What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[Deleted member 1306910]

Burn. Cry. Do the work. Heal. Don’t notice them (in the same way with feeling that bothers) anymore.

Something like that.

I envy the passion inherent in this. I do not envy the pain.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

Dude, nosey if any of the Lit skanks had a lesbian make out sesh.

 

[ydahecnot]

Dude, nosey if any of the Lit skanks had a lesbian make out sesh.

All of them, of course.*




*—in my mind’s eye

 

[SassySheDevil]

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I’m nosey about how Litsters who have a “thing” that ends move on when you’re both still on the boards?

I think that it depends on the level of the relationship. It takes time. A lot of swear words. A lot of avoidance. A lot of angry music, some tears. Sometimes a lot.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I think that it depends on the level of the relationship. It takes time. A lot of swear words. A lot of avoidance. A lot of angry music, some tears. Sometimes a lot.

*hugs*
Hi.

 

[Dribble]

See, and I love, but I’m here for the friends. Friend love? Agape, rather than Eros.
I came here for one reason, and it morphed into another.
Come for the sex, stay for the love. Whatever.


I’m nosey about how Litsters who have a “thing” that ends move on when you’re both still on the boards?

The ignore function is power. Point click click gone forever. Simplicity.

 

[SassySheDevil]

The ignore function is power. Point click click gone forever. Simplicity.

The ignore feature on Lit is a joke. Any woman I know who has tried to ignore someone is constantly tempted by seeing their posts because on here, they aren't really ignored. You still see that damn "this person is on your ignore list" so you still see them posting, you are tempted by what they might have said.

Yes. Sometimes it helps, but if you post in any of the same threads, it's just as bad to see "this person is on your ignore list" as it is to see them posting.

Maybe guys are better at this. But most females I've talked to have said they still look.

It's very helpful if they've started threads. Then you don't see that thread. But just random posts. Not so much.

 

[ydahecnot]

The ignore feature on Lit is a joke. Any woman I know who has tried to ignore someone is constantly tempted by seeing their posts because on here, they aren't really ignored. You still see that damn "this person is on your ignore list" so you still see them posting, you are tempted by what they might have said.

Yes. Sometimes it helps, but if you post in any of the same threads, it's just as bad to see "this person is on your ignore list" as it is to see them posting.

Maybe guys are better at this. But most females I've talked to have said they still look.

It's very helpful if they've started threads. Then you don't see that thread. But just random posts. Not so much.

I did the button to only one ex. Otherwise, I save it for obnoxious trolls, not someone with whom I once had nice times. I am not that nihilist. And awkwardness eventually passes

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I’m nosey who the Lit sweet sweet Connie is

https://youtu.be/263_yne3UQg

Groupies are what being a rock star is all about RIP sweet sweet Connie

https://www.rollingstone.com/music/...zy-grand-funk-railroad-dead-obituary-1216117/

 

[Dribble]

The ignore feature on Lit is a joke. Any woman I know who has tried to ignore someone is constantly tempted by seeing their posts because on here, they aren't really ignored. You still see that damn "this person is on your ignore list" so you still see them posting, you are tempted by what they might have said.

Yes. Sometimes it helps, but if you post in any of the same threads, it's just as bad to see "this person is on your ignore list" as it is to see them posting.

Maybe guys are better at this. But most females I've talked to have said they still look.

It's very helpful if they've started threads. Then you don't see that thread. But just random posts. Not so much.

That is interesting. I wonder why that is? Maybe it is because of my GB background? Once a person makes my list...they stay there. I believe, it blocks PMs from them as well...but I could be wrong there. Maybe I am less forgiving? Maybe it forces me to evaluate my choices providing validation...they are there for a reason. This surprises me greatly

 

[Dribble]

I’m nosey who the Lit sweet sweet Connie is

https://youtu.be/263_yne3UQg

Groupies are what being a rock star is all about RIP sweet sweet Connie

https://www.rollingstone.com/music/...zy-grand-funk-railroad-dead-obituary-1216117/

Yes...I am that old. Fucking amazing live (at least in the mid 70s)...the way music is supposed to draw you in. She has the whole show...that's a natural fact

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I think the ignore feature goes both ways for me.

It's either, people who's post are annoying, trolling, or just repetitive, negative or not worth reading.

Or people who I need a moment to mentally prepare before I read their post. It puts the responsibility on me. And that's super helpful.

The only annoying thing is that when you block someone it blocks any threads they create. But... if you hate a thread, it's easy to get that to disappear.

