What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

Short rant...so i know its been said before, but there are not enough emotes available as reactions...i am tired of using the :ROFLMAO: as humorous or funny in an absolutely positive way, when people are only going to take it negatively. while i think i understand the reaction, it makes absolutely no sense to me and is extremely frustrating. i blame all the people who put in their heads that laughing and giggling are negative responses and that people are laughing and giggling at you in a negative way. this is a sex site. sex is silly, its funny, its goofy, and its messy...if you cant laugh at it then why the fuck are we even here? so yeah, i need more emotes to use as reactions because apparently i cant use :ROFLMAO: without someone misinterpreting it and taking it as a negative reaction. grrr.

sorry, rant over...dont you DARE fucking :ROFLMAO: at this post either! this is SERIOUS! 😡(this part is not so serious, but definitely how it feels)
There is a whole language in the reactions, depending on the reactor, the reactee, the post, and the thread. It is all very situational, and I barely understand any of it. I learned from a person who posted Ampics, and, depending on the person responding, there was a MASSIVE difference between a "like" and a "love," and it was serious. I thought she was reading a bit too much into it, but she reached out to the reactor and yes, he was communicating something different from just the reactions. They were speaking the same language.

I gave up.
 
There is a whole language in the reactions, depending on the reactor, the reactee, the post, and the thread. It is all very situational, and I barely understand any of it. I learned from a person who posted Ampics, and, depending on the person responding, there was a MASSIVE difference between a "like" and a "love," and it was serious. I thought she was reading a bit too much into it, but she reached out to the reactor and yes, he was communicating something different from just the reactions. They were speaking the same language.

I gave up.
Have you analysed me?
 
I wasn't aware that some take a laugh as being negative. That's bonkers :(

Regardless, I will continue to laugh a things I consider funny and take a laugh response as a compliment.
They will see it as laughing at them, rather than laughing with them. Unfortunately, in a place like Lit, you do get people who use it as a negative. I am careful with it as well. I have had people call me out with, "hey, why are you laughing?" Once, by a person who I thought knew me well enough to give me the benefit of the doubt, no matter what. I thought I had earned that --I should have earned that-- apparently I had not.

Thus is Lit.
 
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It was very strange to receive an unexpected phone call from a lady I knew a crazy number of years ago. I guess she just fancied a chat. And sounded exactly as she did way back when. 🤔
 
It was very strange to receive an unexpected phone call from a lady I knew a crazy number of years ago. I guess she just fancied a chat. And sounded exactly as she did way back when. 🤔
As a married guy, those get entirely too complicated
 
On the responses topic.

I don't always reply to Ampics, though I respect anyone who posts, so I always try to at least respond. And when I do reply, I at least try to be creative and think out what I am saying. Double entendres, sometimes puns, with people I know it will sometimes be a running thought. I don't see the point of "nice tits," or some perverse explanation of what they want to do to them. I put effort into being thoughtful. I have a freind on here, who I love dearly, and I wrote out something I figured was pretty good. And she DMed me, and I thought "oh, nice, a thank you." I have received those in the past, and even started longer conversations. Yay!

Nope. "You forgot to "love" the picture post."

 
Short rant...so i know its been said before, but there are not enough emotes available as reactions...i am tired of using the :ROFLMAO: as humorous or funny in an absolutely positive way, when people are only going to take it negatively. while i think i understand the reaction, it makes absolutely no sense to me and is extremely frustrating. i blame all the people who put in their heads that laughing and giggling are negative responses and that people are laughing and giggling at you in a negative way. this is a sex site. sex is silly, its funny, its goofy, and its messy...if you cant laugh at it then why the fuck are we even here? so yeah, i need more emotes to use as reactions because apparently i cant use :ROFLMAO: without someone misinterpreting it and taking it as a negative reaction. grrr.

sorry, rant over...dont you DARE fucking :ROFLMAO: at this post either! this is SERIOUS! 😡(this part is not so serious, but definitely how it feels)
Umm, yikes to people who feel the need to interpret what you’ve reacted.
There is a whole language in the reactions, depending on the reactor, the reactee, the post, and the thread. It is all very situational, and I barely understand any of it. I learned from a person who posted Ampics, and, depending on the person responding, there was a MASSIVE difference between a "like" and a "love," and it was serious. I thought she was reading a bit too much into it, but she reached out to the reactor and yes, he was communicating something different from just the reactions. They were speaking the same language.

I gave up.
Umm, big yikes. I don’t think I speak that language 😬. Are the men evolving? 🤭🤪
On the responses topic.

I don't always reply to Ampics, though I respect anyone who posts, so I always try to at least respond. And when I do reply, I at least try to be creative and think out what I am saying. Double entendres, sometimes puns, with people I know it will sometimes be a running thought. I don't see the point of "nice tits," or some perverse explanation of what they want to do to them. I put effort into being thoughtful. I have a freind on here, who I love dearly, and I wrote out something I figured was pretty good. And she DMed me, and I thought "oh, nice, a thank you." I have received those in the past, and even started longer conversations. Yay!

Nope. "You forgot to "love" the picture post."

What the actual fuck? 🤦🏽‍♀️

I don’t know about you but this is the sort of stuff that made me rage quit my last username (I know, dumb, it was a them problem). I’m not great with nuance until I know how that person posts as standard and even then things can be misinterpreted. I also don’t get why people PM to ask random things like ‘why’d you not like my post but you liked the one directly above me?… true story. Anyways, it’s why no one can PM me anymore.

Please don’t take anything I do or say personally. I miss pics and posts all the damn time mainly cos I’m on my phone and stealing moments to lit
 
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