What is "Casual" Sex?

[fit_sexual_male50]

What is "casual sex" to you? Is it merely fornication, devoid of emotional depth? Or an affirmative acknowledgement of our sexual nature, celebrating our mutual humanity. Can strangers share deeply personal sexual love for one another in a meaningful, emotionally satisfying way?

 

[Wordsworth]

I would deem any sex that begins with less than black tie to be casual.

 

[capri31]

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[screwher]

My wife

Casual sex is when after all these years you're still crazy in love, and lust, for your husband. But after years of monogamy you start to feel sexually restless and want to experience new things. So you become attracted to a good looking guy at work. Then soon you spend a Saturday night in his bed getting your brains screwed out.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

I always considered casual sex to be sex in a one night stand or with a FWB. I don't think it's necessarily void of emotion, as I think there is always some kind of emotion in sex. It just doesn't have relationship baggage to it and is a means of scratching a physical itch.

 

[VampirTARA]

with me I consider casual sex, a one-time deal having sexual intercourse with someone or like when I just met some old man ( a stranger ) at the bar and ended up giving them a blowjob... there's no relationship or emotional attachment... it's just sex...

 

[Hypoxia]

Casual sex is what just happens. You're canvassing door-to-door and are invited in for a fuck. You're at an outdoor festival and they crawl in your sleeping bag. You're at a music thing and you bend over for the guy behind you. You're at a bar or club and are taken upstairs or outside, maybe to a car seat.

No, those are all anonymous sex. Casual sex can be an old friend inviting you in for the night. Or an ex during a divorce before they hate you. Or the gerbil-pile at the hot spring. Or any orgy you crash. Or the distraught sibling. Those are all pretty casual.

 

[Bigspurt]

I had a FB in college. We would meet up and have a nice fuck and move on. We were friends more than in love. It was convenient and satisfying.

I would love to run into her sometime and do it again.

 

[MaryanneB]

I see it as a fuck and run thing. My "casual sex" occurs with men I have a link to but love isn't involved.

 

[Bigspurt]

I see it as a fuck and run thing. My "casual sex" occurs with men I have a link to but love isn't involved.

As in my experience, I think it could recur occasionally.

 

[suckonsimon]

I'm thinking on this one ...

I have NEVER had casual sex as generally understood, and yet ...
I'm thinking that one of the many moods of our sex as a couple married a long time with a fantastically fulfilling sex life for both of us - one or two of the moods of our sex sessions are very 'casual' indeed: It may be that it's just a lot of fun! Else it's sparked by a real horn about something that's not our relationship, such as she's all heated by the flirtations of another man or some dude on the telly she's crushing on; or we've been enjoying the stash of erotic couples images I download from here to show her from time to time, and then it's about ... arousal, lust, pleasure, for me prowess, for her the joy of an easy build to orgasmic bliss ...

That stuff not casual?

 

[capri31]

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[blowit]

Is it when a chap doesn't have to wear a tie and jacket?

 

[CindyCD478]

"Casual sex" is sex for fun as opposed to "making love" which is what you do when you are alone with your spouse or significant other. In other words, when we attend parties with our bisexual swingers group, pick up guys and gals at a bar, or have our neighbors over for a fun swapping evening, that is "casual sex". When we are at home with only each other, that is "making love".

 

[maverick51]

A one night stand.

 

[Porkwarrior]

EVERYBODY needs an FWB that can make them laugh naked in bed after giving them an orgasm.

And then leave.

 

[policywank]

To me it implies sex without expectations that it leads to or implies anything more than a shared interest in a mutually enjoyable experience. It need not be devoid of feeling or emotion - there is a whole range between love and indifference.

I have casual sex with men I know, see regularly and for whom I have genuine affection. I don't confuse that emotion with love, let it interfere with my marriage or accept from or impose upon those sex partners any expectations (not to say it never happens but if does I take corrective action).

 

[Porkwarrior]

A one night stand.

Nah that isn't "casual sex"
That's the story you tell your FWB before going home to your husband & kids...


K, I'm going to share my "losing my virginity story"
The first woman I slept with, I have no idea what her name was. We were drinking at somebody's parents house, we ended up in the same siblings bed staring at glow in the dark stars on the ceiling, and she just asked "wanna fuck?"
I was 15. And even the next morning that felt unsatisfying even to my horned up teenaged ass.

That is "Stranger Sex"

"Casual Sex" is an FWB calling you up for a booty call, and ending up having a blowjob in a church parking lot that turns into a hairpulling fuck on the car hood, and you both leave wanting more, but can't say it.

 

[EctoJohn]

In my mind, it's any time you have sex with someone you're not in a relationship with.
I would say it's just just for fun and not because you're in love, but that would imply that sex with a loved one is not fun, and that's not right.

 

[mikendel]

Hubby's friend stops by to visit. Tells hubby how hot I am and how lucky he is to have me. I hear this and tell the friend his was is lucky to have him. He laughs and says I wish but she never wants sex. I fuck him and send him home. Casual sex.

 

[suckonsimon]

Hubby's friend stops by to visit. Tells hubby how hot I am and how lucky he is to have me. I hear this and tell the friend his was is lucky to have him. He laughs and says I wish but she never wants sex. I fuck him and send him home. Casual sex.

And if he says, "She can't get enough of me! Calls me her fuck stud!" ... might there be casual sex?

 

[mikendel]

And if he says, "She can't get enough of me! Calls me her fuck stud!" ... might there be casual sex?

Well would have to see if she is right about him. So yes.

 

[suckonsimon]

Well would have to see if she is right about him. So yes.

Nicely.

 

[CindyCD478]

Hubby's friend stops by to visit. Tells hubby how hot I am and how lucky he is to have me. I hear this and tell the friend his was is lucky to have him. He laughs and says I wish but she never wants sex. I fuck him and send him home. Casual sex.

Instead of sending him home after you fuck him, how about he fucks hubby and hubby fucks him. That's how ir would work at our house.

 

[R_Rich16]

with me I consider casual sex, a one-time deal having sexual intercourse with someone or like when I just met some old man ( a stranger ) at the bar and ended up giving them a blowjob... there's no relationship or emotional attachment... it's just sex...

wish my wife was like you, give a strange old man a BJ would be hot