what is one thing that will kill the mood during sex

[Justine42D]

Calling me degrading names like slut is a big turn off.

 

[albertaboy]

Farting isn't good.

 

[twister947]

Her husband.

 

[fgarvb1]

I found that firing up a smoke while I'm going down on a woman will make me Not want to do that or anything else!

Damned rude it is.

Although the explanation was plausable...no thank you please.

 

[Justine42D]

Farting isn't good.

Yeah your right it's not good

 

[Emerson40]

Never had it happen to me, but texting or answering your cell phone during would be a big turn off.

 

[HeyAll]

Never had it happen to me, but texting or answering your cell phone during would be a big turn off.

That might be a turn on because the person on the other end of the line has no idea what's going on.

 

[sans_sheriff]

Right when the two of you have a great rhythm going, she says whoa wait a sec. Then you sit there for a sec while she waits and does nothing but, I'm guessing, get her mind back in the game. You can feel yourself deflating and then she says let's go some more.

Very frustrating.

 

[Zulae]

Calling me degrading names like slut is a big turn off.

This. 100%.

Also him trying to force a fantasy on me and not getting the little hints that I don't like it until I really have to speak up.

 

[nights1717]

recently

Recently me and this girl where fucking and normally she gets off on some dirty talk, but this time she laughed
and it just killed me
dead
in the middle of it all

Guess we where just on different pages at the time

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Dog jumping on the bed.

 

[vortex_]

Calling me degrading names like slut is a big turn off.

You're in the minority with that opinion, at least from what I've seen.

Or maybe you haven't clicked with a man enough to be comfortable with dirty talk.

 

[JudasIscariot]

Most may disagree

But a major turn off for me is a condom, I well and truly hate trying to fuck with one on, there not comfortable and completely ruin every element of sex from the build up all the way to the feeling of it.

 

[vibes]

Most may disagree

But a major turn off for me is a condom, I well and truly hate trying to fuck with one on, there not comfortable and completely ruin every element of sex from the build up all the way to the feeling of it.

It's not a question of disagreement but, unless you are on a well trusted relationship, it's better than getting some nasty gift

 

[vibes]

You're in the minority with that opinion, at least from what I've seen.

Or maybe you haven't clicked with a man enough to be comfortable with dirty talk.

Not sure about that: I've been on these forums for quite a long time and have had the impression that claiming to be an anal sex porn star or wanting to be someone's cock slut is somewhat the cool way to behave on Lit but there are a lot of ladies on here who are just quiet about it as they obviously don't appreciate it and that makes it look like the opposite is the majority

 

[Chocochipnips]

turn off

"say my name" or "how good is it" both will kill my vibe quickly!

 

[DrRickMarshall]

Uncontrollable laughing because something stupid gets stuck in your head that you can't shake!

 

[vortex_]

Most may disagree

But a major turn off for me is a condom, I well and truly hate trying to fuck with one on, there not comfortable and completely ruin every element of sex from the build up all the way to the feeling of it.

Agreed wholeheartedly

Also, her clearly not being in the mood. I can't do anything to her when she's not enjoying it.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Leaning on her hair. Screaming is a good thing, but not when it involves tears and "Get off my hair now, Goddamnit!"

 

[30bandits]

her saying "no."

 

[Yachtsman69]

Dog jumping on the bed.

Ha... recently had the dog jump up on the bed and start licking my ass as I was inside my wife. Definite turn off, especially since my wife was laughing uncontrollably ...

 

[SweetLittleFox]

Being right in the middle of it and hearing "you look so much like your mother"

 

[vibes]

Being right in the middle of it and hearing "you look so much like your mother"

It didn't really happen, did it?

 

[Emerson40]

Being right in the middle of it and hearing "you look so much like your mother"

Was your partner at least looking at your face? It'd be a sudden turn off for sure if said during the oral negotiations.




One of the participants nodding off would probably pull the wind out of the sexy sails.

 

[Beck31]

Having the telly switched on.