What does sex feel for women? And men?

[BeautifulEcstasy]

I have many questions about sex and nowhere irl to ask them, lol.

This thread welcomes any questions about sex and is open for everyone to ask and reply.

 

[BeautifulEcstasy]

What does sex feel like for a woman?

Does it feel good with every stroke, all throughout the sex session?

How does a cock feel like in your pussy?

Do you have vaginal orgasms or do you need to have your clit stimulated during sex?

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While I am female, sex hasn't ever felt pleasurable. I just don't feel anything during sex. I enjoy only the emotional bonding component but physically it's "useless". I can get off sometimes on cunnilungus. Masturbation is pretty much how I orgasm most of the time.

I feel envious of women that I see in videos or gifs, or who write about amazing sex - it comes across as some mindblowing experience, which I suppose it is, otherwise there wouldn't be so many people wanting and needing sex, or addicted to it.

Admittedly I have not had many sex partners, but at the end of the day, it seems to me that I'm the one with the faulty equipment here, since with none of my sex partners has sex felt like anything good. It's not bad or painful either. Just feels like nothing at all.

 

[Misterwhisper]

What about fantasies? Do you have fantasies that turn you on?

 

[BeautifulEcstasy]

What about fantasies? Do you have fantasies that turn you on?

I do have fantasies that turn me on, i.e. that get me wet, but they make no difference as to the physical sensations that (are supposed to) come with the actual act of sex (penetration and in/out movements).

 

[Escierto]

What does sex feel like for a woman?

Does it feel good with every stroke, all throughout the sex session?

How does a cock feel like in your pussy?

Do you have vaginal orgasms or do you need to have your clit stimulated during sex?

***************

While I am female, sex hasn't ever felt pleasurable. I just don't feel anything during sex. I enjoy only the emotional bonding component but physically it's "useless". I can get off sometimes on cunnilungus. Masturbation is pretty much how I orgasm most of the time.

I feel envious of women that I see in videos or gifs, or who write about amazing sex - it comes across as some mindblowing experience, which I suppose it is, otherwise there wouldn't be so many people wanting and needing sex, or addicted to it.

Admittedly I have not had many sex partners, but at the end of the day, it seems to me that I'm the one with the faulty equipment here, since with none of my sex partners has sex felt like anything good.

Have you had different partners with different styles of lovemaking? You may have to do some experimentation or work with your partner on your satisfaction. In my experience most women love being fucked and I myself as a bottom for my transgender girlfriend love being fucked too. For me nothing beats being fucked - it’s sublime!

 

[grandprix1041]

Apparently your fantasies help, so perhaps talking to someone about them will help. I'm a great listener