What do you want????

[MissTaken]

I mean, what do you really want?

We come to a personals forum for a reason. Some post their desires very clearly, leaving little room for doubt. Others post one thing , yet mean another. Others still, give us no indication concerning what they want.

So. do you want a three day hardcore fuck fest with a stranger you will never see again?

Are you looking for intimacy, love and all the fixings?

A fuck buddy to bail you out when life gets dull?

Phone sex?

Cyber sex?

Any particular tastes, desires, activities preferred?

What about those things you have never tried, but would like to?

Come on, folks. Let's dispense with politesse. Make a shopping list!!!!

 

[twodogs]

love

Well i would have to say love, trust ,bestfriend someone to talk to get excited with cry with if needed .
You know you be with a person for years and one day you relize that you have been all alone and didn't know it .
You get caught up in what i call spider web of life you cant get out so you put up with were you at ,well it gets lonely after a while, that's why i came in here to see if i could find a little peace of mind and be happy

 

[sexyspank]

I mean, what do you really want?

We come to a personals forum for a reason. Some post their desires very clearly, leaving little room for doubt. Others post one thing , yet mean another. Others still, give us no indication concerning what they want.

So. do you want a three day hardcore fuck fest with a stranger you will never see again?

Are you looking for intimacy, love and all the fixings?

A fuck buddy to bail you out when life gets dull?

Phone sex?

Cyber sex?

Any particular tastes, desires, activities preferred?






What about those things you have never tried, but would like to?

Come on, folks. Let's dispense with politesse. Make a shopping list!!!!

I'll settle for you Miss T




Wendy

 

[darkscribe]

Hmmmmm........

To find a fuck buddy......oh wait that falls under the say one thing and mean another category cause every time I find a person like that I back out because of self inadquacies.

Really, to maybe find a special someone to start a friendshipwith, that would bloom into a relationship.

 

[CarnalGerund]

Good Idea MissTaken

I guess I'm not really looking for love on here, though there are some that say that's when you're most likely to find it.

I'm in my mid 20s, and I guess I'm looking for someone smart and creative to have fun with online. Be it cyber/voice sex, possibly leading to phone sex.

Preferably someone around my age ... though that's a pretty broad range in my mind, maybe 18 to about 40.

I'm educated, creative, funny and looking to have entertaining conversations and also "entertaining conversations."

Any other questions?

CG

 

[twodogs]

sexyspank

i love your responce i was being nice minding my manersbut hell lets get naked and get it on .

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: What do you want????

I'll settle for you Miss T




Wendy

*fanning self*

It is getting hot in here!

 

[Falkieri]

I'm looking for friends, phone sex, and just to have fun. The good thing about online or phone is all the things you can fantasize with someone about that you would never do in real life, and maybe get some ideas that you would do, and while its not as good as real, it is better (for some) than having alot of real life sex partners in today's climate. Of course, real life lonliness has alot to do with it as well, and making friends here takes some of that away for a time.

 

[MissTaken]

darkscribe: So tell me more about your special friend? What would you be looking for in a friend/lover?


CarnalGerund: I love your honesty and expect that you will find what you are looking for.

Falkieri: So true. While lit can't possibly be a substitute for real life companionship, it certainly fills some of the voids.

twodogs: I completely understand your first post.....got a bit wistful reading it. And your second....

Well, to hell with manners! I told you NO Polite stuff.

 

[CarnalGerund]

MissTaken

You seem to have a very high number of posts, any recommendations as to how I should go about finding what I'm looking for?

CG

 

[twodogs]

Well we could play a game called lion get the women down on all fours have her grow and then throw the meat to her

 

[Mae13]

Hey MissT! I like this idea, but I'm a big fan of blunt communication, especially when discussing wants! It makes things SO much less complicated, doesn't it?

I haven't done much posting in the Personals section...guess it was one of those places I felt I didn't often have much to contribute. I can be self-conscious that way.

I want connection. That personal 'oh, I like knowing you!' kinda feel. I never came to Lit to really *find* anything, per se, but I realize I have found some damn cool people that I call good friends now!

