What are red flags in a potential BDSM partner?

[Dhabidommetrix]

Hello community

Inputs would be appreciated. But for me watch out for people who pressure you to play without limits, ignore consent, or call themselves a "true Dom" while dismissing your needs. consent, safety, and also when mutual care are non-negotiable.

Cheers
Lili

 

[MasterDarcy]

- Being overly agressive early on in your conversation.
- Demanding that they call them "Master," etc, on their initial message.
- Moving too fast e.g expecting you to be their submissive within a day of knowing them.
- Not wanting to get to know you as a person.
- Not willing to listen or compromise when it comes to your limits.
- Not respecting your hard limits.
- Not willing to show patience when it comes to getting to know you.
- Not willing to listen about your life and experiences, etc.
- Not willing to talk about themselves.
- Jumping straight into BDSM/sex talk.
- Jealousy if you reveal that you're talking to more Dominants.
- Not showing you respect and treating you with kindness in the "getting to know you" stage.

 

[cdstefi]

If they're somebody you wouldn't want to know in real life, not just sexy life, it's probably a red flag.