What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[Punkrockchick]

Let’s try a less controversial topic?


I’m nosy about who is working from home still and who is back in the office?
Also, how many of you lit on company computers?

I can answer that one! I am a graphic designer that has worked from home for the past 3 years. If I had know about the insanity that occurs on Lit sooner, I probably would have been out of a job.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Let’s try a less controversial topic?


I’m nosy about who is working from home still and who is back in the office?
Also, how many of you lit on company computers?

A safe topic

The company I work for has been fully remote for many years - so no change for me there. I think I would panic if I had to suddenly start going into an office again!

Like several other Litsters, I work in a creative field and use my own computer for work - which I do visit Lit on, but without the fear of breaking a company policy

 

[Cogan]

I agree. Sex is fun and like men, we should be able to fuck whom and how often we choose without being made to feel guilty. Guys who fuck a lot of girls are "cool". Girls who fuck a lot of guys are "whores". It's horseshit.

I’m sad that this is up for discussion in 2021 on a site like this.

 

[Rapha_79]

Let’s try a less controversial topic?


I’m nosy about who is working from home still and who is back in the office?
Also, how many of you lit on company computers?

I work for government so tend to steer clear of using Lit on my work computer. Could lead to some awkward conversations.

 

[Chillygirl]

And lots of women with dirty little secrets that if anyone found out just how many men they had on the go at any one time it would make them seem incredibly slutty and instantly unattractive!

I’d guess most of us are just talking and flirting with multiple people but if I choose to e-bone every guy I talk with in passing who are you to judge? Or are you just upset it’s not you? “Incredibly slutty and instantly unattractive”

I work for government so tend to steer clear of using Lit on my work computer. Could lead to some awkward conversations.

Lol same! I use my phone at the office and don’t log into the WiFi...

 

[Rapha_79]

Right? It’s the third time I’ve seen it in as many days. It’s exhausting. I’m weighing out if arguing about this time.

It never ceases to amaze me how animated some people get about the private activities of others that have absolutely nothing to do with them and have no impact on their lives.

Fuck who you want to fuck, e-boning or otherwise

 

[Hipshot1554]

At the moment...

I'm curious, and not a little worried, about everything that's happening these days. Can I believe anything I hear or read anymore?

 

[Cogan]

I agree, totally. I think boning in general, for men and women, is okay as long as it's safe, consensual, and honest. Times are changing and "sex positivity" is a thing. I definitely think it's time to do away with the judgement. Just be safe and responsible and tell your partner(s) what the deal is.

That said, I'm totally not e-boning anyone. Lol

I agree. Sex is fun and like men, we should be able to fuck whom and how often we choose without being made to feel guilty. Guys who fuck a lot of girls are "cool". Girls who fuck a lot of guys are "whores". It's horseshit.

So, who is e-boning who?

Right? It’s the third time I’ve seen it in as many days. It’s exhausting. I’m weighing out if arguing about this time.

I think both nrj and punkrockchick said it well enough. I have nothing to add.

 

[Chillygirl]

I just saw a post about a shortlist.

I’m curious if people have shortlists of people they’d like to e-bone here?

I used to joke I had a binder and the usernames were in alphabetical order with all their stats

 

[Mr_bogey]

And lots of women with dirty little secrets that if anyone found out just how many men they had on the go at any one time it would make them seem incredibly slutty and instantly unattractive!

Pretty presumptuous. Some might find that quality more attractive

 

[Rapha_79]

I just saw a post about a shortlist.

I’m curious if people have shortlists of people they’d like to e-bone here?

I’m not sure it’s ever formalised into an actual list but there are definitely one or two usernames that always pique my interest when I see them.

 

[Cogan]

I used to joke I had a binder and the usernames were in alphabetical order with all their stats

Is it time to be afraid?

