What does Dominate mean to you?

[Romial]

So I was thinking today, trying to figure out what Dominate meant to me. And yes I am talking about sexually...in bed..that type of stuff. And I won't influence anyone with my views, but I'm interested to hear what you all think of it.

What does Dominate mean to you in bed? Examples would be ever so lovely.

I posted this on the How To forum and was directed here for maybe a bit more responses. And I'm not talking about the 24/7 dominate aspect, just the sex scene part of it.

And how would you even initiate the whole dominate thing? Never really been one so I'm just curious.

 

[s'lara]

Hello Romial and welcome to the BDSM Board.

Just a friendly heads up. i think you mean 'Dominant' as opposed to 'Dominate.' Dominant is the person, dominate is the action. Sorry if i am wrong.

As to what Dominant means to me ... well, i have a myriad-like definition of Dominant and i am sure you'd rather hear from those who are either Dominant or have a unskewed definition of a Dominant.

Good luck on getting your answers. Here is a link to the Dominance portion of our Library if you feel up to reading.

lara