What do you do when your horny but don't want to be the one to relieve it?

[MamaBitte]

Thank you. I am in. Same handle

You are welcome! Unfortunately I can only use the site when my wife is not here ...

 

[wouldloveto]

Is it really self abuse when nearly everyone indulges in it -- whether they admit it or not.

What makes you think it is self-abuse?
There is nothing abusive about it, it is natural, pleasurable, and healthy.
I thought only close-minded people and/or bible thumpers had such backward ideas.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Sometimes I get so fucking horny it makes me angry. Sometimes I get so tired of being the one to relieve it. Do you ever find yourself in this state? What do you do about it?

Call a friend!!

 

[Dw_069]

Call a friend!!

I wish I had a friend like you

 

[LovelyLadyLicker]

I slide a ridiculously massive dildo inside then go to sleep.

 

[y=mx+b]

A lot of the replies are not addressing the '...but don't want to do anything about it.' part.

Perhaps my age is showing, but sometimes being horny and the thought of masturbating to resolve it strikes me as tired, boring and lame. Kinda like how sometimes when I'm hungry, all the food in the house seems too stupid and laborious to eat.

Some have posted about having a dedicated cocksucker or fuckbuddy on retainer. And the such is quite a luxury to have.

I lack such luxury
And the risk of pursuing such far outweighs the benefits.

So what do I do during such moments? I sit in them, enjoy the agony, and hate every fucking passing second of it. The feeling of it is such a beautiful kind of suffering which I save up and savor once my mind, body, and emotions fall back inline.

 

[BadDad1953]

I'll call my lover to cum over and give me a hand!

 

[Oazeal]

Years ago I had fuck buddies to call upon or drop in on. Then I got married and my darling wife never said no. Now I'm an old fart widower. I go to the local swingers club and I usually find someone to help me out.

https://www.literotica.com/authors/Oazeal/works/stories

 

[Erosfan]

When I am alone and horny, I'm never in a situation where I don't want to do anything about it. I often wish I had someone to share my mood and excitement. If I must, I will and do take care of it myself. I have been known to get naked at night and walk around my neighborhood and jerk off. That way I don't feel so alone.

 

[ClockworkCourtesan]

I suffer in frustration. Not many outlets lr places for me to go.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

I honestly have NO idea why further up in the thread someone called masturbation a "form of self-abuse"! First of all, I don't remember ever being "mad" at how horny I was. If that happened, I'd be angry all the time, given that I'm always but a few thoughts away from yanking my panties aside, being horny to the point where an orgasm or 3 is what I absolutely need! Haha!
I masturbate often, and I thoroughly satisfy myself in those moments. After all, who better knows what makes me cum than myself? Being an ardent exhibitionist, I often leave my drapes open for the many windows in the neighboring high rises surrounding mine, and Lit and a few other sites have allowed me to widen my horizon by making little videos of those moments with my tripod and rudimentary camera. Carpe Diem! And if I can help someone cum by watching me, well then I consider I've done a good deed! Live long, and cum often!

https://vlix.io/video/73a19119534c063967bf/

 

[hugh_jarce69]

I honestly have NO idea why further up in the thread someone called masturbation a "form of self-abuse"! First of all, I don't remember ever being "mad" at how horny I was. If that happened, I'd be angry all the time, given that I'm always but a few thoughts away from yanking my panties aside, being horny to the point where an orgasm or 3 is what I absolutely need! Haha!
I masturbate often, and I thoroughly satisfy myself in those moments. After all, who better knows what makes me cum than myself? Being an ardent exhibitionist, I often leave my drapes open for the many windows in the neighboring high rises surrounding mine, and Lit and a few other sites have allowed me to widen my horizon by making little videos of those moments with my tripod and rudimentary camera. Carpe Diem! And if I can help someone cum by watching me, well than I consider I've done a good deed! Live long, and cum often!

https://vlix.io/video/73a19119534c063967bf/

fuck that's one of the sexiest videos I've ever watched. Loved watching you play with yourself, where your fingers went and for how long. Like you I don't see anything wrong with masturbation. For years, though I did feel guilty about it but I've been doing it for so long now I love the different images I can conjure up in my head. I walk around in public and see girls & slot that image in my mind to refer to later. It's all innocent, no one gets hurt and I end up pleasuring myself. As you say, who knows your pleasure points better than you? I also love the imagery of you leaving windows open. I now have an idea for my next story, thanks

 