I'm personally not looking for a stranger to have a 3-day fuckfest with. I'm not here looking for love, either. I am not looking for cyber/phone sex (although I do admit a little bit of both of those managed to find *me* in a roundabout sort of way because of Lit, which is rather interesting, hehe!). I am looking for other cool, like-minded people to banter back and forth with. Souls to tickle my brain, inner child and spirit. People who challenge me to THINK about new things, or to rethink old things. People to have those entertaining conversations with, like CG said (the first kind he talked about, lol!). I am looking for people to learn from, about things I want to know more about, but don't have the opportunity to experience, sexually and otherwise.

I do a lot of that through lurking, of course! I need to open my mouth more maybe, instead of just my camera lens! *s*

Oooh, and on a side note, which might be appropriate here, I am looking for more entertaining stops along the way on my trip to the E.coast in May! NO, I don't mean entertaining in a 'sex way'. I mean in a "conversations over food/coffee/etc" sort of way. People to show me what there is to love about places I've never been to. I am such a sucker for my wanderlust, it's not even funny. States of travel include So.Dak, Wisconsin (stopping in New Lisbon), Illinois (stopping in St.Louis), Indiana (stopping in Indianapolis), Ohio (stopping around Dayton), Penn (no scheduled stops), Maryland (stopping and shipping stuff out of Baltimore), and Virginia (spending a decent amount of time down Langley/VA Beach way). I've already got some stops planned, obviously, to visit family and old friends. Any more stops I should make for some sightseeing? PM or email! Did I mention I'm not looking for stops for sexual activities? I just want to be completely clear about that fact, I don't want anyone getting my message wrong on my travel intent, hehe

OK, enough for now, off to flit about again!

*hugs*
mae

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: What do you want????

I'll settle for you Miss T




Wendy

I'll join you......

 

[twodogs]

Lord you got it ,get to know a person find out what they like what they enjoy and dreams they have , theres more to a person than aroll in bed and putting a notch on the head board.
Thank you it's good to here where you are coming from .

 

[positiva]

To be surprsied and to find within a response something natural and earthy that moves on the edges of the mnd inviting awareness. You feel it move directly into he body and feed the essence some how bypassing the brain. It requires we give our best all we have to offer and believe that the connection we need in this moment is already made and we open to it always. If we accept that all is a relection of what we create in every moment than imagine the potential of this moment as it expands to hold the infinite in the wink of an eye or the touch of desire unbound.
jim

 

[MissTaken]

CarnalGerund? I would imagine that my number of posts should indicate that I have no flipping idea how to get what you want! After all, I still have time to post and post...and post....and post!



Mae! Yes, I have read some of your posts. I like how direct you are, it is refreshing to find someone as blunt and honest as you. I noticed New York isn't on your itinerary? Damn!

Storm.....*blushing* You are way cool! xo

positiva: You seem to be a "sensualist?" Welcome to lit!

If y'all are really well behaved little literoticans, I just may tell you what I want !

 

[MissTaken]

Well we could play a game called lion get the women down on all fours have her grow and then throw the meat to her

Hmm now that is better!

More direct and to the point!

 

[SexySlut2]

Plain & simple...

If I wanted a 'fuck fest', I could simply go down to the bar and get that, that's not what I am interested in.
I am very simply looking for likeminded people to talk to & get to know better.
I am also looking to explore, find new ideas, hear about others thoughts & experiences and also to share some of my own.

~Sexy~

 

[lickboxer]

What am I looking for, hmmm? I'm looking for a connection of mind and soul. Someone that has the same passion for living as I do. That finds happiness in the smell of a flower, the flight of a hummingbird, a sunrise or sunset. That has a positive attitude, and can leave the past in the past. Looking forward to what each new day may bring, and the joy of having someone to share it with. Sex is always on my mind, and that would play a part, but not based on that alone. Someone who could help me with my shortcomings, and vice-versa. The two becoming one so to speak. So the search continues.

 

[freescorfr]

Re: Plain & simple...

If I wanted a 'fuck fest', I could simply go down to the bar and get that, that's not what I am interested in.
I am very simply looking for likeminded people to talk to & get to know better.
I am also looking to explore, find new ideas, hear about others thoughts & experiences and also to share some of my own.

