What constitutes "Having Sex"...

[charlien]

...only traditional penis/pussy intercourse?

Spent the night with a lady a while back, our first by the way. In the morning she made the point that we had not "Done The Deed", and we hadn't, that's true.

We'd done most everything else imaginable and both orgasmed more than once. Guess I felt this was little more than a word game on her part for what ever reason.

charlie

 

[BgMma]

Any sexual contact.
I don't believe that kissing is sex, but any physical contact in a sexual manner I consider sex.

 

[patient1]

2 or more people & an orgasm.

 

[christianne]

charlie you aren't by chance a former president of the United States are you?

 

[Nora]

2 or more people & an orgasm.

So a 4-hour long, every which way possible fuck-a-thon with both partners too drunk to actual orgasm isn't sex?

Um. Not that that's ever happened to me, of course. But uh. A friend told me it happened to her once. *nodsnods*

 

[millieteases]

That depends on what the definition of "is" is.

I couldn't resist.

It's sex if you think it is.

It's intercourse if there's penis/vagina penetration. Unless it's social intercourse, which is when you talk, exchange glances, hold a door or basically exist in the same space as and recognize the existence of another person.

Of course, if you don't believe someone else is there - you have to start talking to Kant, or Wittgenstein or Plato or one of those types - if you believe he or she is in the room when you are.

I think I'm off topic.

The rest of it is up to you and your definition of is is.

 

[patient1]

So a 4-hour long, every which way possible fuck-a-thon with both partners too drunk to actual orgasm isn't sex?

Um. Not that that's ever happened to me, of course. But uh. A friend told me it happened to her once. *nodsnods*

I once read a critical review of television. One person complained that there was too much sex on television.
Another asked if they had ever seen anybody beaten off, sucked till they screamed, or fucked to ecstasy.
Well, no they admitted, but then what do you call all of the tits on television?
FOREPLAY, there's too much foreplay on television!!

Nora, I think your friend had some fabulous foreplay.

 

[I'mVan]

lol

It depends, is one of thier spouse's judging?

 

[Cheyenne]

*bump* I like the definition that if you think you've had sex, you probably have.

 

[I'mVan]

Unfortunately Chey (my oldest of buddies), the inverse is not necessarily true.

 

[Backyard sweaty]

It's not masturbation in a hotel room?????

 

[patient1]

If you're alone it's introversion, if you have help, it's intercourse.