FriskyVagina
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- May 30, 2002
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My new boyfriend wants to tie me up and spank me. Is that a form of BDSM or is it just kinky? I've known him for a few months, and I'm just now discovering some things. He talks about how he likes sexually submissive women. And he says things to me like "Be a good girl or I'll get my whip out and make you scream!" Should I be scared? Is this normal? He doesn't seem violent.
During sex he has started holding me down. He pins my wrists to the bed. To me that seems like a dominant display. I suppose I could get into this if I understood it better. I just don't want to become involved with someone that's... potentially dangerous.
So, is this kind of behavior "normal"?
During sex he has started holding me down. He pins my wrists to the bed. To me that seems like a dominant display. I suppose I could get into this if I understood it better. I just don't want to become involved with someone that's... potentially dangerous.
So, is this kind of behavior "normal"?