What Are You Nosey About Today?? šŸ¦

I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?
Infatuation, finding yourself thinking about the person randomly for no apparent reason. Some crushes are definitely stronger than others. I have no shame in admitting a small crush on your voice ;) that was probably obvious though from above.
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?
I think shenglung said it really well!
The only think I’d add is that I think there are different types of crushes. I have what I would say are girl crushes on particular females but it’s not in any sexual way, it’s admiration, appreciation type crush.
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?

I would define a crush as an, often secret, desire to be with someone whom you find very attractive (for any number of reasons).

I don’t know about levels of crushes but there certainly types and stages.

Example of types:

  • The ā€œnot my typeā€ crush
  • The ā€œthey know my nameā€ crush (like how a barista is nice to you…and everyone)
  • The ā€œI would neverā€ crush (a friend or a friend’s SO)
  • The ā€œtotal swoonā€ crush

Stages:
  • Interest
  • Curiosity
  • Infatuation
  • Sharing
  • Something more…
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?

It's easy for me. If you're a woman who's so much as given me the time of day, or acknowledged my existence in any way, there's a 99% chance I've crushed on you.
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?

Crush-(Azul definition) an infatuation with someone that can cause different results depending on the levels of infatuation.

That's the best I have.

I tend to hug a lot for crushes if they allow me to.
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?
If a person is in my thoughts when I wake up, randomly during the day and before I go to sleep then I am crushing on them.

Unless it is a family member then they have probably pissed me off!
 
It's easy for me. If you're a woman who's so much as given me the time of day, or acknowledged my existence in any way, there's a 99% chance I've crushed on you.

I already know how it works for guys...I want to know how it works for women.

See, if someone says to me, "I could easily fall for you", how can this be true while at the same time she is e-fucking a couple other guys here?
 
I’m nosey about crushes. What defines a crush? How do you know when you’re crushing? Are there levels of lit crush?

I like Stacy's list as well. I also think there is a huge difference between someone who is crushable and someone I crush on. There are lots people who are absolutely lovely, hot, sexy, intriguing but there is no spark between us. No chemistry.

For me that would be the key element of a crush - romantic or otherwise - chemistry.

There are different levels and different types of crushes. There are romantic, swoony crushes where you want to spend all day talking and conne. There are sexy, lists crushes where you just want to ruin them. There are girl crushes where you just want to know there skin care routine. And there are friendship crushes where you share lots of interests or a sense of humor. Etc

I think you know when you look forward to your next interaction vs. Out of sight out of mind.
 
I am nosey about masturbation. How much is too much? Can too much cause any physiological damage?
 
I am nosey about masturbation. How much is too much? Can too much cause any physiological damage?

When I'm sore it's too much. :D

The main thing I keep in mind is to keep the way I get off varied. I don't want to get so used to getting off in one way that I can't get off in other ways.
 
I think the key word there^ is ā€œcould.ā€ She’s not going to. Either intentionally for whatever may be her reason or it’s not there in that way for her.

This leads me to another nosey question is falling for someone the same as a crush?

When I crush on someone it’s usually a physical thing whereas when I fall for someone there’s chemistry, it’s emotional. But that’s just me and I can be a complete idiot when it comes to people and emotions.
 
I think the key word there^ is ā€œcould.ā€ She’s not going to. Either intentionally for whatever may be her reason or it’s not there in that way for her.

This leads me to another nosey question is falling for someone the same as a crush?

Crushing can lead to falling, but only if the crushing is mutual and the circumstances work out. Crushing is most of the time, one sided.

The more a person has had their heart broken, the less likely they will allow themselves to feel anything for another person, especially if their present situation is comfortable.
 
I think the key word there^ is ā€œcould.ā€ She’s not going to. Either intentionally for whatever may be her reason or it’s not there in that way for her.

This leads me to another nosey question is falling for someone the same as a crush?
Hi this is one that I have had a problem with. I don’t understand how I can virtually feel that way about somebody. It has affected my thinking and emotional state but if I say a crush on somebody because I think about them morning during the day and night then that would apply if I fell for somebody. Maybe I’m just too new to this and need to Experience more. Maybe I don’t want to but yeah I mean I I don’t really know. If somebody could explain the difference then maybe that might sort out this on charted territory that I keep finding myself in recently
 
I am nosey about masturbation. How much is too much? Can too much cause any physiological damage?

Jump on , …….out back

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Wear jeans tho , and helmet šŸŖ–
 
I think the key word there^ is ā€œcould.ā€ She’s not going to. Either intentionally for whatever may be her reason or it’s not there in that way for her.

This leads me to another nosey question is falling for someone the same as a crush?

Then why say it?

It isn't for me. I view a crush as I would a one-nighter. If I fall for someone...it hurts
 
Jump on , …….out back

Find the bike that makes a loud……VROOM Putt…puttt VROOMING noise :cool:

Wear jeans tho , and helmet šŸŖ–
Hi I think you don’t make any sense sometimes. I saw a post recently which you said about where you live to when you’re in the UK and that isn’t 1,000,000 miles away from where I live now. But why is that put 1 million in figures. I don’t know stupid text.I know that fen folk often don’t make any sense but your mind is like way way out there. I would love to know what sort of childhood you had
 
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