What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

My inbox isn't flooded with messages, so quite easy.
Mine isn't flooded but I like to keep all the messages-especially ones I don't respond to-like if they are not good-so I remember who sent something gross but I don't want to see them. It's more like I would like to reference them. A folder to put them in would be nice.
 
Mine isn't flooded but I like to keep all the messages-especially ones I don't respond to-like if they are not good-so I remember who sent something gross but I don't want to see them. It's more like I would like to reference them. A folder to put them in would be nice.
Imagining all the titles of your folders.


Fuckable
Maybe
Hell No
This mfer is crazy
Call 911
 
I can’t believe it’s Saturday already, and I have an enormous amount of studying to get through.

Lucy.
 
Sometimes I think I should put the effort in to mentor people on LIT, something I do in my personal life. I see men's approach to women, women's mental issues and I know I can help, but the feeling of me wanting to be left alone is too strong. It takes a lot of energy and it is a mental drain to take on this task.
 
Sharing one's self here is a two edged sword. On the one hand, I like being creative and expressing myself/sharing parts of myself in ways that I don't or couldn't in the real world. But there are those few men* who seem to think they are entitled to more than I want to share or reveal because I've already shared so much. I usually just ignore them but sometimes it makes me feel gross and I've been wondering if maybe I need to share less of myself because of it.

*This is not a bash against all the men here. Just an observation. Please don't be offended. I love men. Usually.
 
Sharing one's self here is a two edged sword. On the one hand, I like being creative and expressing myself/sharing parts of myself in ways that I don't or couldn't in the real world. But there are those few men* who seem to think they are entitled to more than I want to share or reveal because I've already shared so much. I usually just ignore them but sometimes it makes me feel gross and I've been wondering if maybe I need to share less of myself because of it.

*This is not a bash against all the men here. Just an observation. Please don't be offended. I love men. Usually.
I love the way you share yourself here. It is sad that there are always some bad eggs men here as well. I am grateful for everything you choose to share. But it is up to no one but you to decide :love:
 
Sharing one's self here is a two edged sword. On the one hand, I like being creative and expressing myself/sharing parts of myself in ways that I don't or couldn't in the real world. But there are those few men* who seem to think they are entitled to more than I want to share or reveal because I've already shared so much. I usually just ignore them but sometimes it makes me feel gross and I've been wondering if maybe I need to share less of myself because of it.

*This is not a bash against all the men here. Just an observation. Please don't be offended. I love men. Usually.

I’m sorry you have to deal with this. Sheesh. What you share and how you share it, will always be appreciated…clothed or not. You’re the treasure.
 
Sharing one's self here is a two edged sword. On the one hand, I like being creative and expressing myself/sharing parts of myself in ways that I don't or couldn't in the real world. But there are those few men* who seem to think they are entitled to more than I want to share or reveal because I've already shared so much. I usually just ignore them but sometimes it makes me feel gross and I've been wondering if maybe I need to share less of myself because of it.

*This is not a bash against all the men here. Just an observation. Please don't be offended. I love men. Usually.
There are pros and cons to everything we do as human beings. You have to ask yourself is sharing more of a benefit to you, than being a deficit to you.
 
Thinking that it might not be worth the trouble and I should get out while I still can
 
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