What are you all up to this Friday?

[pete]

I think it may be, but I'd rather be safe than sorry.

when mrs pete was preg with our first, i had her completely cut out caffeine. i thought it was gonna lead to our kid being ADD or something

 

[loquere]

Taking the kids out!

 

[1HF]

when mrs pete was preg with our first, i had her completely cut out caffeine. i thought it was gonna lead to our kid being ADD or something

Haha, awesome.

I try to limit my caffeine intake, but I still like my half a cup of coffee in the morning, and an occasional sweet tea.

 

[Joeybagadonuts]

So she already had the operation? That's awesome.

I'll tell ya one thing for sure....I won't be giving up my ass to her or anyone else.

*sticking my tongue way out at you*

 

[Leslie22]

I'm back. We ended up not going to a bar, so I'm home sooner than usual but still had a fun night.

What about you guys? Stayed home all day?

 

[goesallnight]

I played a concert and now I'm finish a bottle of wine in front of my computer. Why did you skip the bar?

 

[Leslie22]

A couple of friends had to work tomorrow morning, and the rest of us didn't want to go without them and also didn't feel like going anyway, since we had some drinks at the house.

 

[goesallnight]

A couple of friends had to work tomorrow morning, and the rest of us didn't want to go without them and also didn't feel like going anyway, since we had some drinks at the house.

Yeah, I got invited to a party. And when I go to those parties for a drink, well, let's just say I'm pretty hopeless once I get going. And I needed to work tonight. But yet I'm here.

What timezone are you in? I'm on the west coast.

 

[Leslie22]

Yeah, I got invited to a party. And when I go to those parties for a drink, well, let's just say I'm pretty hopeless once I get going. And I needed to work tonight. But yet I'm here.

What timezone are you in? I'm on the west coast.

Mountain, so it's almost 1 AM here.

I'm not a big party person myself. I usually just hang out with 3-5 of my closest friends where I know all of them. With parties you often get separated and have ugly drunk guys hitting on you. Do guys really want to get laid every minute of every day? Do they ever just want to have a fun, non sexual time with some people?

 

[goesallnight]

Mountain, so it's almost 1 AM here.

I'm not a big party person myself. I usually just hang out with 3-5 of my closest friends where I know all of them. With parties you often get separated and have ugly drunk guys hitting on you. Do guys really want to get laid every minute of every day? Do they ever just want to have a fun, non sexual time with some people?

I'm a zone to the left of you, so midnight.

I think when men drink they want to get laid pretty much always. Have a look at "Sex at Dawn", it pretty clearly explains things in this department.

I'm not that ugly, but I have been guilty of hitting on girls when drunk, but I'm very quick to take no for an answer and just be polite.

And yes, sometimes I like to have a fun non-sexual time. Even when drunk.

 

[Leslie22]

I'm a zone to the left of you, so midnight.

I think when men drink they want to get laid pretty much always. Have a look at "Sex at Dawn", it pretty clearly explains things in this department.

I'm not that ugly, but I have been guilty of hitting on girls when drunk, but I'm very quick to take no for an answer and just be polite.

And yes, sometimes I like to have a fun non-sexual time. Even when drunk.

Then you're one of the better guys in that aspect. It seems that when guys drink, they just start thinking with their dick. It can be so annoying. There has probably been plenty of times where a guy just wanted to chat and be friendly and I've blown him off because I assumed he just wanted to pick me up. That's why I'm not a big fan of parties and try to grab some booth in the corner when we go to bars.

I don't even know how alcohol can get people so horny. When I get drunk, I feel like I haven't slept in 24 hours, so it's a great nyquil for me. So drinking pretty much makes me the opposite of horny. Unfortunately I've had friends who do get that urge to get laid when drunk, and then end up regretting it. I'm so glad it doesn't have that effect on me.