~Sexy~

Me, too, sexy. The 2 great paradoxes of Lit for me are
1. I came to it for the stories and sexual stimulation - and I find something even more satisfying than that.
2. Although we all hide behind the av of a degree of anonymity, most people here are less anonymous and express themselves more honestly than my neighbours.

I like being able to say what I like even if it's really crap. It does me good.

And if I'm very horny it's all here too.

 

[cutie pie]

When I first arrived at Lit, it was for (1) the stories; (2) the chance to be sexually expressive and to explore the emerging aspects of my sexuality; and (3) to perhaps find some friends with whom I could converse about sexual matters. It was my original intent to keep my RL separate from my cyber life.

What I found was: (1) a diverse group of people who present a variety of opinions on a variety of subjects, some of which are articulately expressed and thought provoking; (2) the chance to sexually expressive and to explore the emerging aspects of my sexuality; and (3) several new friends, one of which I've met in RL, that I can talk to about almost anything. I feel closer to some of these people than I do the people I have been friends with for years.

Behind all of the bickering, joking, flirting and trolling I think we are a unique community of individuals. One can almost certainly find what one is looking for here.

 

[paulo1556]

Looking....

New to this post, but the theme intrigued.
I've found that the more honest I am here, the less responses I have received. Also, the closer to real, that is in actual distance, the less likely to get more intimate responses. Maybe the AV is just a cover for deeper anxiety about who we are.
I'm looking for someone(s) to meet a variety of interests: a sexy penpal to mutually stimulate; a soulmate to share ideas and events with; a playmate for real when the reality approaching mid-life lurks too gloomily.
Any suggestions?

 

[positiva]

What if the body is a cloak that covers the essence we truly are a part of a magical oneness that we now begin to taste and the mind a mirror that we distort and hold and call reality. When we engage the body and develop our ability to feel and sense deeply we are opened to the beauty of life itself. It does not need to be defined it rises up naturaly and we respond with all that we are. Now how many people are truly willing to explore the power of the body to open and be transformed into the energetic body alive with true sensation and the ability to sustain for extended time the wonders of tantric pleasure. or tepast 4 months I have taken the time to explore working the body hard finding what it is to sustain a two hour intense workout seven days a week. It is interesting to add the herbs and supplements findng the balance to sustain the body. Before I engage the body I take Cordyceps , positiva energy ( 17 herbs), enerdrene 8 herbs, ginsing, and my favorite Maca ( 5 of this one). The bdoy becomes so much more senitive and you move into a state where you engage the body and it becomes entrained to go deeper and deeper. Then the complete rest that follows and the mind is gone beyond the blue skies and one feels the softness of no thought and then to come fully awake and that first thought filled with desire fills the mind completely. WEll it is a journey and one that has much promise and one dreams always as we all do of sharing and finding friends to explore the depth worlds.
jim

 

[mayi]

looking

when i found lit it was after another site that i went to for reading closed. i had been looking for a while before i stumbled onto lit. i have been here for about a year, hanging out in the chat area. it was not until december that i really started posting on the BB, i still like the chat better, more of an instance response. what i was looking for, i have no idea. what i found has changed me forever. i have found friends all ove the world. i have found like people with like stories. i have found love. but along the way i have also found that there is more in life then what i have and it has caused a struggle with in me. i want what i can't have and each day it is harder and harder to live without what i want. my hubby thinks this is taking me away from him but in honesty i was never really his. he does not satisify me and i spend most of my time on self love. i am not looking for a lot of sex, i am looking for someone to fill my life so full i have no desire to look. i want someone who knows me better them i know myself and can hold me in his arms with no need for more.

if you ask me, have i found him. i thought so, without even looking, but now, i guess not. will i keep looking, no. but i will remain on lit for a while and maybe i will come to terms with my life and be able to more on.

mayi

 

[Falkieri]

I can tell you from my own experience, Mayi, that when someone breaks your heart there is always someone better out there. Its better not to be looking, however, you just don't find what you want when you do. Things will get better for you, believe it or not. Of course, when I was in your position I didn;t believe that either...smiles.