What does it really mean when a man holds your throat while making love?

I asked someone once why he liked to hold my throat. He said it was so he could feel my pulse. He's very tactile, every touch is slow and deliberate to see my reaction...and it's sexy af... and just thinking about him and that conversation can still do things to me. :devil:

*sends him a text*

*swoon*

That's an A+ response on his part. A couple of times my guy has said in response to my 'Why do you like doing XYZ? questions, 'I love to see your skin quiver'.

Sigh.
 
It means he loves me, he really loves me. :devil::catroar:

I almost choked reading some of the comments. Joking :D

*Giggling*
 
*swoon*

That's an A+ response on his part. A couple of times my guy has said in response to my 'Why do you like doing XYZ? questions, 'I love to see your skin quiver'.

Sigh.

Ohhh... damn. That would have kept me quivering!
 
Maybe he's checking for an Adam's Apple. Or maybe he's amateurishly measuring you for a necklace he's going to surprise you with for Christmas. Or maybe he's a big Homer Simpson fan.
 
Yeah. To me, that’s love. Give me all your fluids.

I was thinking about you the other day after we'd had a good throat-fucking session and he was saying how much he liked seeing the threads of saliva connecting us after I pulled off him ... he literally said 'it's like they're pulling me back into you'.

More sigh.
 
I was thinking about you the other day after we'd had a good throat-fucking session and he was saying how much he liked seeing the threads of saliva connecting us after I pulled off him ... he literally said 'it's like they're pulling me back into you'.

More sigh.

Gahhh!!!

You’re not the first person who said you’ve thought of me while sucking cock.
Do I have a rep? Now I’m all shy, an’ shit.
 
Gahhh!!!

You’re not the first person who said you’ve thought of me while sucking cock.
Do I have a rep? Now I’m all shy, an’ shit.

I think it's cute that we all have flashes of Lit conversations/threads during sex. Actually, now I think about it, once or twice I've been talking to my guy about something we're playing around with, and he's said 'you need to have a chat with your online buddies' (not those actual words, but something to that effect) ... it's good to have somewhere to 'normalise' the stuff my RL friends would think was a bit weird.
 
I think it's cute that we all have flashes of Lit conversations/threads during sex. Actually, now I think about it, once or twice I've been talking to my guy about something we're playing around with, and he's said 'you need to have a chat with your online buddies' (not those actual words, but something to that effect) ... it's good to have somewhere to 'normalise' the stuff my RL friends would think was a bit weird.

That’s why I’m here. I need to talk about this. It’s important to me, and I can’t with my in the flesh GFs.
 
As for the original question: it means he's watched too much bad porn.
 
As for the original question: it means he's watched too much bad porn.

Because it's not your forte, you automatically lump it with 'bad porn'? My idea of 'bad porn' is people who are afraid to explore.
Do you only eat vanilla ice cream?

Asking for a friend.
 
Because it's not your forte, you automatically lump it with 'bad porn'? My idea of 'bad porn' is people who are afraid to explore.
Do you only eat vanilla ice cream?

Asking for a friend.

My definition of 'bad porn' is they still have socks on and/or there's dirty laundry in shot somewhere.
 
Because it's not your forte, you automatically lump it with 'bad porn'? My idea of 'bad porn' is people who are afraid to explore.
Do you only eat vanilla ice cream?

Asking for a friend.

Don’t waste your time. That was a knee jerk reaction from someone who hasn’t explored too much.
And I love vanilla. With a side of choke fuck.

Let it go. :)
 
Because it's not your forte, you automatically lump it with 'bad porn'? My idea of 'bad porn' is people who are afraid to explore.
Do you only eat vanilla ice cream?

Asking for a friend.

Well, because I assume it would be something that the partners would have discussed forehand, or that would be in the general mileau of that relationship. Not just something you should automatically do with anyone you are with. Like anal. Note where this is -- this isn't the BDSM forum.
 
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