Middle aged M here, and trying to find new ways of really getting off. WHat does it for you? Strip clubs are too $$$, porn is cheap and sleazy these days. Phone sex? Forget it. Any suggestions? I'm in So CAl. THanks!
I've thought read and seen quite a few things over the years and there are surely lots of fun things to think about and do but the biggest thing that gets me off is knowing that I am pleasuring my wife.
These forums have been an excellent place to find ideas and to research my own ideas.