Willing and Unsure
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you really really miss someone that you cant see for a long time?
what do you do when.....
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Beside feel sorry for myself???
Were all so different, we all deal with things in different ways. I like to sit down and listen to music that reminds me of that person, and write.
Just try not to think of that person too hard or for too long, it'll take over your life, believe me on that one.
Good Luck and I hope their not gone from your life for too long.
Were all so different, we all deal with things in different ways. I like to sit down and listen to music that reminds me of that person, and write.
Just try not to think of that person too hard or for too long, it'll take over your life, believe me on that one.
Good Luck and I hope their not gone from your life for too long.
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I occupy myself with some other activity, i.e. working out, watching TV, etc. I go through that sometime. While alot of my former coworkers at the department store were ass kissing assholes, my department coworkers were not and a little more than coworkers to me. Eventhough I truly love the job that I have now, I sometimes miss my coworkers there at the department store. But why drive 62 miles just to see a few close coworkers?Willing and Unsure said:
Willing and Unsure
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i've tried that already... it doesnt work too well for me. we did just about everything together for the last nine months and now we have to spend the summer apart (school ended for the year). as of right now, i have 102 days before i can see him again... and i really miss him.
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Talk to Him online.
Talk to Him on the phone.
Send Him cute lil' greeting cards online.
Send Him cards via snail mail.
Write poetry for Him.
Write stories for Him.
Dream of Him when sleeping.
I could go on and on and on.
Damn I miss Him. Just a couple weeks to go, though!
Willing and Unsure
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believe me Tiggs... i do all of those things, they just make me miss him more.
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Well, I miss mine too, but I've found that talking to Him daily and whatnot does help some. It takes some of the pain of loss off my heart. And, it gives me something to look forward to when He returns.
Willing and Unsure
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well... i guess its a little different for me... he's not my boyfriend... just my best friend. he's been there for me since the day i met him. this is the first time we've been apart and for so long now.... i really really miss him, but it could be worse... only 102 days left now.
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Now you tell me......
Now you tell me......
Willing and Unsure
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thanx for all the suggestions.... i guess i'll have to try some of them (and the countdown began a few days ago)... who knows, i might get to see him sooner than i think
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Bury yourself in work, consume yourself with something else until the point of exhaustion, call up someone you haven't seen for a while and go out, meet new people to hang out with....
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Well, I used to try and do things that would keep me busy, so I didn't have time to think about that person...
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One thing NOT to do:
Definitely don't get good and damn drunk. Think of it as a mood enhancer, and consider what a crappy mood you're in about that to start with. Drinking in moderation is great for fun, but it is probably one of the worst things you can do to yourself to avoid pain.
When I'm stuck, unable to be with the person I love, I try to communicate whenever and however possible, and read a lot during the other times. For me, reading Fantasy and Science Fiction are perfect escapes. They bring me into a totally different world, one in which I can forget this one for a while.
Definitely don't get good and damn drunk. Think of it as a mood enhancer, and consider what a crappy mood you're in about that to start with. Drinking in moderation is great for fun, but it is probably one of the worst things you can do to yourself to avoid pain.
When I'm stuck, unable to be with the person I love, I try to communicate whenever and however possible, and read a lot during the other times. For me, reading Fantasy and Science Fiction are perfect escapes. They bring me into a totally different world, one in which I can forget this one for a while.
