What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[Mrlighthouse]

Polite and friendly doesn't mean anything if it's not combined with having things in common. I mean, this isn't a dating site.

I'm not downplaying any relationships made here, but we're all here for some fun and some sort of connection (even if it's not the sexy time kind).

If you're looking for the perfect partner, you might want to move one - no one's perfect.

Thanks for making an assumption. It is incorrect.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I usually don't feel sexually connected to my admirers.. It's a fact..I'm totally shocked I did what I did this afternoon!!!

 

[munch2much]

No point in believing you can make any real connections here.

I’m not going to say it’s easy. And remember there may be a reason why people are on Lit, rather than instead of, or as well as being out in the real world.
And of course the lovely ladies here are bombarded/outnumbered by guys. Plus …often people are in different countries and lovely though we are (of course!), it is kinda inconvenient for them.

But I still chat with a lovely lady who I consider a valued friend after meeting for drink in another country 2 years ago.

And I dated another for many years after meeting up in real life.

I know that I’m not to everyone’s taste either on Lit or offline.
I can go weeks with an empty inbox.
and you’re right, the majority of people drift away.

But there have now been many times when I’ve had a Lit relationship and ached to get home from work so I can pay them attention. And they’ve said the same. And they have lasted longer than some of my real life relationships.

It is what it is. Maybe think of it like the lottery? You gotta be in it to win it, but don’t rely on it as your main source of income?!

 

[barefootgirl69]

People vanish.

It sucks being ghosted. We never know if it's intentional or something unexpected happened. But, real connections are made sometimes. People do meet up (not always a sexual encounter). They become lifelong friends.

 

[EvaLane]

I’m wondering if the veil of silence/non complaining over “guys bachelor party trip weekend” has been lifted yet so I can tell my husband I’m sick and he has to come home

 

[Passionate_Gent]

whether I'm gonna have a good night sleep tonight

 

[UK_EastMids]

whether I'm gonna have a good night sleep tonight

Yeah, good call

 

[munch2much]

I sometimes wonder what different people do once they have forged the kind of connection they were looking for on Lit. Once you've found it, is there any reason to stay?

...and might that also be why, as you say, the majority leave?

Absolutely! I myself barely came to Lit for around 9 years for exactly that reason.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

It's too early. Lol

 

[MrPimms]

Find a post that cuts deeper than it should.

 

[OldDirtyAltGuy]

 

[SimplyMsT]

I'm thinking ...

Nope, can't do it ... going back to bed!!!

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Thinking this now.

 

[Trubbycat]

I can take my pills with wine if I want.

 

[dkak001]

Are all of our perceived connections here just in our heads? Are online friendships really possible, or is it all imagined???

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Are all of our perceived connections here just in our heads? Are online friendships really possible, or is it all imagined???

Great questions. I think, and this is just me, that any connection is only as real as you want it to be or as real as two (or more) people want them to be.

 

[hotwords229_A]

When a guy says “Suck my dick” it’s an insult, but when a woman says “Suck my pussy” it’s an invitation.

Weird.

 

[UK_EastMids]

N

When a guy says “Suck my dick” it’s an insult, but when a woman says “Suck my pussy” it’s an invitation.

Weird.

No, when I say 'Suck my dick' to my wife it's an order. She never has to tell me to lick her

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

N

No, when I say 'Suck my dick' to my wife it's an order. She never has to tell me to lick her

It would be a way cooler story if she punched you in it.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I need to do a solid 2-3 hours of writing today. I've fallen out of the habit...

 

[hotwords229_A]

It also recently occurred to me that when you tell a dog “It’s okay”, you’re really telling them “It’s not okay at all”.

The only time you tell them “It’s okay” is when you’re about to do something they hate like giving them a bath, trimming their nails, going to the vet, showing them something they don’t like, etc.

So just know, the next time you tell your dog “It’s okay” you’re actually telling them “Prepare yourself because this is going to be awful”.

 

[alwaystheguy1983]

That I'm grateful to be living in Vermont once again after the nightmare that was Florida

 

[Carolinaguy45]

I’m ready to cum again

 

[UK_EastMids]

It would be a way cooler story if she punched you in it.

Context is everything. Or in your case, nothing

 

[lindi_85]

I wish I could sleep longer than 3 hours