What is a good spanking to you?

WriterDom

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Either on the giving, or receiving end.

Receiving end. That's pretty funny.
 
one that allows me to let go and really enjoy it...

WD...what did you do to that cat to tick it off so badly? kinda scary looking there....
 
I dunno.

I've not gotten one that is more than a slap or two.

Is there a certian kind that is better than any other?
 
I'm with you LTR

Only a smack or two because it pleased him
waiting to read others responses.
 
Ummmm

*blushing*

I have definite ideas about how I enjoy a spanking.

WD?

If I bend over, perhaps we could demonstrate!

:eek: ;)
 
well, it depends on my mood, really. if i'm feeling very affectionate and romantic, just a few hard slaps on my ass while we're fucking. but if i'm really worked up, like if He's been teasing me all day, then sometimes it's nice to just have a really intense, long, painful, exhausting spanking. one where part of you is screaming "i can't take it anymore!" and your knees are buckling but another part is just loving it too much to stop. it leaves me with such a sense of release and arousal. infact, that sounds great right about now....

edited for spelling...shouldn't post and drink AND rub my clit
 
lovetoread said:
I dunno.

I've not gotten one that is more than a slap or two.

Is there a certian kind that is better than any other?

Nothing wrong with being a novice spankee. You’d have to wait at least an hour for your first spanking from me. First we’d do some simple D/s play. Having you remove each article of clothing at my leisure. I would help you with the wrist and ankle restraints, and the play collar. Then we’d probably do some nipple play to get an idea of your pain threshold while steadily building your excitement level. Then, if you were good, I might allow you kiss my cock and beg me to let you suck it. Which would probably keep building your excitement, while dropping mine mine way down after I cum. This is a good thing because it allows me to concentrate better on you. We’d review the safe words, and I’d tell you if you want to use yellow, it’s ok, but fight it as long as you can. I’d cuff your hands behind your back to avoid the natural tendency to reach back and block the blows when things get more intense.

I would start with touching and squeezing your bottom, then very light spanks to warm your skin. Then I would stick two fingers in your tight pussy, and tell you what a naughty girl you are to be so wet. That would begin a cycle of fingering, and increasing harder spanks. Just a few on each cheek. Then finger fucking you. Till either you start to cum or we reach yellow. Cumming while you are being spanked is fun. If instead, we got to yellow, I’d stop and rub the sting out your ass, and pet your hair telling you how wonderful your are and how proud I was to spank such a pretty ass. And that as a reward, I’m going to fuck you from behind.

:p
 
i, um...ahem...*clears throat* uh....ok, i was going to post, but something more satisfying has just come to mind....
 
mmmm, spanking....

I'm one of these people that looks at the replies about not having gotten but a smack or two and gets confused. I just can't imagine D/s without spanking. I think that makes me a spanko at heart *grin*

Actually, I was into spanking long before I discovered BDSM and D/s....and now I tie the two things together into the type of BDSM that works for me...and I like spankings of all sorts.

Discipline spankings are the best for me. They do good things for me, make me feel secure and push parts of my pysche that desire to be pushed. Very fragile, but very good for me too if done properly.

I love all sorts of implements....but nothing beats (pun intended) a hand spanking. The cane is my favorite. I love hairbrushes and paddles and straps even though they make me squirm and squeal to no end. I like sensual spankings, but admittedly prefer it harder. I love mixing in bondage or nipple play or orgasm denial or any other number of things into a spanking, but usually spanking is the focus of most that I'm involved in. I got bullwhipped on my thighs and bottom not long ago and think of that as just a glorified spanking *grin*
 
my new av puts me in mind of delicious spanking. that particular outfit is perfect for spanking. the pleated skirt lifts easily and the white panties complete the scene pulled down around my knees. you can barely see them in the pic, but i'm glad i spotted it before showing the photo to all my friends!
 
WriterDom said:
Nothing wrong with being a novice spankee. You’d have to wait at least an hour for your first spanking from me. First we’d do some simple D/s play. Having you remove each article of clothing at my leisure. I would help you with the wrist and ankle restraints, and the play collar. Then we’d probably do some nipple play to get an idea of your pain threshold while steadily building your excitement level. Then, if you were good, I might allow you kiss my cock and beg me to let you suck it. Which would probably keep building your excitement, while dropping mine mine way down after I cum. This is a good thing because it allows me to concentrate better on you. We’d review the safe words, and I’d tell you if you want to use yellow, it’s ok, but fight it as long as you can. I’d cuff your hands behind your back to avoid the natural tendency to reach back and block the blows when things get more intense.

