What do you do when you think your husbands cheating?

[Tx girl]

Funny thing just happend, not really funny at all. I just had a call from a woman giving her first and last name to me asking for my husband. When i asked her how she knew my husband, she simply said she didn't know he was married and hung up. When i confronted my husband he sweared he didn't know her.

So please advice, has anyone else had to deal with this and if so how did you do it? I don't know what to believe.

 

[Linedrive]

Without knowing you or him, I'd say to call him on the carpet on it. If he says "I am not cheating", than assuming you have some degree of trust and respect in your relationship, I'd believe him.

Just as many marriages have been ruined by false accusations and paranoid people, as have been by affairs. Without trust, what is there...?

 

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[HeavyStick]

ahahah

Good.

Is it any wonder though....you're such a fucking dull piece of shit skank

I congratulate him

How's that DCL investigation going?

 

[acitore_vuli]

I was stalked by a female co-worker once. I gave her a ride home once after she asked me to, because her ride stiffed her.

Next thing I know, I'm finding notes on my windshield, notes on my desk, etc. My company let her go (for other reasons), but shortly there after, I sarted getting phone messages from her. She refered to me as "honey" and "sweetheart". My wife got a little upset needless to say.

We ended up calling the police and putting a trace on the phone. Once the police got the trace, they paid her a visit and the phonecalls went away.

The girl was a psycho. She just became obsessed with me for whatever reason. Moral of the story, there are people out there that are like this.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

I agree with Gunner...if you trust your husband, then just write it off as some woman trying to cause trouble.

BUT...only you will know what the truth is...deep down. If you trust him, then trust him fully.

 

[Lancecastor]

Funny thing just happend, not really funny at all. I just had a call from a woman giving her first and last name to me asking for my husband. When i asked her how she knew my husband, she simply said she didn't know he was married and hung up. When i confronted my husband he sweared he didn't know her.

So please advice, has anyone else had to deal with this and if so how did you do it? I don't know what to believe.

She used her first and last name.

I consider this odd.

A) You can look up Ms Jane Doe yourself, get her # and call your phone company to get a list of all numbers that have called your line in the last day, week, month...just tell them you had an odd call and you want to see if it's a repeat. If the number has been called from your line (or his cell) he's busted.

B) The first & last name thing....the caller might have been somebody who doesn't like your husband at work or someone who knows Jane Doe & knows or SUSPECTS Jane Doe & Hubby are bumpin' uglies....and did the first name last name call to you as a "hint" and to squeal on Jane & Hubby without really telling.

C) Someone likes him, wants him, is trying to break you up to get him but doesn't have him yet. I think this is less likely than A or B.

D) No cheating husband gives out his home phone to someone he's boning and lying to about his marital status...at least not a smart husband. Is he online? Maybe he's be cyberfucking and has been backtracked a la Hanns & Ezarc/Bob.

I would do some snooping.

Credit card bills, phone bills, pockets for matchbooks and receipts and phone numbers, late nite errands and weekend office deadlines for projects you never heard of before, sudden boss appearances from out of town and must do dinners....

The first/last name intro and "I didn't know he was married." is an obvious tip off....or attempt to cause trouble.

It's fishy.

Lance

 

[Spinaroonie]

I would be devestated for a few minutes then remember I don't have one.

 

[paganangel]

look, don'ttrust him blindly. don't go off the hook either.


hey, for all you know, some woman asked aout him, looked him up...and then panicked whenshe relizedhe was married.

 

[sunstruck]

Don't jump to conclusions. Could be a woman with a crush got his name and didn't know he was married.

It all comes down to trust. If you don't trust him, you probably have reason to, but if you always have, don't let one call ruin that. If he hasn't done anything else to raise your suspicions be aware, but don't be warry. I've seen marriages break up over false assumptions.

Good luck.

 

[paganangel]

seriously, that first and last name thing sounds formal...as though she were getting ready to introduce gherself. she shouldn't be hard to trk down.

 

[penguindance]

 

[Tx girl]

Hanns? Go screw yourself..

I appreciate everyones posts, im still however devistated. I do trust my husband but this was a huge blow. My number is unlisted and he still swears he dosen't know her. Wow talk about life turned upside down

 

[Spinaroonie]

Hanns? Go screw yourself..

I appreciate everyones posts, im still however devistated. I do trust my husband but this was a huge blow. My number is unlisted and he still swears he dosen't know her. Wow talk about life turned upside down

a piece of advice?

Don't appreciate that post I made

 

[Tx girl]

Thanks Spin no harm done.

 

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[Tx girl]

Hanns kiss a big dirty ass. Wait you are used to kissing asses and sucking dicks arent ya

 

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[christcat69]

Bury him in the desert.

 

[#1tankcomander]

I agree with Gunner...if you trust your husband, then just write it off as some woman trying to cause trouble.

BUT...only you will know what the truth is...deep down. If you trust him, then trust him fully.

I'm with Bob on this one. There are some people so jealous of the fact that some one that they'd wanna fuck is married or that the solid marrage of a couple is too much for their desasterous life.

Example:

I was accused of getting a girl pregnant and my wife and I played it to the hilt untill it came out that I had a Vacetamy (SP) by a close friend, and blew that gal out of the water. Then the story started changing, but toooooo late, caught in her own fabricated imagination of out right lies!

 

[Soblue]

Kick his ass, or have someone else kick his ass?

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

Tx,

(((((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))))))


If I were you I'd write that woman off, give your hubby the benifet of the doubt. Trust him.

but buy a gun if it happens again

 

[ksmybuttons]

You love him? Have him help you track down the woman. Lance's suggestions are good ones. You both deserve to find out what it is about. By doing it together, he clears his name and your doubts. If he has been cheating, watch him squirm.

 

[Tx girl]

Sex huggggggggggggs and thankyou. Im going to try and do just that. He swears to me he dosen't know who she is and i guess after being together going on 9yrs and 5yrs of marriage, i need to try my best to just let it go. He's never cheated on me that i know of. I guess thats why i took it so hard. I think mainly i was scared shitless. And i still kinda am. Well i am. Its hard to act as if this woman didn't call my house. And im not a good actress.I guess ill just take it day by day and see. He has been warned if i find out he's cheating he's gone and her ass is mine.

 

[KillerMuffin]

I knew a woman who got bored and took the phone roster from the Company (she was in the Army). She called up the ones she hated and told their wives she was pregnant.

You either trust your man or you don't. If you didn't have a gut feeling before the call, then don't try to manufacture one.

It's a very shallow love if you allow something like that phone call to come between you and your guy. If he's cheating, it will eventually come out. If he's not, then you fucked up your marriage all by yourself if you pursue this.

Trust him or trust her. Pick one and run with it.