 

[Mr_bogey]

I am now wondering how much “e-boning” (love the term btw) is actually going on. Do people make assumptions about others based on their own activity? I always think that there are a lot of people flirting because of what they put on the boards but it is very rare that I think they are doing more than that (and to be honest it isn’t any of my business). I make very flirty comments to quite a few men and women but I am not chatting with them privately. Most of my flirty comments are aimed at the same people because I know that their responses will be fun and flirty and they aren’t going to start sending messages to me wanting something more.

The idea about women having dirty little secrets because people knowing would make them seem slutty and instantly unattractive is quite misogynistic. Women are entitled to have a healthy sexual appetite and shouldn’t be made to feel ashamed of it.

I, for one, am very interested in your sexual appetite. PM me.to.discuss further.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I agree, totally. I think boning in general, for men and women, is okay as long as it's safe, consensual, and honest. Times are changing and "sex positivity" is a thing. I definitely think it's time to do away with the judgement. Just be safe and responsible and tell your partner(s) what the deal is.

That said, I'm totally not e-boning anyone. Lol

Wait. What's this "honesty" shit and what does it have to do with eboning? Are you saying I can't have a 13 inch penis? 13 is my.lucky number.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I just saw a post about a shortlist.

I’m curious if people have shortlists of people they’d like to e-bone here?

I have a long list, does that help?

 

[Mr_bogey]

Are you e-boning 13 women?

Name them! Right now!

I settle for eboning one. I'm going to assume you've been post-stalking me and, based off that,, assumed women were throwing themselves at me.. I'm far too discreet to discuss that.

Being part of the over 50 club and having an active RL would have me scrambling to handle one. I'll leave the juggling to the experts.

 

[Chillygirl]

Is it time to be afraid?

Be very afraid

Bwahaha as a neat freak I applaud that level of organisation

I like to keep meticulous notes and I have a scoring system…lol

 

[Lonelywife1205]

I just saw a post about a shortlist.

I’m curious if people have shortlists of people they’d like to e-bone here?

I’ve never had a shortlist. Most of the people I’ve ever e-boned have been random guys who messaged me out of the blue who I’ve never even seen post before.

 

[ydahecnot]

I’ve never had a shortlist. Most of the people I’ve ever e-boned have been random guys who messaged me out of the blue who I’ve never even seen post before.

*signs up for alt

 

[bigwoody8]

And lots of women with dirty little secrets that if anyone found out just how many men they had on the go at any one time it would make them seem incredibly slutty and instantly unattractive!

Sheesh. If this is really the way you think, you may want to log off. You’re in the wrong place. This is not a dating site. Women aren’t coming here to find their One and Only. As far as I know anyways.
Women and men come here because they were drawn here by tales of sex and intimacy. Then they found out there’s a whole bunch of people like them talking on the message boards. You really think it’s shameful to engage in multiple conversations with these people?

 

[bigwoody8]

What are the levels of e-boning?

Is there like a first base, second base, etc, like in the real world?

 

[Lonelywife1205]

What are the levels of e-boning?

Is there like a first base, second base, etc, like in the real world?

There may be some kind of levels, but I think real e-boning involves having an orgasm.

 

[ydahecnot]

What are the levels of e-boning?

Is there like a first base, second base, etc, like in the real world?

Second base would seem strange to be an ending point of a sexy time. Talking of making out and other sweet stuff…maybe early on. Third base would seem to be an essential part; whether it’s an ending point of a chat depends on if someone falls asleep or someone has to bail

 

[Chillygirl]

There may be some kind of levels, but I think real e-boning involves having an orgasm.

Agreed….I think there’s probably lots of e-making out though!

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I tried to steer this to less controversial topics but ya'll are so stubborn! lol


So, does it still constitute e-boning if someone you talk to inspires an orgasm for you just because of the topic of conversation? Or, is e-boning when you intentionally orgasm together?

I'm more into e-licking...and my goal is for her to cum. I am usually less worried about myself cumming than I am trying to make her cum...but I get very few opportunities, so in that way, Lit resembles my real life...