What do you really think about bisexuals?

[Meat Whistler]

PJ and I are both Bi

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PJ and I are very comfortable in our relationship and know that we will not leave one another for the oppisite sex or even the same. Yes we still find men attractive (not as attractive as women though) but like you said "Never" it is not what is in the pants but the heart.

Hmm...I didn't know that you and PJ were both bi-sexual. Granted, I never really researched it either.

Regardless, it's really great to hear that you are both quite happy in your relationship and share that same interest in men as well. I admire your relationship and would only hope to find something similar, whether same sex or not.

 

[Shagly]

There is nothing wrong with switch hitters, freedom of choice works out the best.

 

[namron711]

Little Bird:
"I think that everyone is in any way bisexuall."

I agree with the above and believe that it is true. Anyone that denies it is probably just hung up on some part of their upbringing. What the heck is the difference whether or not you are a,b or c. Society is so hung up on classifying its differences, it will never reach its fullest potential.

A friend of mine tried to get me to play with him when we were teens and I really wasn't into it. Now in my 50s, I am secretly bicurious. Generally, I am into doing anything to please someone as long as no one gets hurt (my wife is not quite so openminded). However,I think one of the reasons why I am so curious is because of my wife. She is not one of the world's better cocksuckers. Never goes deep, never swallows, which I accept. I have become personally challenged to prove to myself that I can suck cock better than her. Of course, nobody in actuality knows this of me. Frankly, I also enjoy looking at well hung cocks. Envy? Maybe. But who cares? Why do we put barriers up to enjoying life?

Maybe one day we will no longer need to label everything that we do!

 

[Asuede]

Think about bisexuals

Most of the Bisexuals I have met on the net seem to enjoy pleasing others without regard to gender. Most of the women like to make the other women cum by sucking clits and they enjoy BJ's and making them cum. Swallowing another oerson's cum is a way of letting the guy know you want to please them Sucking another guys cock after you have already cum takes a little effort, but it is the way one lets the other person know you want them to cum as well. It's much like giving a xmas present to someone and enjoying watching them opening it and being delighted that you thought so well of them to remember to give you a gift of your selection.The same feeling is engendered with anal sex for male or females. You love making them cum and they love cumming to let you know how much you like. Of course other things seem additive as well. A lot of bisexuals learn to like the taste and texture of cum and the feeling of a cock or tongue moving in and out of them in the asshole, mouth or pussy. Bisexuals also like the sounds of wet sex and bodies rubbing together suck as clit to clit, cock to cock, underneath the arms. thighs to thighs and breasts and nipples to one another. All of these things seem to be more enjoyable to a bisexual. Many people are just hung up with what is supposed to be right and wrong. Many older women become more inhibited as they grow older and more compulsive and rigid in their thoughts about the right way to have sex. I've noticed that bisexuality seems to follow artistic people, psychologists, writers, musicians, teachers, counselors,and creative others. Most math and physics people seem to be more hetero. Sports people also seem to have a few more bisexuals amonst them. It does take a lkittle more imagination to be a bisexual rather than heterosexual with a book. Then too, how many hetero sexuals are married to others who are out doing a little extra-marital thing. As the former AG Koop says - you may be doing sex with hundreds unbeknownst to you. How many guys have lick a wife's clit after it was either fuck by a guy or another woma's lips had been on it. Many of us are bisexual by proxy.

 

[SweetErika]

