What do women want most in life??????????

[RicsDiary]

What do women want most in life??????????

This is the big question that has been going through my mind since ages.
(And in the minds of other since centuries!!)

And so I finally decided to write some things and post some photos on this topic.
(Which is perhaps the biggest mystery in the universe.)

All of you are welcome to post here.

You can post pictures and stuff that you feel will help me in this quest.
(And in the quest of others too? Others looking for an answer on this subject??)

However, please note that this thread has been created for my own use.
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[RicsDiary]

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[RicsDiary]

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[RicsDiary]

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[RicsDiary]

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[cyberking001]

What do women want most in life?
Security!
How do I know?
Because every time I walk into a bar and smile at one, that is what she is screaming.
(Sam)

 

[DarelHute]

You could very well be right. Security seems to be the first priority for most women. That's perhaps not surprising given the millennia of women being under the power of men. So when a woman is sexy, one can wonder if she's sexy because she wants to be so, or because she knows that's what it takes to hook a man who will give her security. Yup, I think it's security as well...

 

[cyberking001]

security

Ummm ... you do understand that was a joke, right?
Sam

 

[PieTaster]

Marriage is a business transaction after all.

 

[Jada59]

Ummm ... you do understand that was a joke, right?
Sam

I got it but he's right too.

 

[Jada59]

I can only speak for myself. I don't think I'm a typical female. I want to spread light and love. I want to feel good and make others feel good. Those are my main things.

Of course I want financial security. But don't we all?

Do I want a man? That's not one of my goals but I do love men and if I have one that I mesh well with, so much the better. I am perfectly happy on my own.

Rocks and crystals. I love them! This is not necessarily a female thing but they do make me very happy. I also like giving them away. I keep a lot of rose quartz because it spreads love. Whenever anyone is down, I give them a piece of that.

I want to learn and grow. I want to be a better person. I want to attract people into my life that I can learn from and grow with.

I have pretty much achieved all of that. My life is good!

 

[Obuzeti]

I can only speak for myself. I don't think I'm a typical female.

I don't know if there is such a thing as a typical female, and if so I've certainly never encountered it. I think there are people who have never reached far enough or experienced enough to define themselves well. They just crib off of whatever's mouthed nearby to have even the semblance of identity, of personal significance - but this isn't a thing unique to gender. Everyone spends their youth trying to find out who they really are, scraped clean of all the other bits of people around us. Some never grow out of that.

In any case, 'wants' are so wildly subjective that I don't think anyone can pull a single unifying winner out of this hat.

I say this with the understanding that I, myself, am deeply unlikely to encounter a 'typical female' long enough to recognize it.

 

[ABadboy2]

I am absolutely no expert but here are my thoughts.

Regardless of modern feminism woman are badically "maternal". What's the appeal of the "dad bod"? It's got the word "DAD" connected to it! I bet you could scramble the pictures into any order and the men identified as "married" and "dad's" would always be highly rated.

A man who is "sexually viral" (High sperm count. Would absolutely get the woman pregnant the first time he slept with her.) will score high. Again he is "dad". A what is a dad? He's strong, he's protective, he's self-reliant. He's a good listener, etc.. Think in terms of how a girl would like to view her father.

Watch Korean dramas. This is what I find interesting. The female characters almost always pursue rich men. Extremely RICH men. They can have male friends who are super nice, and really want them, but who are poor -- and they pursue rich men who are psychos, and treat them badly, instead.

And a curious thing about many of the Korean dramas is that after pursuing -- and winning -- the super rich guy, she will take off and pursue her own career (Six years getting a medical degree). And he waits the whole time!!! Are you kidding me?!

Back when I was single I was more religious. I used to hang out on religious forums and debate various moral issues. Ultimately I was banned from five different forums and I quit. The "Christians" seem to have a problem with "sex". Talks to guys about "sex" typically focus on "masterbation", and "masterbation accountability" groups. For instance guys sharing an apartment together and going so far as leaving the door to the bathroom open when they use the toilet, or shower -- to keep them from masterbating. Or the cringyest suggestion I have ever heard -- sharing a bed with another guy..

The talks to the women seem to focus on avoiding trashy romance novels, and not dressing in overly sexy clothes.

What the talks are missing are any discussion of actual sexual intercourse between a man and a woman -- AND ABSOLUTELY NO DISCUSSION OF MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN!

Porn is exciting, but what is ultimately fulfilling? I think that is where you need to look as a writer.

 

[Beautifuljen79]

Attention just fucking listen and pay attention

 

[AdelineL]

I'm married, I love my husband. I'm happier when we actively romance eachother - not just sex. The stuff men think of as the "work" to get to sex is what I appreciate more. Hold my hand. Kiss my hair. spend time with me just because. But this is anathema to most men. Once they have you, why would they still want you?

I used to be more kinky in my early twenties - I'm 26 now. Now I value the romance more. I want to feel safe and protected, and valued like I'm your treasure to protect - and visa versa of course.

I've become less trusting of men's intentions, but I think that maybe one out of one thousand men really do like romance too. Maybe.