What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I don't know how to change sufficiently enough that people see someting worth exploring when they meet me. That they wish to get to know me.

I'm not sure why most people entually just stop caring completely. I guess I deserve it, that I'm doing things wrong. But why do I always have to be alone? Especially now. I hate being stupid.
Don’t ever change for anybody. Be yourself and you will find your people.
 
I don't know how to change sufficiently enough that people see someting worth exploring when they meet me. That they wish to get to know me.

I'm not sure why most people entually just stop caring completely. I guess I deserve it, that I'm doing things wrong. But why do I always have to be alone? Especially now. I hate being stupid.
The only person you should change for is yourself, we are all flawed and you're not alone there. Once you start changing the flaws you have and do it for yourself, the right people for you will notice. Don't be so accommodating, stay true to the root of yourself and change only for yourself.


You need to fight your own thoughts of negativity, shut it down and think of all the good have done in your life.
 
When I am sharing something that’s important to me and someone comes back with a platitude like Things could be worse, I assume they have nothing to offer anyone and immediately delete.

I gave a chance and pointed out not to minimize my feelings by saying that and he doubled down. So many shallow thinkers. iT cOuLd bE wOrSe
 
When I am sharing something that’s important to me and someone comes back with a platitude like Things could be worse, I assume they have nothing to offer anyone and immediately delete.

I gave a chance and pointed out not to minimize my feelings by saying that and he doubled down. So many shallow thinkers. iT cOuLd bE wOrSe
If I ever say that to someone, it’s because I’m somehow miraculously managing to hold back trauma-dumping and over sharing the 3-7 different ways it’s already been so much worse for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
If I ever say that to someone, it’s because I’m somehow miraculously managing to hold back trauma-dumping and over sharing the 3-7 different ways it’s already been so much worse for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
It’s odd to me when someone wants to center themselves in others’ pain. And as trauma goes, we don’t need to get into a pissing contest but I’ve had plenty since the day I was born. I choose to set it aside and offer to help.

My trauma is never an excuse to not listen to, and be a friend. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
It’s odd to me when someone wants to center themselves in others’ pain. And as trauma goes, we don’t need to get into a pissing contest but I’ve had plenty since the day I was born. I choose to set it aside and offer to help.

My trauma is never an excuse to not listen to, and be a friend. 🤷🏻‍♀️
For some people, letting others know they’ve been through something similar is how they relate to others. An effort is usually made not to make it all about themselves, but some of us have been through some pretty horrific shit, so if we’re making the effort to hold that back and simply say “it could be worse,” trust that it really, REALLY has been, but we’re trying to focus on your issue anyway.
 
Shhh, don’t take away our fun! 🤣

I never delete tit pics either, but have sent many a man searching through my (now 13,620) posts in search of them 🤭
Some men will do a lot of work to see a random pair of boobs. Something that is just a short google search away. I always appreciate them when I see them but I'm definitely not going to comb through someone's posts just to see them.

If there's a particular lady's parts I'd like to see, I'd rather spend my time earning a pic sent to me than to spend sifting through post for a random pic.
 
For some people, letting others know they’ve been through something similar is how they relate to others. An effort is usually made not to make it all about themselves, but some of us have been through some pretty horrific shit, so if we’re making the effort to hold that back and simply say “it could be worse,” trust that it really, REALLY has been, but we’re trying to focus on your issue anyway.
That’s not what he was doing. He wasn’t commiserating but just saying it and asking to smack my ass. Very different situation.
 
Ummm fair warning: eating @LaisDeMarieDeFrance’s cheese without it being offered is a sure fire way to ensure you get her steel!
(Tried to word that in a not dirty-sounding way, not sure if I succeeded 😅)
To be honest, I'm not that much of a cheese-person. I'd just rather have cheese inside me than a knife, given even the faintest choice! An exception would be raclette. I'd do almost anything for raclette! (Although not fondue, for some reason.)

I think your wording was reasonably clean-sounding, by the way, and I can read an innuendo into almost anything, especially if it's unintended!
 
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