What does "Grinding the Corn" mean to you??

How do you "Grind the Corn"?

  • Alone with fingers or toys

    Votes: 6 28.6%
  • My lover's mouth

    Votes: 1 4.8%
  • My lover's cock or strap-on

    Votes: 2 9.5%
  • All or any combination of the above

    Votes: 5 23.8%
  • None of the above. Mashed corn sounds painful!!

    Votes: 7 33.3%

  • Total voters
    21

uptoplay2

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I'm not sure this is worthy of a thread, but this term came the show "Six Feet Under" In the episode linked below, a female character was treated to an oral method that concentrated on her clit to help her achieve her very first orgasm. In a sense her clit was ground in hard against her pelvis by her lover's and his tongue or mouth. Perhaps they didn't mean to imply that mortar and pestle grinding was taking place, but that is my understanding. I am imagining more pressure than I would normally associate with oral sex: really moving her clit against her body not gently licking or flicking or sucking etc etc... perhaps even buzzing one's lips like a brass player would be able to do... but that's another topic. This seemed to a different type of stimulation entirely.
http://www.hbo.com/sixfeetunder/episode/season4/sea4_eps9.shtml

I can't find any other references to "Grinding the Corn" So, I'm wondering if the term can apply to other situations. I'm also wondering whether this is something anyone does, or was this whole television episode a writer's fantasy. The term doesn't seem to have a history.

Between a man and a woman could "Grinding the Corn" be more like Tribadism? (a term for women grinding one against one another intimately). This appeals to me since one way I can climax is by creating a lot of tension in my foreskin as if I have penetrated deeply and I only move to feel that tension increased... which also exposes my glands. Could this deep penetration concentrating not only on really pressing in, but also on grinding my pelvis or base of my cock against my lover's little kernal of corn also fit the definition for "Grinding the Corn". The process might take a while to build and would take a lot of straining perhaps, but the eventual climax seems like it would be incredible for both participants.
Tribadism - http://www.odd-sex.com/info/gloss797.htm

Since looking into this definition for "Grinding the Corn", I have seen descriptions of women masturbating in which a woman "clicks" her clit hard back and forth against her pelvis instead of gently stroking, pulling, teasing, etc etc. So, is it possible to "Grind One's Corn"? Is this a common method? Is this what tribadism achieves?

Comments on any of these possibilities would be appreciated.
 
Just a hunch..... but I'm guessing this is not a useful thread.

Over 100 views.... and no posts.... and only 2 votes in the poll. I guess 6ft under's idea is not widely known or perhaps even realistic.

I promise I won't bump this on my own again!
 
I've heard of the show, but have never been able to watch it, despite the fact that I want to. I've never heard of the phrase, which I assume others haven't either, so I can't really comment. Also, that would explain the high number of views compared to the low number of poll entries. Just a tired thought...
 
Never seen the show, never heard the phrase, but I imagine they made up the phrase so adults would get an idea of what they meant, and still be able to be on public TV ... ya know? I imagine that it refers to grinding an ear of corn, a penis-like object, so meaning actual sex ... but who knows, I could be wrong ... I'm still a newbie at sex ...
 
I'm pretty sure they were referring to the clit as the corn

The act that is described on the webpage about the show doesn't refer to a penis being involved, so I'm pretty sure they meant that a kernal of corn was being ground.
Introducing a penis.... as part of the pestle leave the interpretation for the male up in the air. I would say it would feel more like having your penis shucked.....
Hmmmm now to be shucked and sucked at the same time. Now that might be interesting.
 
I saw that show ...

... and somehow automatically took it to mean that it meant the penis in the vagina but leaning against the clit somehow ... grinding it a bit and pulling it down as the penis goes in and out of the vagina.

At the time I shared it with my lover, Peter (so aptly named I might add) and he and I agreed that it sounded like fun. So we tried it a few nights later.

Peter is a big guy with a thick cock and a great pelvis so he got on top of me and worked his rock hard cock into my pussy from above, like i told him. Then he started to grind his groin against me ... and it felt pretty darn good.

But don't go by me, it seems everything he does to me feels pretty darn good.

So, if that wasn't grinding the corn ... then, frankly, I don't care what it's called. I LIKED IT.

Francy

PS. Hmmmm .... he loves it when I stir the zucchini in his sweet, round ass. Does that count?
 
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uptoplay2 said:
Since looking into this definition for "Grinding the Corn", I have seen descriptions of women masturbating in which a woman "clicks" her clit hard back and forth against her pelvis instead of gently stroking, pulling, teasing, etc etc. So, is it possible to "Grind One's Corn"? Is this a common method?
I have never seen the show, and I have never heard the expression, but I sometimes masturbate using the above technique!
 
Take your lubricated finger (or the tip of a penis or whatever) and place it on the clit - touching it gently at first. Then, without lifting your finger, rub. You can go back and forth or in circles or whatever, but the point is to press the clit against her body without raising your finger. As she gets more aroused, you can press harder, but continue the pressure and rub with a steady rhythm without lifting your finger.

Have never heard the 'grinding the corn' expression, and am laughing at 'clicking' - there's no noise except maybe for moans or groans.
 
Clicking was more a description of the motion... sort of an abrupt press.. so it scoots to the side?? It wasn't my description...

But I like yours.....

Perhaps sliding along a hard cock would do the trick. Not inside.... but rocking sliding on the cock as it rests between your lips??? Not penetration.... that's the main course!!
Preferably with your weight so you can judge the motion (until he learns what you like............)
 
and here I was thinking it had something to do with a yeast infection, silly me eh :rolleyes:
 
Perhaps my suggestion is wrong....

Camel toe slide (sorry... NOT my term, but if you want to search......... that's what it takes)

Anyways........ direct contact with a woman's lips straddling my cock.. would give way too much stimulation and would put me over too quick. Without "grinding" or stretching my "stalk"... really tight. (To get that tight and to rub my exposed glands deep inside somewhere as she grinds on my root......... that sounds hot..... sweaty.... intimate....... concentrated.... quiet..... and EXPLOSIVE!)

While being pressed deep inside might make clitoral contact harder...... that's half the fun. Building and finding the right motion... for her and him.... but not tooooo direct for him.

Maybe one .... and then the other........... followed by wild unrestrained thrusting.........
 
I never saw the show or heard the expression,but I love Francys way of doing it!!
 
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