What do you fear?

[WriterDom]

Most often I hear "the cane." While canes have to be respected, a number of other things can do damage as well. I guess some don't do well with a stingy type of pain.

The lesbian loved stingy pain but just fucking hated the hairbrush with a passion. I don't like any kind of pain but what I would fear the most is my tawse. Two very thick straps of leather held closely together by a wooden handle. The straps are 12" long and split the first 7". It just molds to your ass when it hits you.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I fear nuthing so far.

 

[Hisbeauty]

If you are talking physical pain...i seem to be able to take that. i don't enjoy it or orgasm from it, but i can take a great deal.

For me, what i fear much more is emotional pain....being rejected, being abandoned. Being cut down and hurt badly.

This is where i am vulnerable, and my Sir doesn't use that, because He knows it would damage me.

 

[gloriann]

I don't really fear any kind of pain in a D/s sense. I do not LIKE stingy pain, but love thuddy pain, and sometimes slappy pain. But fear? No. Like a previous poster, my fears are based in emotion.

 

[nh23]

Dying, not being able to raise my kids. Letting those I love down.

S&M pfffttt that shit's nothing. Life is what kicks your ass.

 

[graceanne]

Dying, not being able to raise my kids.

Yeah, that's high on my list.

I'm also afraid of heights and dentists.

ETA: I'm also terrified of going on prednisone again, and even more than that I'm afraid of having my colon removed.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Not afraid of much...not dying but..dying slowly over period of time, in pain.
There is that curiosity in me that wonders what happens when we die.
That however is a new thread.

TTD

 

[Phat_Goddess]

Mostly emotional
The dark
needles and knives to a certain degree

 

[nh23]

Oh and I don't think canes are stingy. Well not the big ones anyway.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Dislikes? many
Fear? nothing

 

[OldGuy1026]

Being alone......

 

[Puman]

Besides the dentist and spiders (paralytically so)?

Having my face slapped. It's a big "no no" with me.

 

[ecstaticsub]

S&M pfffttt that shit's nothing. Life is what kicks your ass.

Absolutely, I couldn't agree more. Life has thrown me more scary challenges than any scene or S&M situation every could.

 

[jockdom]

Insanity.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Insanity.

You can be peaceful on that one honey, that will NEVER happen!

 

[Kittiekatt73]

being alone

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

being alone

That scares me too!

 

[MisterSir]

Heights, dogs, snakes, eyes, dentists, Darkseid, Galactus, the Green Lantern Corps, Thom Yorke, pina coladas, being caught in the rain, diabetes, diabeetus, Wilford Brimley, Steve Guttenberg and, if I were on her bad side, Veronica Mars.

 

[Homburg]

Being helpless to prevent or ameliorate harm to my loved ones.

Aside from that, MIS has said that I "lack the fear gene."

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I fear

Being unable to stop my bottoming out days (those days when all I want is to cry, sigh, die)

Having one of my children die before me.

being unable to control my temper and honestly hurting someone.

 

[EmpressFi]

Dying, not being able to raise my kids. Letting those I love down.

S&M pfffttt that shit's nothing. Life is what kicks your ass.

QFE

The only thing I fear these days is something happening to my son and/or not living long enough to see him grow into a man. Nothing else matters.

 

[Netzach]

Heights, dogs, snakes, eyes, dentists, Darkseid, Galactus, the Green Lantern Corps, Thom Yorke, pina coladas, being caught in the rain, diabetes, diabeetus, Wilford Brimley, Steve Guttenberg and, if I were on her bad side, Veronica Mars.

I share half this list.

Snakes on a motherfucking plane scare me, because they're on a motherfucking plane.

Other than the plane thing, Thom Yorke, dentists, Wilford Brimley, and a dislike of being rained on, I can say that death other than by falling out of the sky, spiders, the dark, and small enclosed spaces are a piece o cake for me.

Illness?

I've been given the "well you might need an ileostomy" speech and didn't balk. Having short gut and not being able to eat does give me pause, I hope that doesn't happen.

 

[missginger2177]

Fear, fear is an illusion which only we manifest. If we do not acknowledge it, it does not exist. Simple as that.

That being said, the only thing I truly fear is relapse. And I will NEVER allow that to happen.

 

[Yasashii_Kaze]

Most often I hear "the cane." While canes have to be respected, a number of other things can do damage as well. I guess some don't do well with a stingy type of pain.

The lesbian loved stingy pain but just fucking hated the hairbrush with a passion. I don't like any kind of pain but what I would fear the most is my tawse. Two very thick straps of leather held closely together by a wooden handle. The straps are 12" long and split the first 7". It just molds to your ass when it hits you.

I love canes. I have a healthy respect for the tawse, since it is the only item so far that has managed to really purple my bottom. However, I've discovered that I absolutely dislike crops and wooden paddle-like items (especially spoons).

BDSM aside, being alone in the dark, the sensation of falling, and failure.

 

[Keroin]

Hm.

People who say they're not afraid of anything have never stood on the roof of a ten story building looking down at an airbag, which looks about the size of a postage stamp, as they prepare to jump off, knowing that if they miss the bulls eye they will splat on the cement.

There is much that scares me. I can channel and use my fear but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. And I'd say I do more scary shit than the average Jane.