What do you consider extreme BDSM?

[Kajira Callista]

Just wondering *shrug*

 

[SoUnique]

Extreme BDSM examples

I think extreme BDSM would include anything that leaves permanent scarring or disfigurement, or that physically alters a body in such a way that it no longer functions normally.

 

[Bandit58]

Anything involving the drawing of blood or even the thought of it (knife play, needles, nails through any body parts)

Human toilet *spew*

Burning, permanent scarring.

Very tight breast bondage (where the breasts are engorged and purple)

Being made to service other men/gang bangs

 

[graceanne]

Extreme BDSM has different meaning for each person. Just like the argument about people's titles, this one could go on forever.

Extreme BDSM is whatever is past your hard limits. For some it'd drinking pee, others it'd be breath play. And each might be comfortable with another's limits.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Extreme BDSM has different meaning for each person. Just like the argument about people's titles, this one could go on forever.

Extreme BDSM is whatever is past your hard limits. For some it'd drinking pee, others it'd be breath play. And each might be comfortable with another's limits.

well thats what i wanna know missy...i wanna know what is extreme to each individual...






then i will tell you what my idea of extreme is and watch everyones hair fall out lol

 

[Symoria Dixx]

hmmmmm

such a fluid motion that others wouldnt notice the difference

 

[graceanne]

well thats what i wanna know missy...i wanna know what is extreme to each individual...






then i will tell you what my idea of extreme is and watch everyones hair fall out lol

Aaaaaaaaaah. I can't wait to see your list . . . or lack there of.

Um, scat, anything to do with pee (or any other body waste), burning, anything seriously harmful to the body or health, gang bangs or sharing, . . . um I'm sure their's more.

 

[hogjack]

Dismemberment by plastic utensils.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Dismemberment by plastic utensils.

oh my lmao thats one i wouldnt have thought of.

 

[Marquis]

Scat, bestiality, maybe cutting and heavy bruises. Most things beyond that I wouldn't consider SSC*, and thus wouldn't consider BDSM.


*Safe, Sane, Consensual

 

[snowy ciara]

<<<hijack>>> I love that av, KC....<<</hijack>>>

Are you looking for why it's too extreme? I mean, could a person say, "no knife play, ever ever EVER" or do we have to explain why?


Probably, since we're seeing how our minds work...

 

[marieR19]

hmmmmmm. I've made lists, changed lists, etc, since I first got into bdsm. Right now I would have to say anything to do with pee or poop, tight/full bondage or for extended periods, needles/peircing/tattoos, and.... um.... hmm. I dunno. I have things that are maybes, that I think I'd like to try but may end up being too much... Includes knife play, puppy play, and role play (age play, student/teacher, etc).


Heather

 

[HawkEye38]

Needles, EEP!

 

[jadefirefly]

For me, anything that involves the drawing of blood or wearing of exrement/waste is a bit much. Also branding/fire play, excessive pain (my idea of excessive changes constantly, though) and mummification/full-body bondage. And animals, including most forms of animal play.

I'm also not big on public humiliation. Public anything, really. Being made fun of in public just makes me cry, it doesn't do anything good for me.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Don't really know as we do or have done many of the things included on other's lists here as extreme (branding, cutting, sharing and servicing others, needles, full bondage, breathe play, heavy bruising and flogging/whipping to blood, light scat, piss play, puppy play, etc. etc..) and have been labelled extreme by others often, but I always feel we are nowhere near extreme yet. So what does that leave me? I guess things like extreme punishment as in permanent disfigurement or removal of body parts/limbs (or even without the guise of punishment); being kept chained or confined on an almost permanent basis; being sold or given away permanently; breeding slavery; body modification that requires surgery; death.

Catalina

 

[Netzach]

I consider breathplay, full suspension, serious public humiliation, large-gauge piercing and cutting, roman brown and ruby showers, and what most people would consider heavy painplay to be edge behaviors. Large scale modifications, gender transitioning "for one's owner" and full ownership would be "extreme" to me.

 

[Betticus]

Just wondering *shrug*

Betticus!

 

[Kajira Callista]

<<<hijack>>> I love that av, KC....<<</hijack>>>

Are you looking for why it's too extreme? I mean, could a person say, "no knife play, ever ever EVER" or do we have to explain why?


Probably, since we're seeing how our minds work...

It was an attempt for all of us to better understand where each of us is coming from if that makes any sense.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It was an attempt for all of us to better understand where each of us is coming from if that makes any sense.

LOL, very clever idea which might just have worked in various ways.

Catalina

 

[rosco rathbone]

Like delia day n' shit.

 

[MissJennifer]

Extremes

For me personally, I would say scat (bathroom play in general, although some watersports I can deal with), children, animals, permanant scaring, fire, gun play. I dont ever want to permanantly harm someone so I stay away from things that may do that. Of course every person is different in what they can take so it varies.

When I take a submissive role, the same rules above apply, in addition to no anal, no swallowing, no faceslapping, tight rope bondage, needles/piercing, forced play with others, extensive housework, cages... (This is why Im -not- a sub! )

 

[Quint]

Level 1 Extreme to me - piercing, enemas, cutting, branding, long-term suspension/bondage, food deprivation, long-term behavior modification, endurance training, pain play to the point of drawing blood, and the indefinable etc. Still in the realm of physically possible and definitely imaginable in the future but nowhere we've touched as of yet.

Level 2 Extreme - scat/vomit, catheters/urethra play, animals, forced dependance (no personal finances, social life, etc), permanent/heavy body modification beyond piercings/tattoos/the above-mentioned, deliberate violation of my principles and/or laws, any sort of psychological torture that deals with personal phobias, and again the etc. Stuff that I can imagine in a pure theoretical way but I don't know how the hell we could do them and still remain us; however, I'm leaving the possibility open because saying "never" is an open invitation for God to smirk.

I don't really find stuff like gangbangs, breath play, forced sex, or urine play extreme, so they didn't come up. This was fun! Let's do another one!

 

[Kajira Callista]

i Quint

 

[Bandit58]

There was a thread recently on the collarme forums (before it was removed by the moderators) from a male sissy sub whose Mistress wanted to castrate him He'd already had breast implants done. Now I'd consider that really extreme

Public humiliation for me is another no-no, along with face slapping and punching. I guess a lot of others would not agree with me but having lived with someone who emotionally abused me I'm afraid anything that affects my self esteem in a negative way is "extreme".

 

[Slutacus]

I remember reading a thread in here once about female castration. I thought that was very extreme, too.