What Are You Thinking? Continued 6

[JerseyJade]

One of my exes from high school has been back in contact with me recently (we’ve always been in contact, but we’ve been exchanging more messages) and wants to get together this coming week. My husband doesn’t care, but I’m on the fence. All I’ve ever done with this ex is kiss and I’m nervous as fuck by the prospect of having sex with him. My friends I confide in tell me to go for it, mainly I think because my bff wants to know if he has a big cock or not. Lol I have until Wednesday to think this through.

Well inquiring minds do want to know, so...... do it!

 

[JerseyJade]

How you feeling, beautiful girl?

Fara!

I'm feeling okay. How have you been? You've been missed.

 

[JerseyJade]

Thanks. I was feeling really mean. Even for me. I missed you guys.

Well I'm happy you're back. I missed seeing your posts.

 

[Sh75]

Thanks. I was feeling really mean. Even for me. I missed you guys.

Good to see you back Fara

 

[Shi_One81]

Thanks. I was feeling really mean. Even for me. I missed you guys.

Yay!!!!

 

[tnman03]

Thanks. I was feeling really mean. Even for me. I missed you guys.

The next time you decide to leave for a while just leave a BRB later post and log out for a while if you would please. You've got a lot of people here who were unhappy that you left.

 

[BeautifulBlueSky218]

This week is going a little bit better for me which is a good thing. My niece is visiting right now. Got her the other day and she's staying here for New Years. Today I had a lovely day and now I'm relaxing. So I'm glad everything turned out okay today.

 

[TTawhere]

Thanks. I was feeling really mean. Even for me. I missed you guys.

Glad you are back. I can just be name again.

 

[blade_rocknut]

This was 74% of the reason I returned.


Mazel Tov.

 

[Shi_One81]

Well inquiring minds do want to know, so...... do it!

Peer pressure!!! Lol

 

[mnbreastluver]

There are no rules saying that your new year's resolution can't be kinky.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

"one last drink?"

Deja Vu.

 

[PlayWithMeToday]

That more often than not, what I want is not good for me.

 

[blue80driver]

That these sweats need to come off.

 

[fsa52]

Nearing my witching hour

 

[Suz_anne]

When I can't sleep, I sometimes work on puzzles. I'm working on a jigsaw puzzle that has a clown in it. It's the only significant portion of the puzzle I've been able to piece together so far.

It's freaking me out a little bit.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

If I had $7.9m to buy a house, I sure as hell wouldn't buy one in feckin' Paradise Valley, AZ. LOL

Also, chocolate!

 

[AlpineFresco]

So I’ve been pondering this. None of my partners are over 45, and have never seemed to have any issues yet even though I know it’s reality. It I think I would feel pretty bad if a partner took a pill to get or stay hard for a play party or a ‘bed day’ if they normally never needed it. Id feel like k wasn’t enough (I mean I feel like that most of the time anyway!). I would feel even worse if I found out and they hadn’t asked. I understand it is needed for some people. I don’t know no guess I feel like we are still young and if I’m not doing it for them, I don’t want them to use pills - it’s like faking it.

I’d be very wary of conflating a lack of physical reaction with a lack of willingness/interest or ‘faking’.
I’ve had extreme exhaustion get me to where I really thought my body would let me down (it didn’t, but as you say this is reality and at some point in my life it’ll probably happen).
I’ve also experienced an ex (sub-40) needing lube for vaginal play - she wanted to play, but her body didn’t always cooperate. It was just how she’d always worked. We just got what we needed and carried on!
Also, I’d feel awful if my body had let me down, there was a simple solution, and a partner rejected that idea, especially if we had little time together.

 

[blue80driver]

Should I go to bed?

 

[AveryElle]

I’d be very wary of conflating a lack of physical reaction with a lack of willingness/interest or ‘faking’.
I’ve had extreme exhaustion get me to where I really thought my body would let me down (it didn’t, but as you say this is reality and at some point in my life it’ll probably happen).
I’ve also experienced an ex (sub-40) needing lube for vaginal play - she wanted to play, but her body didn’t always cooperate. It was just how she’d always worked. We just got what we needed and carried on!
Also, I’d feel awful if my body had let me down, there was a simple solution, and a partner rejected that idea, especially if we had little time together.

If one is so tired - don’t fuck. If I thought you took pills because you couldn’t get hard due to exhaustion, I’d feel bad. I’d rather just not have sex. What kind of actual greedy person is like NOW. I’ve been unable to get a partner hard when they’ve been tired. Military hours are odd and two hours in a car while waiting for duty to begin isnt the sexiest.

But again, it’s me. And I wouldn’t be happy if someone normally able to get hard faked it with pills because they thought I’d be upset. It’s no different, to me, than faking an orgasm. Which you said you’d be really upset about when the question came up on the audio thread.

It’s just my view. Like you always say, communicate. No one else has to agree. They - and you - are free to take pills.

 

[parker77]

When I can't sleep, I sometimes work on puzzles. I'm working on a jigsaw puzzle that has a clown in it. It's the only significant portion of the puzzle I've been able to piece together so far.

It's freaking me out a little bit.

please stop fixating on the clown. you’re scaring me.

toss that puzzle immediately and start one with a winter theme, and no clowns, jesters, jokers or other jocular characters wearing makeup.

then go to sleep, precious.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

Take oxtails out freezer
Put the food away
Wash the dishes
Get dressed
Wash some clothes and those rugs
Cook breakfast
Go to the store
Fix midday meal
Prepare and cook greens
Make a phone call
Prepare and cook rum cake
Fix lunch
Write down levels for the last month and a half (ugh)
Fill out paperwork
This is just one part of my day. I narrow it down to calling it Cinderella duties but there's so much more to follow this.

 

[hotwords229_A]

please stop fixating on the clown. you’re scaring me.

toss that puzzle immediately and start one with a winter theme, and no clowns, jesters, jokers or other jocular characters wearing makeup.

then go to sleep, precious.

But what if she does that puzzle, steps away from it, then realizes that the winter theme actually makes an evil clown face!!!

 

[Dardesstra]

Aftercare....

To me, the term "aftercare" implies taking care of everyone's needs when playtime is over. Daddy Wolf doesn't do "aftercare", what Daddy Wolf does would more correctly be named "in between care".​

 

[beachbaby179]

Now I'm thinking about blueberry waffles.