Re: Think about bisexuals

Most of the Bisexuals I have met on the net seem to enjoy pleasing others without regard to gender. Most of the women like to make the other women cum by sucking clits and they enjoy BJ's and making them cum. Swallowing another oerson's cum is a way of letting the guy know you want to please them Sucking another guys cock after you have already cum takes a little effort, but it is the way one lets the other person know you want them to cum as well. It's much like giving a xmas present to someone and enjoying watching them opening it and being delighted that you thought so well of them to remember to give you a gift of your selection.The same feeling is engendered with anal sex for male or females. You love making them cum and they love cumming to let you know how much you like. Of course other things seem additive as well. A lot of bisexuals learn to like the taste and texture of cum and the feeling of a cock or tongue moving in and out of them in the asshole, mouth or pussy. Bisexuals also like the sounds of wet sex and bodies rubbing together suck as clit to clit, cock to cock, underneath the arms. thighs to thighs and breasts and nipples to one another. All of these things seem to be more enjoyable to a bisexual. Many people are just hung up with what is supposed to be right and wrong. Many older women become more inhibited as they grow older and more compulsive and rigid in their thoughts about the right way to have sex. I've noticed that bisexuality seems to follow artistic people, psychologists, writers, musicians, teachers, counselors,and creative others. Most math and physics people seem to be more hetero. Sports people also seem to have a few more bisexuals amonst them. It does take a lkittle more imagination to be a bisexual rather than heterosexual with a book. Then too, how many hetero sexuals are married to others who are out doing a little extra-marital thing. As the former AG Koop says - you may be doing sex with hundreds unbeknownst to you. How many guys have lick a wife's clit after it was either fuck by a guy or another woma's lips had been on it. Many of us are bisexual by proxy.

Ummm...it's fine to talk about what YOU like as a bisexual, but you're making an awful lot of generalizations about the rest of us and other people. I'd be interested to know what research and studies you're basing your conclusions on.

 

[Asuede]

Think about Bisexuals is the topic

What do you think is the thread and I did not know that I was to do a research paper with footnotes and cites. What I posted is not particuarly what I do or like its what I think. I think that falls majorly into the realm of opinion not research. However' the remarks by former Surgeon General Koop are well known and can be verified by looking up his Name on Google. The people I indicated about having leanings can also be verified if
you want to research it yourself. One quick way is go into a university library and look in the bathrooms and stalls in each librarys sections marked literature, plays, artistic works etc. and you'll will find abundant writings on the walls with telephone numbers names and erotiv verse etc. and in the area where you have Math, physics and engineering--the walls are clean. It may be that Math people and engineers don't have time to write on the walls but I'm inclined to believe it is because they are more compulsive and judgemental. Artists and language arts majors, musicians etc are more creative and open in all aspects including sex. If the money was right I would be glad to prove with research. It is my opinion or hypotheses. Also the books that have the dirtiest edges on the top of the book are in the literary and creative arts section of a library. Books about math and engineering are pretty much clean. A light meter inspection would prove this but it would be an expensive study. Books on war are relatively clean. Erotic books are very dirty and on the top edges. Take a look. and see for yourself sometime. It is still what I think and not what I do or have researched.

 

[reddcutie]

i agree sweet...

asuede gives exciting visuals, but too many generalizations for my taste...particularly about older women....and by the way, i read in some of your earlier posts how you came to realize that you were bi. I wanted to thank you for your mature, sensitive commentary on the subject--your experiences and emotions seemed to mirror my own, and i feel i have a kindred spirit here online, even though we will never meet...

 

[Asuede]

Thoughts about bisexuals

We probably do have quite similar thoughts. My remark about older women comes from the asociations I have had with older women. That may be very narrow in scope since I only know a few hundred. It does seem that most women wnat comitment and not just sex and the older they get the harder they become on this point. While men seem to want sex more than comitment. I think that one might follow the other in either direction and so the differences might narrow as both sexes get closer to one another. I'm bi and my wife is straight(albeit a gorgeous hard body) She ghas my commitment and does not know I would like bi activity and for her to be bi as well. However I Love her ver much and want to please her as well and keep her protected.

 

[tealsphynx]

I don't like to consider myself a lesbian who enjoys sleeping with men. I prefer a lasting relationship with men (hence the husband) but I also enjoy sex with women. This confused my husband when we first talked about it because the marriage thing is normally seen a "this is the only person I'll sleep with for the rest of my life" thing. It confused him even more when I told him I enjoy being with a man and woman at the same time, it's like a pack hunt for me. Eiter he and I gang up on her or she and I gang up on him, it's almost a total power trip for me to be the leader (and I normally assume command). He and I have yet to explore this together, but he was shocked that I brought it up as an activity I enjoy and would like to continue with him. I've read alot of posts and on other sites question/answer pages where a couple was curious about a threesom (mmf or ffm) and the advise they constantly get is to not do it that it "ruins relationships" I've never experienced this, I've found it relieving to be able to be honest with my partners about my desires and to share that aspect of myself with them.