 

[SassySheDevil]

That is interesting. I wonder why that is? Maybe it is because of my GB background? Once a person makes my list...they stay there. I believe, it blocks PMs from them as well...but I could be wrong there. Maybe I am less forgiving? Maybe it forces me to evaluate my choices providing validation...they are there for a reason. This surprises me greatly

It does block the PMs. But if something has ended. Most don't want to PM each other anyway.

When something ends. I usually hope for a friendship in the end. After all. Usually that is how it started, and it must have been good for it to progress.
That can't always happen though. At least not without time.

Like I said. This could be a difference in men vs women. - Temptation to look.

But like PLP said. It also depends on why you blocked them. The ending relationship kind, I am more tempted to look. The troll/ asshole. I blocked them cause they were an asshole. So I don't get that same temptation.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Yes...I am that old. Fucking amazing live (at least in the mid 70s)...the way music is supposed to draw you in. She has the whole show...that's a natural fact

If your going to be one of a kind , reach for the stars ️ and you will be a shining star. Bright as a motherfucker to some , pond scum to others.

 

[SassySheDevil]

So if you unblock them out of nosiness, do the dozens of PMs they've sent in the meantime show up? Asking for a friend...not! lol

Nope. if they are blocked and they try to send you a PM. It wont even allow them to send anything. it basically tells them that your messages are off.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Nope. if they are blocked and they try to send you a PM. It wont even allow them to send anything. it basically tells them that your messages are off.

So your saying there’s a chance ,that’s not a no

 

[Sweet_Lara]

I’m nosey who the Lit sweet sweet Connie is

https://youtu.be/263_yne3UQg

Groupies are what being a rock star is all about RIP sweet sweet Connie

Crazy, the things you learn on Lit. Her first is a friend of mine!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I’m nosey about exactly what it is PLP keeps “putting out there” for all these AMAs to be popping up.

A girl makes one "What are you thinking?" Post. *

I think it's getting passed from one person to another like a baton though

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Crazy, the things you learn on Lit. Her first is a friend of mine!

Limo lover
Lyric maker




Sexy baby
Costum maker

That girl , she’s crew , in ozzy speak 🗣

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I’m surviving it.. mostly by shoving my face full of pasta and thinking about pulling out all of my fall decor already.

We do what we can to cope I guess

And funnel cakes, we eat funnel cakes.

 

[ydahecnot]

OK, I am nosey about how women sending breast pics to one another became a thing. I mean, for example, if AF posted that he was feeling down, I wouldn’t send him a cock pic to cheer him up, and he wouldn’t want one.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

OK, I am nosey about how women sending breast pics to one another became a thing. I mean, for example, if AF posted that he was feeling down, I wouldn’t send him a cock pic to cheer him up, and he wouldn’t want one.

All boobies are beautiful and make people happy. Cocks...not so much. They can be hit or miss.

 

[ydahecnot]

All boobies are beautiful and make people happy. Cocks...not so much. They can be hit or miss.

They sure are beautiful. But how does seeing another women’s breasts make you happy, as opposed to, say, another woman sending a beefcake pic or a pic of a hottie in a suit? I mean, I like where it is going, so I am not hating, just nosey, per the thread title

 

[SassySheDevil]

OK, I am nosey about how women sending breast pics to one another became a thing. I mean, for example, if AF posted that he was feeling down, I wouldn’t send him a cock pic to cheer him up, and he wouldn’t want one.

Fara is really the only one I sent booby pictures to. They've been all over Lit though. So it's not like I'm shy.
Comfort? Showing off Vulnerabilities? I don't know how to explain it. I remember sending Fara a tummy pic to show her my flaws. We have sent ridiculous pics to each other. But I don't with all females.
I can send a woman a naked pic and she doesn't perv out and get all weird. She just appreciates.

 

[ydahecnot]

All boobies are beautiful and make people happy. Cocks...not so much. They can be hit or miss.

Because we are beautiful.
We love each other.
We boost each other up.
I’m cis as fuck, but I love seeing my friends feeling sexy and beautiful.

Fara is really the only one I sent booby pictures to. They've been all over Lit though. So it's not like I'm shy.
Comfort? Showing off Vulnerabilities? I don't know how to explain it. I remember sending Fara a tummy pic to show her my flaws. We have sent ridiculous pics to each other. But I don't with all females.
I can send a woman a naked pic and she doesn't perv out and get all weird. She just appreciates.

Asked and answered. Dunno if I will ever totally understand, but the insight from those posts and the one I missed quoting is appreciated