What Are You Thinking? Continued 5

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I missed an obvious opportunity last night. It really shouldn’t bother me, but it does.
 
I am thinking whether to go to work or not :confused:

If you’re sick, don’t go. If you don’t like your job, quit and don’t go.

If you have to think about it and you’re not sick, it doesn’t sound like the right job for you.
 
If you’re sick, don’t go. If you don’t like your job, quit and don’t go.

If you have to think about it and you’re not sick, it doesn’t sound like the right job for you.

Some days it isn't because you don't like your job, but you do need a break from it. Former co-worker used to refer to them as "mental health days".
 
It doesn't take that much effort to be nice to others. Why is it so hard for some?
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.

Some toss around pet names and compliments like candy and mean none of it other than casual affection. I don’t have a problem with that.

Some have meaningful connections with multiples. I’m ok with that too.

Some treat women as interchangeable.. THAT makes me uncomfortable. Everyone is worth being recognized as a unique person with their own value.
 
Try 6.8 degrees! Lol. I do have a fire going to help keep you warm!!

No to the cold your in. Yes to the fire. I would be fine is all my socks had not disappeared. I suspect my kiddo took them. I just buy all men’s socks to save on matching them up.
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.

I don't know where you're from, but there are places in the American South where men and women call each other pet names when they're just transacting business at a grocery store or a bank. It's simply customary.
 
I don't know where you're from, but there are places in the American South where men and women call each other pet names when they're just transacting business at a grocery store or a bank. It's simply customary.

I’m from Savannah, Ga.

Typically, when women do it, it seems casual. Mostly harmless. However, they also do it when they want something from you.

It can be a fucked up manipulation tactic regardless of whether it’s a man or woman who does it. But if you think men are the only ones who do it, you’re clearly delusional.
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.

As I've gotten older, I refer to a lot of women as "Hun". I use it as a term of endearment to those I'm close to. It's not meant to be disrespectful. I also refer to people younger than me as "kid". That may be a bit disrespectful :rolleyes:
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.

Sound like your over thinking things sugar. Lol
 
If a guy openly claims multiple other people in threads here (saying things like “my dear,” or “my sweet girl” commonly) does that make others as uncomfortable as it does me? Maybe it’s just another one of those things I don’t understand.

Tell us who it is, and we will tell you who he’s e-banging.
 
I've had a couple of PMs recently using pet-names. These are people with low post counts and a high number of years on the site, usually. It weirds me the fuck out.
 
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