 

[goesallnight]

Then you're one of the better guys in that aspect. It seems that when guys drink, they just start thinking with their dick. It can be so annoying. There has probably been plenty of times where a guy just wanted to chat and be friendly and I've blown him off because I assumed he just wanted to pick me up. That's why I'm not a big fan of parties and try to grab some booth in the corner when we go to bars.

I don't even know how alcohol can get people so horny. When I get drunk, I feel like I haven't slept in 24 hours, so it's a great nyquil for me. So drinking pretty much makes me the opposite of horny. Unfortunately I've had friends who do get that urge to get laid when drunk, and then end up regretting it. I'm so glad it doesn't have that effect on me.

Yes, you are probably lucky in that regard. Most women I have talked with about drinking do have a "horny window". A period when they get horny after drinking some, but then when they drink more they become sleepy and not interested. Some women have a very short window, like 15 minutes, with others it seems to be longer. Yours is zero from what you say. Probably for the best though, keeps you from doing things you regret.

Men are wired to put their dicks into women, and drinking reduces that inhibition. So you can see what happens.

 

[Leslie22]

Yes, you are probably lucky in that regard. Most women I have talked with about drinking do have a "horny window". A period when they get horny after drinking some, but then when they drink more they become sleepy and not interested. Some women have a very short window, like 15 minutes, with others it seems to be longer. Yours is zero from what you say. Probably for the best though, keeps you from doing things you regret.

Men are wired to put their dicks into women, and drinking reduces that inhibition. So you can see what happens.

Yeah, I think I'm lucky, but also kind of unlucky because I don't really have the fun of getting drunk. It's just more of a social thing for me, since my friends usually drink, so I feel I should just join in. If I get drunk, I get sleepy. I don't really have that "fun" side to it. I either get drunk and get sleepy or don't drink enough and feel completely sober.

 

[goesallnight]

Yeah, I think I'm lucky, but also kind of unlucky because I don't really have the fun of getting drunk. It's just more of a social thing for me, since my friends usually drink, so I feel I should just join in. If I get drunk, I get sleepy. I don't really have that "fun" side to it. I either get drunk and get sleepy or don't drink enough and feel completely sober.

Well then it's really good as you can use drinking to sleep when necessary, but other than that just abstain. It's cheaper all around.

 

[Leslie22]

Well then it's really good as you can use drinking to sleep when necessary, but other than that just abstain. It's cheaper all around.

Yeah, that's where guys hitting on you can be good - free drinks! But then again, I'd kind of feel like I'm using the guy if i do that.

But yeah, I never drink when I'm not with my friends. Too expensive that way. I'd feel like such an alcoholic if I used it to get to sleep, lol.

 

[stickwork]

I'm back. We ended up not going to a bar, so I'm home sooner than usual but still had a fun night.

What about you guys? Stayed home all day?

No excuses...

 

[goesallnight]

Yeah, that's where guys hitting on you can be good - free drinks! But then again, I'd kind of feel like I'm using the guy if i do that.

But yeah, I never drink when I'm not with my friends. Too expensive that way. I'd feel like such an alcoholic if I used it to get to sleep, lol.

Well if you need it to get to sleep sometimes, then there is nothing wrong with that, and it's probably more pleasurable than other things to get to sleep (sex tends to work that way for guys, but not for women as far as I know).

And free drinks is sort of wasted on you, since it effectively makes you more distant. So I can see why you would not want to do that.

I don't think you are in danger of being an alcoholic.

 

[stickwork]

Well if you need it to get to sleep sometimes, then there is nothing wrong with that, and it's probably more pleasurable than other things to get to sleep (sex tends to work that way for guys, but not for women as far as I know).

And free drinks is sort of wasted on you, since it effectively makes you more distant. So I can see why you would not want to do that.

I don't think you are in danger of being an alcoholic.

Famous last words...

 

[goesallnight]

Famous last words...

Hehe, speaking about her. I know what I am.

