What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

Ain’t nobody wanna hear how hot they are when you’re saying that you’re not into their brand of hot.

Yes, this is about hot dudes hitting on me.
 
It’s my second favorite grinch movie, the og is my first. Jim Carrey doesn’t rank. I love him but that movie was weird as fuck.
I refuse to watch that version of Grinch. The original will always be my favorite and my favorite thing about Christmas.
I mean the trees are kind of like naturalists? 🤷‍♂️
Very true so maybe they did. 😁
I tried that excuse once...cop had no sense of humor.
Omg that’s too funny. Sorry it didn’t work!
 
Anyone done Korean hot pot before? I’m in it for the first time tomorrow and I don’t want to look silly.

I’ll take my answers off air.
 
Today at work I heard a client/patient share some hard truth. She was telling the nurse that she has decided not to go with anymore chemo and radiation as it was impacting her quality of life (she comes in to our facility for another treatment) and that she was tired of getting sick all the time, then she pointed at her husband and said he doesn’t understand but I’ve never asked for anything for myself but I want this for me…

It took everything from me to not break into tears behind my computer at that moment. But her words will stay with me.

Go hug a loved one because goodbyes are hard.
My spouse has had cancer twice, unrelated to eachother, completely different types. It's horrifying to love someone and feel helpless to ease their pain.

However, I will say this, there's a gift to cancer, and that is that you know that today is precious because tomorrow isn't promised.
 
My spouse has had cancer twice, unrelated to eachothdr. completely different types. It's horrifying to love someone and feel helpless to ease their pain.

However, I will say this, there's a gift to cancer, and that is that you know that today is precious because tomorrow isn't promised.
🫂🫂
 
My spouse has had cancer twice, unrelated to eachothdr. completely different types. It's horrifying to love someone and feel helpless to ease their pain.

However, I will say this, there's a gift to cancer, and that is that you know that today is precious because tomorrow isn't promised.
We learned there are just some arguments... actually most arguments in our house just weren't worth it. You just try to be better.
 
Agreed, it just puts so many things into perspective.
I remember sitting in the waiting room for what was the third surgery and there were three other guys in my area: a big burley old guy with boots and a huge cowboy hat, a sikh, and a Haitian. I snickered to myself because we were literally a bar joke sitting there in real life. But each time a doctor would come out we all wished each other well, we comiserated when the cowboy got clearly bad news. We talked about our separate situations. It was bittersweet. It shouldn't take something like this for people who wouldn't acknowledge each other in the street to find their humanity.
 
I remember sitting in the waiting room for what was the third surgery and there were three other guys in my area: a big burley old guy with boots and a huge cowboy hat, a sikh, and a Haitian. I snickered to myself because we were literally a bar joke sitting there in real life. But each time a doctor would come out we all wished each other well, we comiserated when the cowboy got clearly bad news. We talked about our separate situations. It was bittersweet. It shouldn't take something like this for people who wouldn't acknowledge each other in the street to find their humanity.
The cancer center became a second home. I had 3 kids under the age of 5. It was terrifying. However, there a beauty in an equalizer such as cancer. We're all there at Fred Hutch, overlooking Puget Sound, some young, some old, all walks of life. No one cares where you've been.They just care that you're here and you're living this shared experience with each other. You're right, I wish we could experience that part of it every day
 
My spouse has had cancer twice, unrelated to eachother, completely different types. It's horrifying to love someone and feel helpless to ease their pain.

However, I will say this, there's a gift to cancer, and that is that you know that today is precious because tomorrow isn't promised.
I don’t completely agree with that theory. We lost my dad to a very aggressive cancer, detected very late. We all decided we won’t make it painful for him and spend the time we have with him then make him go through radiation etc. Flying through first available flight during covid, spending time with him while seeing him as a ghost of his past was very hard. This lady was a senior and it was all a flashback for me, it was like watching my dad’s story all over again.
 
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