What if they was gay?

[Devilish1]

I asked a friend of mine today what would they do if their love one suddenly told them they was gay.

How would you react if the one you have been with for a long time just came out of the closet?

Just curious.

 

[Siren]

 

[Tropism]

Um, am I seeing a trend here, Devilish? With you and closets? Maybe a hidden fetish?

 

[Calamity Jane]

I asked a friend of mine today what would they do if their love one suddenly told them they was gay.

How would you react if the one you have been with for a long time just came out of the closet?

Just curious.

Are you asking what I'd do if my husband told me he was gay? Or any ol loved one?

I can think of at least three men I'd set my husband up with as soon as I got over the shock.

I have other family members who are 'family members' I don't recall reacting at all when I realized that they weren't just really close roommates. Does your love for a person really change based on who that person chooses to be intimate with?

 

[InnocentAngel81]

I asked a friend of mine today what would they do if their love one suddenly told them they was gay.

How would you react if the one you have been with for a long time just came out of the closet?

Just curious.

i'd be crushed, my s.o. is my bestest buddy, and I love him to death, after everything we been through and some of the things we planned on doing, it would be totally meaningless, i would be very hurt. then i would have to accept it.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I would rather my husband left me for a man than another woman. If he decided he wanted a man, not even my strapon would be good enough, so I know it was him not me that was the problem of our marriage not staying together.

 

[CarolineOh]

If my ex-husband had sat me down and told me that he was gay, but still wanted to maintain our relationship in some form, I would have tried my best to be a companion and helpmate to him. God knows I compromised in so many other ways for him.
But he didn't, I had to find out by catching him in the act.
So I divorced him, not for being gay, but for his deception and unfaithfulness.

 

[Devilish1]

Um, am I seeing a trend here, Devilish? With you and closets? Maybe a hidden fetish?

Ha Ha! Im not in the closet about anything.. I just havent had sex in there yet..... You offering?

 

[Devilish1]

Re: Re: What if they was gay?

Are you asking what I'd do if my husband told me he was gay? Or any ol loved one?

Does your love for a person really change based on who that person chooses to be intimate with?

The love one being rather it was a husband, wife, girl/boyfriend.

Does your love for a person change? Well, i couldnt stay with someone if they told me they have come out of the closet( hush Tropism lol ) I would still love them but the love i think would change.

 

[sexy-girl]

I asked a friend of mine today what would they do if their love one suddenly told them they was gay.

How would you react if the one you have been with for a long time just came out of the closet?

Just curious.

i'd be happy

 

[Silverluna]

*shrug* mine's bisexual

So i don't have a problem really.....unlesss the one he picks up isn't up for a nice cuddly 3some hehe

 

[Never]

Devilish1:
"I asked a friend of mine today what would they do if their love one suddenly told them they was gay.

How would you react if the one you have been with for a long time just came out of the closet?

Just curious."

I would be shocked and appalled. I would dump them and tell all our friends.

 

[sexy-girl]

do you play golf never ... marxist wants to know

 

[Devilish1]

Re: Re: What if they was gay?

i'd be happy

For some strange reason, i understand your smiley faces.....LOL

 

[DevilBoy79]

Re: Re: What if they was gay?

i'd be crushed, my s.o. is my bestest buddy, and I love him to death, after everything we been through and some of the things we planned on doing, it would be totally meaningless, i would be very hurt. then i would have to accept it.

Ditto, like she said after all we b een through good and bad, but neither of us are so its all good

 

[Tropism]

Ha Ha! Im not in the closet about anything.. I just havent had sex in there yet..... You offering?

Devilish? Is that you? There doesnt seem room for two in there.
http://www.welcometobarbados.org/closet.jpg

The love one being rather it was a husband, wife, girl/boyfriend.

I suppose if I were to find out something like that about a SO, I would still love them, but things would certainly be different. I wouldnt stay with them I dont think; after all, wouldnt they be happier being who they really are?

 

[Devilish1]

Devilish? Is that you? There doesnt seem room for two in there.

LOL nope not me but if it was me, i'd make sure to make plenty of room for you Tropism