What do you do when your horny but don't want to be the one to relieve it?

[MamaBitte]

Thank you. I am in. Same handle

You are welcome! Unfortunately I can only use the site when my wife is not here ...

 

[wouldloveto]

Is it really self abuse when nearly everyone indulges in it -- whether they admit it or not.

What makes you think it is self-abuse?
There is nothing abusive about it, it is natural, pleasurable, and healthy.
I thought only close-minded people and/or bible thumpers had such backward ideas.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Sometimes I get so fucking horny it makes me angry. Sometimes I get so tired of being the one to relieve it. Do you ever find yourself in this state? What do you do about it?

Call a friend!!

 

[Dw_069]

Call a friend!!

I wish I had a friend like you

 

[LovelyLadyLicker]

I slide a ridiculously massive dildo inside then go to sleep.

 

[y=mx+b]

A lot of the replies are not addressing the '...but don't want to do anything about it.' part.

Perhaps my age is showing, but sometimes being horny and the thought of masturbating to resolve it strikes me as tired, boring and lame. Kinda like how sometimes when I'm hungry, all the food in the house seems too stupid and laborious to eat.

Some have posted about having a dedicated cocksucker or fuckbuddy on retainer. And the such is quite a luxury to have.

I lack such luxury
And the risk of pursuing such far outweighs the benefits.

So what do I do during such moments? I sit in them, enjoy the agony, and hate every fucking passing second of it. The feeling of it is such a beautiful kind of suffering which I save up and savor once my mind, body, and emotions fall back inline.

 

[BadDad1953]

I'll call my lover to cum over and give me a hand!

 

[Oazeal]

Years ago I had fuck buddies to call upon or drop in on. Then I got married and my darling wife never said no. Now I'm an old fart widower. I go to the local swingers club and I usually find someone to help me out.

https://www.literotica.com/authors/Oazeal/works/stories

 

[Erosfan]

When I am alone and horny, I'm never in a situation where I don't want to do anything about it. I often wish I had someone to share my mood and excitement. If I must, I will and do take care of it myself. I have been known to get naked at night and walk around my neighborhood and jerk off. That way I don't feel so alone.

 

[ClockworkCourtesan]

I suffer in frustration. Not many outlets lr places for me to go.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I honestly have NO idea why further up in the thread someone called masturbation a "form of self-abuse"! First of all, I don't remember ever being "mad" at how horny I was. If that happened, I'd be angry all the time, given that I'm always but a few thoughts away from yanking my panties aside, being horny to the point where an orgasm or 3 is what I absolutely need! Haha!
I masturbate often, and I thoroughly satisfy myself in those moments. After all, who better knows what makes me cum than myself? Being an ardent exhibitionist, I often leave my drapes open for the many windows in the neighboring high rises surrounding mine, and Lit and a few other sites have allowed me to widen my horizon by making little videos of those moments with my tripod and rudimentary camera. Carpe Diem! And if I can help someone cum by watching me, well than I consider I've done a good deed! Live long, and cum often!

https://vlix.io/video/73a19119534c063967bf/