zillion limits. (Still do, as a matter of fact.) There were some that I thought there was no way I'd ever participate in. I would venture a guess that we wera/are all that way.
What was something that you did an about face on?


For me, one was breast play. I never really liked having my breast messed with before and some guy slobering all over my tits because he thought it would get me off always made me fight the urge to yawn and end the date early. After I got into SM, I learned how much fun these tits can be. I just needed more than slobbers to make it good. I loved clamps for a few years (had a bad experience though--haven't gotten back into that yet), caning, breast binding is a fave (this REALLY horrified me at first), and I have the sweetest little breast/pussy whip that goes so well on my tits now.

 

[LisaFunOne1]

i admit to once thinking id hate being a submissive

 

[MissTaken]

Well, firstly, I was terribly afraid and turned off by breast bondage. A friend sent me pics, early on, of the bound breasted lady with welts from a single tail. That scared the pants off me...well almost.

But now, breast play, gentle or a bit more harsh is some of my favorite stuff.

I have a long list of stuff , but want to wait for more responses.

 

[Desdemona]

When I first began to explore, I was terrified of anything that might induce pain. I have to laugh when I think of that now.

Snooze calls me His "little painslut".

 

[Desdemona]

When I first began to explore the world of BDSM, I was terrified of anything that induced pain or looked like it would induce pain. That includes, clamps, flogging, caning, crops, wax, vampire gloves, etc. Now, I can't get enough.


Suffice it to say that Snooze calls me His "little painslut". LOL

 

[James G 5]

I find certain things that once disgusted me becoming more & more appealing
When I first got in to BDSM, fisting seemed horrifying
then I saw it & then got ot DO it to someone and now it's a favorite

In FACT, I get to meet Deborah Addington & attend a seminar with her on it Saturday, YAY!

 

[white_mage_goddess]

There were a lot of things I had no idea i would end up enjoying. I can remember thinking that anything anal was just disgusting and now I love it. I used to laugh at the idea of people actually enjoying things like spanking, wax play, whipping, knife play...I thought a person had to be nuts to be into that....then I met someone who introduced me to bdsm and little by little I found out that I enjoyed all those things and more.

 

[Netzach]

Bottoming in any way shape or form.

Urethral sounds took a bit of getting used to, the first time I saw a metal rod slide into a rod, I nearly passed out. Now I like them. Not bottoming in any way shape or form to that one, though, no way!

 

[bunny bondage]

i've recently acquired a love of giving blow jobs. i always hated them until fairly recently. i'm not sure exactly what changed, but i think a big part of it was that i've finally allowed myself to feel that special kind of love which only comes from submitting.

 

[Summery]

Fortunately, I have always been a rather open minded person. Though, I will admit some things I used to have no interest in, or otherwise thought of to be a turn off, are now things I very much enjoy. Such as, spankings, anal play and anal sex, wax play, restraints, to list a few things. All it really took was finding the right partner and trust, and it opened up a whole new world of opportunity to explore my own sexuality, wants, needs and desires.

 

[sub princess]

Well, I always knew that I liked to be spanked, but at one point thought I'd hate the use of any implements, ie. flogger, crop, belt, cane, etc.. But as Des said, I am now lovingly deemed a "painslut" by Master. I love the belt most, but am ambivalent still about the cane.

 

[lobito]

sex

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Watersports was on every hard limits list i ever made. I recently revised the list. While this may seem repugnant to some, that really has no significance to me. This is my journey, and this journey never ceases to amaze me, not only for these acts that i accomplish with His guidance, but their significance to my inner self.

~anelize

 

[catalina_francisco]

Watersports and extreme scat activities were 2 things on my list clearly marked no, never, impossible......well that has changed as I find nothing is ever too much for Master to expect of me, just takes the right approach, lots of patience, and my own working continuously on my mental thought processes. So he succeeds where no-one else was even allowed to try.

Catalina

 

[zanna]

anything anal...i found out differently.

Limits are a fuzzy page with me. i know i have them, but when i try to find them, i end up with a crossed out list of "maybe's" b/c i find i am too annoyingly curious about many things to say a definite hard no. It is not necessarily that i find them arousing or don't...it is just a wow i wonder what that would be like kind of thing rather than no way in hell. i think my limits will be something i discover as i go along.

