What do you like doing when neither writing about nor indulging in sex?

EmilyMiller

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Me? A few things.
  1. Running - my main thing now, nothing too crazy 5 miles most of the time
  2. Rock climbing - not as much now as before (though tried a local indoor wall today)
  3. Hiking - outdoors girl here
  4. Cooking - I’m not that good, but will try anything from Chinese to Italian
  5. Reading - well d’oh!
  6. Alcohol - very fond of that, including home made Tiki drinks
  7. Restaurants - the ones with alcohol are best IMO
  8. TV vegging - like k dramas, happy Mando is back (less Katee please though) - I like Emily in Paris and I’m proud
  9. Movies - too many to mention, but 1980s Sci-Fi (Alien, Blade Runner, Terminator etc.), plus anime and some French / Spanish movies
  10. Current affairs - mostly The Atlantic
Em



UPDATE: I used to do yoga as well, have sadly got out of the habit
 
1 Work - it's my most unfavourate passtime which takes up most of what should be my leisure time
2 Volunteer - I work with the local Ambulance service as a First Responder - we answer emergency calls and back up the Paramedics in our local area.
2 Read - of course - not just erotica but mostly science fiction or fantasy.
3 Keep up to date with stuff like my patreon and discord.
4 Family stuff
 
When neither writing about nor indulging in sex, I'm thinking about it or listening to erotic audio stories (as I work outside in the yard or on other projects around the house). Even on long trips in the car, my wife will set her tablet computer aside and casually ask "What are you thinking about?"

I'll reply, "Need you ask?"

Then she'll reach over to feel it in my pants, before saying "Well, you're not getting 'roadhead'!"
 
Oh, Gawd! I want to reach through the screen and (apologies up front) bitch slap her. I bet the French hate the show as well.
Aggressive much?

It helped me get through the pandemic. It’s utter tripe, but fun utter tripe. Sometimes it’s nice to disengage your brain.

More fun if you speak a little French.

Em
 
We live in the country on an acreage.

1. Work in the orchard, yard, garden'
2. Expand my pond, 2 acres now, shooting for 3.5 eventually
3. Look for new/unique liquors to add to my collection/bar
4. Cook, a lot!
5. Drink
6. Travel/dive
7 Birding
 
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Hey, Em - I got a chuckle from your latest poll-of-sorts. There was a similar thread here a couple of years ago, and in that one I was hopelessly vague for a reason. Problem is when you get right down to it, list enough personal details especially about niche interests and you can triangulate into a very limited set of specific individuals.

In your case you list healthy general and popular pastimes, and can remain relatively anonymous. In my situation and I think for several of the others here, we can get specific enough in as few as four or five pursuits we enjoy to pin down who we are. My life observation is that the older one gets, the more concentrated and specific our pastimes become.

F'rinstance, my sig line alone winnows me down to less than, oh, maybe a thousand possible individuals. Add a couple of other unique pastimes and you'll be in my driveway.
 
Hey, Em - I got a chuckle from your latest poll-of-sorts. There was a similar thread here a couple of years ago, and in that one I was hopelessly vague for a reason. Problem is when you get right down to it, list enough personal details especially about niche interests and you can triangulate into a very limited set of specific individuals.

In your case you list healthy general and popular pastimes, and can remain relatively anonymous. In my situation and I think for several of the others here, we can get specific enough in as few as four or five pursuits we enjoy to pin down who we are. My life observation is that the older one gets, the more concentrated and specific our pastimes become.

F'rinstance, my sig line alone winnows me down to less than, oh, maybe a thousand possible individuals. Add a couple of other unique pastimes and you'll be in my driveway.
Did not think about that! 👱‍♀️👱‍♀️👱‍♀️

Em
 
F'rinstance, my sig line alone winnows me down to less than, oh, maybe a thousand possible individuals. Add a couple of other unique pastimes and you'll be in my driveway.
Do you hear that horn honking? It’s me. :LOL:
 
Lots of running here too. And reading and cooking. While it's winter I do love to go snowboarding whenever I can. ❄️
I tried getting into rock climbing too but it's not my jam.
 
There's the annoying day job
But for fun, darts, pool, the gym, listing comics in the e-bay store which sounds like it could be work but I find it relaxing.
Run, but the last couple of years its getting less frequent due to some recurring knee issues.
 
There's the annoying day job
But for fun, darts, pool, the gym, listing comics in the e-bay store which sounds like it could be work but I find it relaxing.
Run, but the last couple of years its getting less frequent due to some recurring knee issues.
I used to try to play pool. Not easy when you are 5’1”. Then, during my UK sojourn, I was shown a snooker table. WTF?

Em
 
Me?
Camping, playing music with friends, working on my car, writing, spending way too much time on social media. When the weather's warm, going to nude beaches and resorts. Long car trips to neighboring states.
 
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