What is it with Glamour Shots?

Bob_Bytchin

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Why is it, that whenever I ask a woman I've met on the 'net to send me a photo, I get a glamour shot. Those damn things can be deceiving. Now, I'm not all about looks, but when I get a photo like that sent to me, I can't help but wonder what the woman is hiding.

So why do women insist on sending Glamour Shots?
 
Bob_Bytchin said:
Why is it, that whenever I ask a woman I've met on the 'net to send me a photo, I get a glamour shot. Those damn things can be deceiving. Now, I'm not all about looks, but when I get a photo like that sent to me, I can't help but wonder what the woman is hiding.

So why do women insist on sending Glamour Shots?
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For the same reason we send them pictures of porno stars. It helps them to get laid.
 
*bratcat* said:
I prefer to send the justfuckedwithbedhead look.

That's definitely more realistic, and interesting than a photo that obviously isn't what a person looks like in everyday circumstances.
 
I Always Look Fucking Great!

:D

Get Over It...Meet Her Then You'll Know...What's With All These Men Who Are Such Chickenshits, That They Can't Even Come And Meet A Chick Without Talking To Her For Weeks And Weeks And Looking At Every Picture She Has In Her Collection?
 
Re: I Always Look Fucking Great!

RudeNastyAssBitch said:
:D

Get Over It...Meet Her Then You'll Know...What's With All These Men Who Are Such Chickenshits, That They Can't Even Come And Meet A Chick Without Talking To Her For Weeks And Weeks And Looking At Every Picture She Has In Her Collection?

AMEN!


:D
 
People like to present themseves as best they can.

You might try asking for another pic, and you might try chatting with a webcam in use.

What makes you think she is hiding something, simply because she sends a glamour shot?
 
I never said I was looking to meet anyone in real life. I was just curious as to why women insist on sending glamour shots, when it's not the way they normally look. I get these photos from women who I never intend to meet, or say that I will meet, just as I get them from women I do plan to meet, and do meet.

It just seems that either side is setting themselves up for disappointment by sending photos that don't depict the "real deal."
 
Re: I Always Look Fucking Great!

RudeNastyAssBitch said:
:D

Get Over It...Meet Her Then You'll Know...What's With All These Men Who Are Such Chickenshits, That They Can't Even Come And Meet A Chick Without Talking To Her For Weeks And Weeks And Looking At Every Picture She Has In Her Collection?

LOL, I love it!:D
 
*bratcat* said:
Do you send out pictures of you just after you have mowed the lawn and you are all dirty and sweaty??

My wife likes me that way!

:D
 
*bratcat* said:

Do you send out pictures of you just after you have mowed the lawn and you are all dirty and sweaty??

Damn, I'll have to get out my camera the next time I mow the lawn. I guess the photo of me with a bra on my head and a rubber chicken in my hand isn't the right kind of photo. :)
 
Personally, I'd never do a "Glamor Shot". I wear very little make up, as a rule. I'm no beauty queen and I don't try to pretend to be one.
 
Bob_Bytchin said:
I never said I was looking to meet anyone in real life. I was just curious as to why women insist on sending glamour shots, when it's not the way they normally look. I get these photos from women who I never intend to meet, or say that I will meet, just as I get them from women I do plan to meet, and do meet.

It just seems that either side is setting themselves up for disappointment by sending photos that don't depict the "real deal."

I can relate. Many guys send me pics from years ago, and its very decepitive, but it isn't always by ill intent, sometimes its all they have.
And yes, I have met some that look nothing like they presented themselves online...and some that look even better.
However, its a very good thing I dont place such empahsis on looks....its nice, but often I correspond with people and have no idea what they look like...the attraction for me is so much more. I prefer to feel them through their words, not just through the way their pics make me feel...though that can be a very good thing too.

Surely I have PMS???:rolleyes: Not a bit of what I wtrote makes sense. :)
 
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*bratcat* said:
(adding that I hate the fact that I can type fast cause I keep getting the "you can only post one thing every 30 seconds" message :rolleyes: )

I thought I was the only one who got those.

Unfortunately, they're probably necessary to keep down the number of posts that consist of only "Five thousand and one" or something like that.
 
My favorite is when guys tell me "I'm gonna send you my picture" - and it's only of their dick LOL cuz I mean, it's not like I'd be interested in their eyes, or lips, or shoulders or anything, right?
 
*bratcat* said:


To be honest here...I believe that a woman will send a picture of herself that makes her feel good. Why would a woman send a first picture to a perfect stranger showing herself at her worst?

Do you send out pictures of you just after you have mowed the lawn and you are all dirty and sweaty??

Sorry, I meant to send those pics to someone else. She's into lawnmowers. ;)
 
I Agree With This

intrigued said:
People like to present themseves as best they can.

You might try asking for another pic, and you might try chatting with a webcam in use.

What makes you think she is hiding something, simply because she sends a glamour shot?

Not everyone has a nefarious plot to deceive others by putting their best face forward. However, one who does put forward just such an image should also make sure to advise that they might not actually look that way in the new light of the morning's dawn!!I prefer to put my everyday face forward and let the rest sort itself out in the fullness of time!!! Honesty is the best policy!!! And damn safe too!!!
 
peachykeen said:
My favorite is when guys tell me "I'm gonna send you my picture" - and it's only of their dick LOL cuz I mean, it's not like I'd be interested in their eyes, or lips, or shoulders or anything, right?

Ditto on that. Like I always say, I'd much rather see a picture of your face than your gynocological records.
 
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