What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

It is rough being an unknown, new person at Lit. People seem only to interact with their own already established circle.
 
Thanks for explaining it to me. It's kinda shitty for noobs, but I guess that is how the orld works now.

That explanation is a little misleading… yes if you are on here a lot and post a lot… people will still not really respond, comment or message you. You might get some reactions but that’s usually the limit unless you get really really really lucky.

Honestly, a lot of it has to do with what attitude you have in your posts. The more responsive and funny or interesting you are, the more likely you'll get responses in the forum, which might lead to a PM.

For myself, I like to watch and see what kind of things you post. If I'm intrigued, I'll message someone.
 
You’re probably right. I just suck at connecting with people, posting, commenting, and at the moment parenting, and probably a list of things. I’m not funny, interesting or intriguing to apparently anyone.
I know how that feels man. For what it's worth, I'm here if you need to talk. Same goes for anyone who is struggling or feeling like they don't fit in or belong.
 
The game wasn't over! Well, Oregon was up 49 to 21...
I love Hate Week... When Oregon wins at least.
 
I know how that feels man. For what it's worth, I'm here if you need to talk. Same goes for anyone who is struggling or feeling like they don't fit in or belong.

That is quite appreciated. Hilariously enough I was gonna offer the same to you. But I’m good. I’ve accepted my fate on here. It sucks but it is what it is.



Don't get down on yourselves, just post without expectations. Be yourself, put yourself out there, reach out to the ones you like. Eventually you’ll find like minded people. Lit should be used as entertainment, do not base your happiness on this site, use it as a tool of entertainment.
 
Don't get down on yourselves, just post without expectations. Be yourself, put yourself out there, reach out to the ones you like. Eventually you’ll find like minded people. Lit should be used as entertainment, do not base your happiness on this site, use it as a tool of entertainment.
Also make sure to “read the room” in a specific forum. Review past posts to get a feel for what the residents are like, and how they react to different types of comments.
 
Two thoughts...

If you're going to post the same pictures on your own thread anyway... why TF post on the theme threads?

AND

I don't have the mental capacity to stroke anyone's ego full time
^^ This. I'm not even thinking about photos, but this applies.
i mean...but you'll pet it a little bit? right? like if they were good?
 
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