[NightBirdNYC]

fuck that's one of the sexiest videos I've ever watched. Loved watching you play with yourself, where your fingers went and for how long. Like you I don't see anything wrong with masturbation. For years, though I did feel guilty about it but I've been doing it for so long now I love the different images I can conjure up in my head. I walk around in public and see girls & slot that image in my mind to refer to later. It's all innocent, no one gets hurt and I end up pleasuring myself. As you say, who knows your pleasure points better than you? I also love the imagery of you leaving windows open. I now have an idea for my next story, thanks

Well thank you! I hope I get to read your next story then! My 3 (so far) are experiences and memories I still sometimes drift back to while masturbating, and linked to in my profile
Here’s another for you as well

 

[hugh_jarce69]

Well thank you! I hope I get to read your next story then! My 3 (so far) are experiences and memories I still sometimes drift back to while masturbating, and linked to in my profile
Here’s another for you as well

Just read the latest two. Love how different they are. The passion, sensuality of a lesbian moment compared with the sheer basic animal excitement of sex in public. A real inspiration

 

[LookN2Talk]

I was curious about your question as well asking something similar to those who even had someone. Crazy how imbalanced things can get in one's sex life. Perhaps some of the posts will help, this group has the experience and there are some good insights: https://forum.literotica.com/thread...rriages-do-for-sex-what-alternatives.1621086/

 

[SIMONNOLET]

Well thank you! I hope I get to read your next story then! My 3 (so far) are experiences and memories I still sometimes drift back to while masturbating, and linked to in my profile
Here’s another for you as well

that was some hot video you are very sexy i came when you squirted , and loved your out fit would love to have seen more your feet in those fishnets

ps how do you feel about men who cross dress thanks

 

[NightBirdNYC]

fuck that's one of the sexiest videos I've ever watched. Loved watching you play with yourself, where your fingers went and for how long. Like you I don't see anything wrong with masturbation. For years, though I did feel guilty about it but I've been doing it for so long now I love the different images I can conjure up in my head. I walk around in public and see girls & slot that image in my mind to refer to later. It's all innocent, no one gets hurt and I end up pleasuring myself. As you say, who knows your pleasure points better than you? I also love the imagery of you leaving windows open. I now have an idea for my next story, thanks

that was some hot video you are very sexy i came when you squirted , and loved your out fit would love to have seen more your feet in those fishnets

Thank you! And I have no problem with cross dressers although I haven’t known or been with any.
Hope you enjoy this as well
https://vlix.io/video/ca0caa53141f2ebc3043/

 

[SIMONNOLET]

ARE YOU INTO CHATTING

 

[SIMONNOLET]

wow that was something my god you are so sensual

love seeing you feet in the air

I have fantasies of you doing me like that but I cant squirt

 

[SissyBrandi19]

Sometimes I get so fucking horny it makes me angry. Sometimes I get so tired of being the one to relieve it. Do you ever find yourself in this state? What do you do about it?

I get myself arrested. I really enjoy the close man-on-man time one only can truly get, when incarcerated.

 

[SissyBrandi19]

I think there's a physical and an emotional element to this.

For the physical part, there are quite a few sex toys for guys that can bring you to a hands-free orgasm, allowing you to just lie back and enjoy.

For the emotional part, there are lots of options online - Lit, chat sites, sex games, cam sites. It'll still be you touching yourself, but there is the possibility of a connection.

Or you could just hire a prostitute, of course

What? You don't hire prostitutes for sex - you hire them to leave AFTER the sex.

 

[SissyBrandi19]

I honestly have NO idea why further up in the thread someone called masturbation a "form of self-abuse"! First of all, I don't remember ever being "mad" at how horny I was. If that happened, I'd be angry all the time, given that I'm always but a few thoughts away from yanking my panties aside, being horny to the point where an orgasm or 3 is what I absolutely need! Haha!
I masturbate often, and I thoroughly satisfy myself in those moments. After all, who better knows what makes me cum than myself? Being an ardent exhibitionist, I often leave my drapes open for the many windows in the neighboring high rises surrounding mine, and Lit and a few other sites have allowed me to widen my horizon by making little videos of those moments with my tripod and rudimentary camera. Carpe Diem! And if I can help someone cum by watching me, well then I consider I've done a good deed! Live long, and cum often!

https://vlix.io/video/73a19119534c063967bf/

For males, I don't see how it fits the definition of "abuse" when it's medically factual that frequent ejaculation has the effect of shrinking the prostate. This is a GOOD thing, a HEALTHY thing and I mean...masturbation versus...running? Are you fucking kidding me? Seriously, are you fucking kidding me?

 

[UncleJunior]

poke her in the small of the back until she hitches her t-shirt up or her sweats down