 

[Leslie22]

Well if you need it to get to sleep sometimes, then there is nothing wrong with that, and it's probably more pleasurable than other things to get to sleep (sex tends to work that way for guys, but not for women as far as I know).

And free drinks is sort of wasted on you, since it effectively makes you more distant. So I can see why you would not want to do that.

I don't think you are in danger of being an alcoholic.

Well, it just seems weird to drink alcohol to get to sleep, instead of using something like Nyquil.

Yeah, it does make me more distant and it just plain feels wrong to take a free drink from a guy who thinks he is going to get lucky but isn't.

Probably not, but I do have an addicting personality.

 

[goesallnight]

Well, it just seems weird to drink alcohol to get to sleep, instead of using something like Nyquil.

Yeah, it does make me more distant and it just plain feels wrong to take a free drink from a guy who thinks he is going to get lucky but isn't.

Probably not, but I do have an addicting personality.

Well Nyquil is effectively alcohol (look at the ingredients), so you should just use whatever is cheaper.

I drink because I like the feeling. I don't mind becoming more uninhibited.

Do men ever get lucky with you?

Why do you think you have an addictive personality?

 

[Leslie22]

Well Nyquil is effectively alcohol (look at the ingredients), so you should just use whatever is cheaper.

I drink because I like the feeling. I don't mind becoming more uninhibited.

Do men ever get lucky with you?

Why do you think you have an addictive personality?

Men will never get lucky with me, as I won't have sex outside of a relationship. Sometimes I have the urge to do it, but I don't act on it, since I know I would regret it after the deed is done. It's kind of how I lost my virginity. I was hearing about all the other people losing theirs and felt like I had to, so I did it with a guy I had dated a few times. Our "relationship" amounted to nothing and I just felt "I was so eager for THAT?" It's just more meaningful when you're in a relationship, so that's the long story for why guys won't get lucky with me.

I have an addicting personality, so even though alcohol doesn't have too much of a regrettable effect on me, I don't ant to take my chances. When I was 20-21 I was pretty addicted to Pepsi, which is pretty awful. I would drink at least one can a day, often having it twice a day. Thankfully I'm naturally thin, so it didn't have much of an effect on my appearance, but I definitely felt like shit whenever I would finish drinking it. It's eventually what led to a lifestyle change. I now exercise at least 3 days a week and don't drink it nearly as much. I still have it maybe once a week because I love the bite it has, but I definitely feel much healthier, and I don't want to fall into that kind of addiction to alcohol.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

On Friday I went out to dinner for some prime rib, then went to WAL-MART to buy a sack of dog food. Later I read 2 chapters of FREAKY DEAKY (Elmore Leonard) and one chapter of HONOR THY FATHER (Gay Talese).

Today I gotta fertilize the blueberries and peach trees.

 

[fluffPE]

Men will never get lucky with me, as I won't have sex outside of a relationship. Sometimes I have the urge to do it, but I don't act on it, since I know I would regret it after the deed is done. It's kind of how I lost my virginity. I was hearing about all the other people losing theirs and felt like I had to, so I did it with a guy I had dated a few times. Our "relationship" amounted to nothing and I just felt "I was so eager for THAT?" It's just more meaningful when you're in a relationship, so that's the long story for why guys won't get lucky with me.

I have an addicting personality, so even though alcohol doesn't have too much of a regrettable effect on me, I don't ant to take my chances. When I was 20-21 I was pretty addicted to Pepsi, which is pretty awful. I would drink at least one can a day, often having it twice a day. Thankfully I'm naturally thin, so it didn't have much of an effect on my appearance, but I definitely felt like shit whenever I would finish drinking it. It's eventually what led to a lifestyle change. I now exercise at least 3 days a week and don't drink it nearly as much. I still have it maybe once a week because I love the bite it has, but I definitely feel much healthier, and I don't want to fall into that kind of addiction to alcohol.

Pepsi sucks. Diet Coke is not addicting!

I laughed.