What are you a sucker for?

Beards

PhDs

Goofy laughs

Pants (on chaps) that are a bit too short and a bit tight.

Geeks

Donal Skehans sticky crispy chicken recipes….drool!

....
Oh!!

May I join in?

PhD, gosh yes please!

Acting with decorum.. swooning!

Laughing easily with twinkles in the eyes.... Just pick me up already!!

Attentive and assertive.... Oh dear!!


Almost nothing turns me off more than a man with a PhD! Maybe it’s from working in HR and seeing so many of them who sat in school for 20 years collecting degrees, but never worked a day in their life.

Also the short, tight pants…just no.
 
Almost nothing turns me off more than a man with a PhD! Maybe it’s from working in HR and seeing so many of them who sat in school for 20 years collecting degrees, but never worked a day in their life.

Also the short, tight pants…just no.

*hugs*
No PHD and I don't do tight pants. :)
 
A good conversationalist, cheeky, full of fun, curvaceous. Sexy legs have a power over me.
 
Almost nothing turns me off more than a man with a PhD! Maybe it’s from working in HR and seeing so many of them who sat in school for 20 years collecting degrees, but never worked a day in their life.

Also the short, tight pants…just no.

Hello Dear Lonelywife,

Aaaw! That is ok, well... I do think, that this is the wonderful aspect regarding attractions and preferences, that we all like such a wide variety of different qualities.

But.. it does make me a bit sad to hear you talk in such negative words, about other people's preferences.
And, getting a degree or PhD, calling it not working, that is kinda unrespectful.

It is a fantastic thing, that you know what attracts you😍 But please, it was a bit unnecessary to say, that you do not like what other people find attractive.

Sincerely
Cat
 
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Hello Dear Lonelywife,

Aaaw! That is ok, well... I do think, that this is the wonderful aspect regarding attractions and preferences, that we all like such a wide variety of different qualities.

But.. it does make me a bit sad to hear you talk in such negative words, about other people's preferences.
And, getting a degree or PhD, calling that not working, that is kinda unrespectful.

It is a fantastic thing, that you know what attracts you😍 But please, it was a bit unnecessary to say, that you do not like what other people find attractive.

Sincerely
Cat



Dear Cat,

It was meant as a lighthearted, silly comment, but there is some truth to it. I certainly didn’t mean it to come across as negative about your preferences. I just found it interesting that something both you and Anastasia found attractive I didn’t necessarily view the same way. I’m guessing my penchant for guys with great smiles who look good in jeans and plaid who coach youth sports might not turn you on the way it does me. 😉

Certainly getting a PhD is hard work and admirable. My comment stemmed from my experience. I’m in HR. I review resumes every day. I see resumes all the time where someone has multiple degrees, but yet no real world experience to go along with it. Every single day I have people with PhD’s applying for entry level jobs paying $35,000 a year.

We all are attracted to different things and the world is more interesting because of it.

Sincerely,
LW
 
Dear Cat,

It was meant as a lighthearted, silly comment, but there is some truth to it. I certainly didn’t mean it to come across as negative about your preferences. I just found it interesting that something both you and Anastasia found attractive I didn’t necessarily view the same way. I’m guessing my penchant for guys with great smiles who look good in jeans and plaid who coach youth sports might not turn you on the way it does me. 😉

Certainly getting a PhD is hard work and admirable. My comment stemmed from my experience. I’m in HR. I review resumes every day. I see resumes all the time where someone has multiple degrees, but yet no real world experience to go along with it. Every single day I have people with PhD’s applying for entry level jobs paying $35,000 a year.

We all are attracted to different things and the world is more interesting because of it.

Sincerely,
LW


Dear LW,

Hi ❤️ thank you for this answer.

Also.. oh!!! Men that look great in jeans and plaid, have big smiles and coach youth sport... 🥰 They will absolutely make me look twice and bite my lip!.

.... What attracts me?! - There is a list.. a long list 🤣
 
Almost nothing turns me off more than a man with a PhD! Maybe it’s from working in HR and seeing so many of them who sat in school for 20 years collecting degrees, but never worked a day in their life.

Also the short, tight pants…just no.

The few men and women I know who have PhDs are the hardest workers I have ever met.

A man who sits on his arse and has a sense of entitlement solely because he has a PhD is a complete turn off for me and deserves a slap around the head.

The short tight pants need to be stretched over a nice arse 😂😂😂

The world would be a very boring place if we all had the same opinions dear Lonely Wife.

Hugs and kisses from Germany 😘
 
Dear LW,

Hi ❤️ thank you for this answer.

Also.. oh!!! Men that look great in jeans and plaid, have big smiles and coach youth sport... 🥰 They will absolutely make me look twice and bite my lip!.

.... What attracts me?! - There is a list.. a long list 🤣

The few men and women I know who have PhDs are the hardest workers I have ever met.

A man who sits on his arse and has a sense of entitlement solely because he has a PhD is a complete turn off for me and deserves a slap around the head.

The short tight pants need to be stretched over a nice arse 😂😂😂

The world would be a very boring place if we all had the same opinions dear Lonely Wife.

Hugs and kisses from Germany 😘

Hugs and kisses to both of you lovely ladies. 😘😘
 
Looks at conversation above ☝️
I’m a sucker for “Alls well that ends well””
But suddenly feel I need to work out so my ass isn’t so skinny 🤣
 


  • Women with a good sense of humor and aren't afraid to use it.

  • Women who read something more than Cosmopolitan.

  • Women who can hold onto a conversation without applying a bicycle pump to their head.

  • Women who aren't afraid to have sex outdoors during an electrical storm.

  • Women who take greater pride in their accomplishments than they do in their appearance.

  • Women who judge a man not by the size of his wallet, but by the depth of his character.

And other considerations.


Ben
 
Looks at conversation above ☝️
I’m a sucker for “Alls well that ends well””
But suddenly feel I need to work out so my ass isn’t so skinny 🤣

Hehe just have some homemade German food and your arse will be fine 😂😂😂



  • Women with a good sense of humor and aren't afraid to use it.

  • Women who read something more than Cosmopolitan.

  • Women who can hold onto a conversation without applying a bicycle pump to their head.

  • Women who aren't afraid to have sex outdoors during an electrical storm.

  • Women who take greater pride in their accomplishments than they do in their appearance.

  • Women who judge a man not by the size of his wallet, but by the depth of his character.

And other considerations.


Ben

Awesome list Ben. I read the Financial Times and my wallet is big enough thank you very much! 😘
 
Hehe just have some homemade German food and your arse will be fine 😂😂😂



Awesome list Ben. I read the Financial Times and my wallet is big enough thank you very much! 😘

I’ve eaten rather a lot of home made german food and absolutely loved it. But it’s been a few years. So maybe the effect is wearing off now!
 
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