And we shouldn't have to accept or tolerate someone who rejects the social norms of the community, displays no regard whatsoever for the feelings or perspectives of people other than himself, and continues to act like an incel douche at every opportunity.
Ah you having some too?
Don't tell us what to do
No, you don't have to tolerate it, but you can't also say your all accepting either. What have I really done other than not really care about how I'm perceived. How is that wrong? It's the same as gays not caring about the Christains perspective of them. They continue to live their lives, no matter of peoples opinions. So why must I care about anyone's opinion of me? I don't know how else to put it. I don't mean to offend anyone directly, I'm just being me. If you think I'm a bigoted asshole, so be it. I can't and don't care to change your opinion of me.
By all means be you but being a human is also about having the ability to self reflect and change, take responsibility for your fuck ups. Unless you are have a narcissistic personality disorder or are a psychopath/sociopath... Are you?
Never been diagnosed, though you could say, just for being a Oklahoma born and raised, in a dysfunctional teen years, with multiple fucked up shit happening to me and around me, maybe I do have issues. But this community doesn't care to look into that. I know I have filter issues and as said before, get a little to comfortable with a group to quickly. Hince why I'm arguing with a forum and not out with people of my local community
I thought you were a god?
Who?
I deleted my accounts. Both my author nick and my Cyberbella nick. To make a long story short, I had enough of Lit. All the cliques, bullying, rude individuals. I heard the platform had changed and things were better, so I came back. However, it doesn’t appear that much has changed at all.
Aw that seems sad. I still like it here. I just wish it was as active as before.
I self reflect constantly, I just am hardened to peoples opinions of me. My entire life, I'm judged for me just being me. Mostly with how I talk, how I don't care if people find what I say to be offensive. I don't say negative things to people either. I don't say "Hey, you stink. Go take a shower. " I will ask, "How was your morning/day/night? What cha do?" Get an idea why they may smell or if they're just lazy. After I built report, I will be more direct. It's not because I hate people. Its actually the opposite, I Love them and want them to better themselves. Just as Some of You have. You particularly, I don't think, purposefully thrown hate my way.
I'm afraid you have some competition buddy!!
That's fair. A lot of people have unresolve trauma and issues. Where we grow up and our environment plays a big role in who we are and how we behave. It's not our fault to a certain point. But at some point we become adults and we have to start taking responsibility and take action into healing and addressing wounds that may impact how we relate and interact with other people. I'm not criticizing or attacking you. Also therapy can be highly effective for this! I know is not as widely available for a lot of people but if you can I recommend it!
I have heard the rumor. But as always, we will just have to wait and see
My mother and aunt have masters in psychology, I went through counseling for over 7 years in my adolescents because of my dysfunctional family and because my parents were addicts, drug prevention with personal counseling. I went through anger management while in highschool. Not because I was violent outwardly but inwards. So I have self reflection skills and use them. I just see it as said before. I'm brash and direct. I can explain myself if I want or care to. I just don't honestly care if someone takes personal offense to what I say most the time. Because most the time when I speak to people, I'm not directing negativity or hate.
I am but here to serve.
Somebody has to ya hoodlums.Don't tell us what to do
That's what the other people say. Idk. Take it up with them.
Attorneys have children who commit crimes and Mds children who are sick. You get the idea. Not trying to convince you otherwise but going at different times is diff bc you're at diff point in life. Anyway,
Idk what that is
Capitalism
