Western Europe 49F submissive looking for an experienced and trustworthy Dominant man

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Still dreaming of finding the perfect Dominant man for me, a mature yet inexperienced and curious submissive woman of Asian descent with a playful nature, a lover of all kinds of music, dance, art, and literature who is also enthusiastic about hiking, traveling and discovering new cultures, and mostly a very good girl…

Many people want to play, but very few are interested in developing something deeper, long-term, and monogamous. Ideally I’d like to be able to share vanilla moments, have conversations about anything and everything, and partake in non-sexual activities with a partner. And in any case, for me it would be impossible to render myself so vulnerable, in either a D/s or a vanilla relationship, without at least a certain level of commitment. Not asking for guarantees, just looking for someone that’s not polyamorous and would consider more than just a couple of hook-ups.

Online play? Sure, why not? But I’m interested in Shibari and don’t have any experience, which might make online play a bit difficult. I wouldn’t know how to tie myself up! Reasonably regular irl meet-ups including at least once before sending NSFW photos or videos would be necessary. Long-distance within Europe is a possibility if the chemistry warrants it.

Is there any available Dom out there that’s experienced enough to answer questions, someone who is willing to be a patient guide, someone that can instill in me a profound sense of trust but still enjoys teasing and exploring the limits of pleasurable pain and bondage?

I’m an Aries with a Virgo ascendant, so quite discreet (hence my username), with a Venus in Pisces. Leo and Sagittarius naturally make very good matches, but I was once bewitched by an incredibly sensitive Pisces man so you never know…
Definite hard limits include knife play, fisting, gangbangs, extreme bondage, and any blood, watersports, or scatalogical play.

If You exist and are not just a figment of my overactive imagination, please feel free to PM me with proof that consists of more than a one-liner or an explicit pic.
 
Hi you seem very interesting. Im curious to know of we can connect.

I am 54 m from UK. I dont have much real life experience of being a Dom, but I have mostly online experiences.

I like to take control of a sub. Gove her rules and tasks she must do, domestic as well as sexual, to make her into a better person. I like to choose what clothes she will be wearing each day. If she fails in any tasks then she will be punished. It could be a sexual punishment or stand in the corner, cold shower, no me time etc.

I dont have any experience with Shibari

If you are willing to know more and see if we can connect then please.send me a pm.
 
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