What happens ?

[SIC]

I got two questions that i got for you ppl. I just found this forum the other day and i have been reading. Ok here is my first question. why cant i go as deep in some positions as others? Like i have been with my girlfriend for year and month and we have had alot of sex!! Aslo she was with two other guys before me and she said the first time she gave me head you got a "porn penis" and that it is really big. when we first start it was really tight and she was like kinda crying when started having sex but i am a caring guy and i would just stop cause i didnt want to hurt her and she use to feel bad. But now it doesnt hurt to put in there but i can only go deep when i am on top of her and she is laying on her back. And even sometime then i hurt her is it really that big(not being cocky) that its hitting the top? Like i really like doggy but we cant do it much cause i cant go deep and its just hard. Also we have tryed anal a few time but it was a no go and no i aint just trying to push it in there i am start with lube and fingures. If any of the ladies here could give me more tips for what else i could do? I also think she is alittle bit scared but i only do it when she says so but it just doesnt happen and i would like it too.
Thx for any help

 

[SIC]

anyone ?

 

[sheath]

Okay. I'll give this one a shot.

I've been with a man who could only go deep in certain positions...and yes, it was because he was a little too long for it to be comfortable sometimes. In fact, if he took me from behind and got too zealous, it could hurt like HELL. It took a long while for us to figure out certain positions. Anal sex took even longer. But eventually we got it all worked out.

My advice...just go easy. Her body will eventually adjust to yours. Be very open to what she has to say about how it feels...if you think you are hurting her, then start to experiment with different thrust, different positions, different speeds...if you are both determined to find ways that work, you will eventually be able to enjoy any position. But, like I said...it takes a lot of time and a lot of experimenting.

Which isn't necessarily a bad thing.

S.

 

[angela146]

Hmm...

My husband and I sometimes try to get it in deeper than usual and have techniques that seem to work. Maybe if you did the reverse, it would help you *not* go deep...

I pull my knees up to my chest to help him go deep so maybe have her on her back with her legs streight out on the bed. Also, maybe have her put her legs together and you put your legs outside hers.

Doggie style helps us go deeper but sometimes I don't have the energy to stay on all fours. In that case we do a shallower method where I lay flat on my tummy and arch my hips a little. He lays on top of me and enters me in the front. Again, my legs are together and his are straddling me.

He gets lots of stimulation from my thighs around the base of his penis but he doesn't go in very far.

 

[SensualCealy]

I would suggest, doggy too.
Only let her create the rhythm. Letting her slip on and off you instead of you slipping in her. She can take as much as is comfortable and eventually maybe take the whole thing.
Straddling you with her on top may work too, have her up on her feet with them at your hips as you lay on the bed, she can squat over you and do the same, taking only what she needs and get great calf muscles at the same time! One suggestion, have her tilt her pelvis forward at the bottom, that way you arent banging her cervix directly.
Have fun,
Cealy