And more importantly, somewhere in there is the idea that when we began this, i thought i knew Him so very well, what He would do, what He would not. i don't think that anymore! With that has come the knowledge that i better be prepared for anything He decides, too.

 

[serijules]

Hmmm a few things actually, not the things I'd thought I would have as limits in the beginning. I was always willing to try nearly anything pain/sensation wise and have proven to love them all (bullwhip, caning, breast play, anal play, wax, knife play, etc) but some of the more mental things I had blocks on.

One being blindfolds...still is a very hard limit, and there is only one person I would even consider pushing that one with (my Domme) but oddly enough, lately I've been craving trying it, but just is scary, not sure how I will react.

Ageplay is another limit, and one I doubt I'll ever not have as a limit. Roleplay, however, used to be a limit and while I don't really get much out of it, I have participated in a few roleplays at a party and it was fun, but more so just for being a part of the fun and games with my friends rather than getting much out of the roleplay itself. I was surprised that I enjoyed it at all though.

I never had much interest in bondage. It never really was a limit, rather just didn't see how spending hours playing with rope could offer anything I would enjoy. I did an awesome hours-long scene with japanese rope bondage recently, and caning, that was just great...really changed my mind on that big time. I still hate the looks of breast bondage though, nothing is uglier to me than purple, swollen breasts. I've had it done to me once and sensation-wise it was very nice, but I just couldn't stand how it looked.

The first time I saw someone get caned, I didn't think I would ever be able to handle that, and now it is my absolute favourite implement, on many parts of my body. yummy.

Some things I haven't tried yet but are curious about is electric/violet wand play and fire play.

 

[lovetoread]

sex

Then what we did was what???? lol


Anyway, for me I didnt want to do watersports or naked pictures.

I have since changed.

 

[serijules]

ahh, naked picture/nudity...another thing I thought I'd never do...my Domme got me past this one too, quite easily...

 

[Etoile]

I used to think of blowjobs as a chore, but I've learned otherwise. Enemas are still distasteful and annoying, but they're mostly used as punishment for me (in addition to their utility) and I can appreciate that in its own way.

 

[lobito]

Then what we did was what???? lol


Anyway, for me I didnt want to do watersports or naked pictures.

I have since changed.

Naked pics for me, but no water sports. Except jet skiing, and tubing.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

honestly enough...the thought of being submissive to any one for any reason ever...i have since changed my mind!!!!!! (most of the other things...well i did them long before i realized they were part of the bdsm lifestyle but submission? Nah was not for me!!!) Damn...was I wrong!!!

 

[FungiUg]

Peanut butter and jam (er, that's "jelly" for you Americans) sandwiches.

Honestly, I can't think of anything else! Maybe I know myself too well?

Oh, wait a minute. Japanese food. That's another. Acupuncture?

BDSM for me was something I've always been itching to try! I just couldn't believe people did it outside of fantasies. I was way pleased to discover how wrong I was!

 

[InnerDarkness]

peek a boo

I think naked pictures (of myself ) are something that I have always held as something that was beyond me. Mostly because of fear, scandal, etc. I have a job that depends heavily upon my image and my ability to represent a department and in turn an institution...so...any nudie pics pose a great risk. I am now learning how to gently move beyond that...it is tough..and still scary, but I am learning

 

[Etoile]

Peanut butter and jam (er, that's "jelly" for you Americans) sandwiches.

Hey, Americans have jam too! It's not the same thing as jelly. Jam has more bits of the real fruit in it, while jelly is just the juices with pectin.

 

[Etoile]

Re: peek a boo

I think naked pictures (of myself ) are something that I have always held as something that was beyond me. Mostly because of fear, scandal, etc. I have a job that depends heavily upon my image and my ability to represent a department and in turn an institution...so...any nudie pics pose a great risk. I am now learning how to gently move beyond that...it is tough..and still scary, but I am learning

It interests me that some people above are leery of doing naked pictures...it never occurred to me not to! I was in On Our Backs (link in my sig) when I was 19. It was before I got into BDSM, but even now I wouldn't have a problem with it - I might end up modeling for Darkplay at some point. My parents know about my nudie pics, my mother has seen the pictures, and while I don't plan to be a politician I'm not ashamed if an employer knows either. (They don't, and I wouldn't tell them, but if they found out then it's their own searching and their own fault.)