What do you do when...

[PacificBlue]

someone wanders into your life and then wanders right back out and your left wondering why?

 

[LukkyKnight]

wander after em and lob a few questions at em?

 

[SexySlut2]

Hunt them down and ask them 'What the fuck?'

 

[clit_licker30]

I just move on, after getting a few answers. Somrtimes I am grateful they were there. Sometimes grateful they are gone.

 

[PacificBlue]

I think I've chased enough. Too much so I think. I don't want to seem like a woman obsessed and right now that's exactly how I feel.

I just don't get it.

 

[truegentleman]

You ask them why.

People do things for a lot of reasons, sometimes we don't even know that we have hurt or dissapointed someone. We just get caught up in our own little worlds.

 

[CarolineOh]

someone wanders into your life and then wanders right back out and your left wondering why?

Change the locks.

 

[PacificBlue]

You ask them why.

People do things for a lot of reasons, sometimes we don't even know that we have hurt or dissapointed someone. We just get caught up in our own little worlds.

You can't ask why when there is no response. I really liked where it was going too.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Nope, no asking why... ask about other things. Ask about what interests you, about things you're curious about. Your mind is your greatest attribute, let it shine.

 

[PacificBlue]

I think it's a little late for that.

Why am I so easy to leave?

 

[Ebonyfire]

someone wanders into your life and then wanders right back out and your left wondering why?

That happened to me recently, before I met my love.

This person and I wandered in and out of each other's life for over three years

This last time he wandered out and took our friendship with him. I cried for about a month, and and then severed all contact with him. I moved on.

Next thing I know, this wonderful loving man came into my life, and now I wonder why I thought this other person was so important. I have not forgotten this other person, I wish him well. But what I have now with bluespoke, is incomparable.

Ebony

 

[Ice Cold]

I issue a restraining order against them and change the locks... lifes stressful enough without the added aggravation.

 

[truegentleman]

You can't ask why when there is no response. I really liked where it was going too.

You're right.


Just don't assume anything.

 

[Zephan]

Blue,
There is a person that seems to wander in and out of my life as well. Never any real answers as to why. We are just friends now so I guess it is alright. All I can say is that if something was meant to be it will be. If not then you didn't lose a damn thing! Take care and know I for one at least am pulling for ya!

Oh, and Smile!!!!

It always seems to make things in my life go better if I do. Even though at times I just don't feel like it.

Zephan

 

[truegentleman]

I think it's a little late for that.

Why am I so easy to leave?

Maybe it's not you?
Maybe it's something wrong with them?


Take a long look at yourself and list the positives that you bring, then list the negatives. Work on emphasizing the positives and fixing the negatives.

You can't change someone else, but you can change the lady you see in the mirror.


BTW. She seems like a very nice lady to me.

 

[Wiggles]

If online, wait around a little while. Not everyone is good at keeping up online friendships/relationships.

If you love him let it go, and if he comes back it was meant to be....

Or, he forgot one of his CD's....

Really though, I don't have any answers. Just try to be good to yourself, do your own thing.

In time you'll get over it.

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

Good luck. My vote is to move on and forget, if he wanders back, you might have more options and he'll have to prove his sincerity and you can decide if it's worthwhile.

<Shakes his head> Dayum, I ought to follow my own advice..lol.

Wiggles, you always have good words.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Hey Wiggles, you still got my B-52s CD? I've been meaning to, you know, like stop by and get it and all...

 

[PacificBlue]

Maybe it's not you?
Maybe it's something wrong with them?


Take a long look at yourself and list the positives that you bring, then list the negatives. Work on emphasizing the positives and fixing the negatives.

You can't change someone else, but you can change the lady you see in the mirror.


BTW. She seems like a very nice lady to me.

I've turned myself inside out trying to change, please, fit in.

I'm tired.

I'm lonely.

It wasn't worth it.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

People do this. I don't understand it. They pass by a corner of your life without a second glance or thought to their own presense and the effects it will leave...

 

[LukkyKnight]

I've turned myself inside out trying to change, please, fit in.

I'm tired.

I'm lonely.

It wasn't worth it.

PB, it is my sense that you should seek to be yourself, not change. It's not really worth much effort to fit in with people who don't like the you that you already are enough to accept you - you've walked your own unique path to this point, you've become who you are now as a result of all the forces and people that have been part of that journey...

Being you is such a difficult task that nobody else has ever dared try it before. It is what you unquestionably do better than anybody else in creation. To please us here I trust the majority would agree that what is necessary is to just be who you are. We enjoy your company, and we don't want you to be somebody else...

First, if anybody was like somebody else then pretty soon everybody might be, and that would be boring for sure, but second, who among us is qualified to tell you which part of who you are is so inferior that it needs changing? I mean, don't take this the wrong way, but have you ever spent time anywhere else in the company of such a strange group of perverted misfits?

 

[Uma]

Is my work never done???

Oh, and Smile!!!!

It always seems to make things in my life go better if I do. Even though at times I just don't feel like it.

Zephan

I'll give ya something to smile about ya big lug!!!


COME HERE

Whispers in your ear

are ya smiling yet??? Thought so!

 

[Zephan]

Re: Is my work never done???

Whispers in your ear

are ya smiling yet??? Thought so!

You took care of that after the car show. I am good until at least, well, Monday anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Zephan

 

[Uma]

Re: Re: Is my work never done???

You took care of that after the car show. I am good until at least, well, Monday anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Zephan

Giggles