 

[GuitarRocker]

Personally, I think homo-sexual and hetro-sexual peeps are those only attracted to both physically and emotionally to the specific gender. I myself am 'bi', and I hope that doesn't mean I just can't make up my mind. I am attracted to women but I have been out with a guy before, and, the honest to God truth was, if it had just been physical, I probably would not have had the nerve to even talk to him let alone do anything else. We were very close, to the point we were falling in love with each other.
I think those of us who are Bi-sexual can just see people for what they are, people. It doesn't matter if they have dangly bits or not, I would fall for a really nice person who respected and treated me well be it a guy or girl, but hey, thats just my opinion.

I'm with this guy here. I'm a straight who's a bit bi-curious, but if I were to have a relationship with someone, I wouldn't care if it were a male or female. I love both.

 

[funwdi]

Whatever makes you genuinely happy, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone! *GENUINELY* happy is the real test.

 

[SweetErika]

Re: Think about Bisexuals is the topic

What do you think is the thread and I did not know that I was to do a research paper with footnotes and cites. What I posted is not particuarly what I do or like its what I think. I think that falls majorly into the realm of opinion not research. However' the remarks by former Surgeon General Koop are well known and can be verified by looking up his Name on Google. The people I indicated about having leanings can also be verified if
you want to research it yourself. One quick way is go into a university library and look in the bathrooms and stalls in each librarys sections marked literature, plays, artistic works etc. and you'll will find abundant writings on the walls with telephone numbers names and erotiv verse etc. and in the area where you have Math, physics and engineering--the walls are clean. It may be that Math people and engineers don't have time to write on the walls but I'm inclined to believe it is because they are more compulsive and judgemental. Artists and language arts majors, musicians etc are more creative and open in all aspects including sex. If the money was right I would be glad to prove with research. It is my opinion or hypotheses. Also the books that have the dirtiest edges on the top of the book are in the literary and creative arts section of a library. Books about math and engineering are pretty much clean. A light meter inspection would prove this but it would be an expensive study. Books on war are relatively clean. Erotic books are very dirty and on the top edges. Take a look. and see for yourself sometime. It is still what I think and not what I do or have researched.

I think it's great to present your perspective and opinions, but you need to preface all of them with a phrase that indicates they're your personal ideas. Something like, "It's my opinion..." or "I have a theory that..." would be great. The problem is that your theories are coming out sounding like stereotypes/facts. If I said, "Many male gardeners cheat on their spouses because the use of pesticides have resulted in a lack of conscience" you'd wonder how I came to that conclusion...what evidence I have to back that statement, right? However, if I said, "It's my opinion and theory that many male gardeners cheat on their spouses because the use of pesticides have resulted in a lack of conscience ," you'd probably rest easier knowing that everyone would take it as one crazy person's opinion, instead of possibly using it as evidence for other rediculous generalizations.

 

[SweetErika]

Re: i agree sweet...

asuede gives exciting visuals, but too many generalizations for my taste...particularly about older women....and by the way, i read in some of your earlier posts how you came to realize that you were bi. I wanted to thank you for your mature, sensitive commentary on the subject--your experiences and emotions seemed to mirror my own, and i feel i have a kindred spirit here online, even though we will never meet...

No, thank you! Feel free to PM me anytime if you'd like to talk Red.

 

[Harrowborg]

I'm with this guy here. I'm a straight who's a bit bi-curious, but if I were to have a relationship with someone, I wouldn't care if it were a male or female. I love both.

Um, thanks

 

[Asuede]

What do you think about Bisexuals

The title of this thread pretty much states that the offerings in text and even pictures are either opinion or posed pictures. It would be completely redundant to start every statement you make with "In my Opinion" perhaps you should start a new thread with the title What I think about bisexuals as supported by research instead of my experiences. I disagree with you about the so called generneralizations you say I made. I did in fact state what I thought were my opinions. You are the one disagreeing with them and haven't stated any research to back up your opinion of what I said about older women. Look on all the sites and see how many older women who are looking for sex as opposed to those who just want marriage or a long term relationship and a commitment from someone else.