I would start with touching and squeezing your bottom, then very light spanks to warm your skin. Then I would stick two fingers in your tight pussy, and tell you what a naughty girl you are to be so wet. That would begin a cycle of fingering, and increasing harder spanks. Just a few on each cheek. Then finger fucking you. Till either you start to cum or we reach yellow. Cumming while you are being spanked is fun. If instead, we got to yellow, I’d stop and rub the sting out your ass, and pet your hair telling you how wonderful your are and how proud I was to spank such a pretty ass. And that as a reward, I’m going to fuck you from behind.

:p

Is it warm in here, or is it just me?
 
A good spanking is done when my hand starts to really really hurt. Gee... that usually takes hours. ;)

PBW
 
a good spanking for me is a long hard one, spanked over and over again so that the next day it stings and reminds me of the previous spanking. But then again a couple spanks while doing things around the house, or cuddling ect sure makes me horny quick.
 
Warming up

A good spanking is when the spankee can't hold still and is spasming hard enough to need to be held down.

That can be after a few swats while it still stings, or somewhere after 10 - 20 when the burn turns to pleasure :devil:
Of course it does depend on what you are spanking...
:devil:

your mileage will vary

Salty
 
Spanking !!Mmmmm

A good spanking to me starts over his lap on the couch using his hand.The slow build up with butt rubs and wandering fingers and than that cold wet feeling of lube on my rosebud and more hand spanking till his hand is sore and sometimes bruised.Next he will guide me over the table or over anything (i dont care where at this point Ive already had several orgasams and am under his complete control).He leaves me alone to think about whats comming while he fetches implements and sex toys,this is when the fun really starts.He will spank me starting with the lighter implements first and build me up to the heaviest ones always keeping me in the headspace he knows I need to be and want to be with his wonderful verbal skills.Lots of sex toy use and now the orgasams are just constant.After all this lasting anywhere from 3-5 hrs(with breaks of course)he will cane me till he takes me over the edge,you know the time when you cant even speak and breathing is very shallow,my body totally limp in his arms.Takes me a few weeks to get my skin back in shape,but ever so worth it...Now for discipline spankings as soon as I see the restraints in his hands I start to get wet. the feel of the lambs wool linning and the smell of the leather as he puts me in his bonds....nother time once I start on spanking I cant stop.I went on enough for now....lillum
 
Whew!!!

My favorite is when He just turns me over His knee, holding me down with one hand on my back or head, while He uses the other to spank me... I know He is watching squirm and wiggle as He slaps me harder and harder... I can feel the heat spreading over each butt cheek.

Then He will bend me over the bed, and I can hear Him unbuckling His belt... I take a deep breath as I know what is about to happen as He uses the belt on me... I scream a little and attempt to get out of the way and He swings the belt a little harder... stopping between blows to caress my ass and sometimes to kiss it.

His hands and and His belt are my two favorite things... for spanking!
 
I was going to reply to this post yesterday but I am glad I waited. I was originally going to agree with lovetoread and silken_kitten, as I had only had a few smacks during sex. Which was good, but not all that I needed and wanted.

But thanks to you WriterDom and your post, my husband and I had a great night. I shared it with my husband yesterday and he took some ideas from it and put them with what I told him I was interested in, and not only made my over the knee fantasy come true, but made it well worth fulfilling. :)

So to answer the question, for me, at this time, a good spanking is not all about the sting and pain but the ability to be honest about needing that and having that fulfilled. I personally loved not knowing when or where the next slap of his hand or paddle would land and the anticipation and thinking I knew where it was going to be next, only to have the paddle land in a completly different spot. The not knowing intensified the whole experience for me. I do like to feel the pain though, I don't like light smacks without sting to them. So hopefully we will continue and build on these experiences and find our limits.
 
*purrrrring*

Spankings are so wonderful, and so many different types. my personal preference is the warm, open palm spank.. however a heavy, thick paddle, cane, tomato stick or leather slapper will also do the trick..

There is nothing quite like the feeling of your loving Dominants hand caressing your skin softly, fingertips grazing over Your skin in those few, precious moments before the amazing sound of flesh against flesh starts with those beautiful spanks...

Mmmm i am off to purrrr a little...

basque
 
Re: *purrrrring*

His_sugar said:
Spankings are so wonderful, and so many different types. my personal preference is the warm, open palm spank.. however a heavy, thick paddle, cane, tomato stick or leather slapper will also do the trick..


Tomato stick? Hmmm. that's a new one on me. And I was planning on a garden next year.


Spanking toys are fun. You can keep her in suspense, or have her hold the next one in her mouth.
 
Tomato sticks

Tomato sticks make a lovely *cane* of sorts. They are very flexible to a point, much smaller to handle than a cane.. i happen to personally think the impact sting is much stronger than a cane, but that is how i like it..

You can get about 100 at any Gardening store for about 5.00.

Happy playing!

basque
 
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