Well wishes for Grammy Lynx

MrsDeathlynx

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I just spent a week up with Grammy Lynx and went to a bunch of appointments for her, I'll give details in a moment. I know it's a little selfish to start this thread, but of all the people I know personally she deserves it.

They did a biopsy on the tumor on her breastbone, they couldn't do a needle biopsy so they had to cut her open and do surgery to get the biopsy. I'm at home now but we got some of the results, not good news...

The tumor is malignant, however it is not bone cancer. They have done x-rays, a bone scan and a CT scan before the biopsy and are sending out the tumor piece so that they can do more tests on it. They did a couple of more blood tests today, they have to do what they call a PET scan. What the PET scan will do is the same thing as a bone scan but only on the soft tissue. They have no idea where the cancer is coming from, at which point they can not treat it until they know the origin. They can not do surgery to remove the tumor because it has grown too far into the breast bone and they would have to cut off the top of it and part of one of her collar bones and that's not something they can reconstruct.

So long and short of it is my mom has cancer, they don't know where it is coming from so they can't currently treat it properly. She has two tumors, one on her breast bone and the other on her pelvis. The whole family is pretty much scared as hell and though she's not on this forum it will still help her out knowing that people are pulling for her and hoping as much as I am that this can be treated and doesn't end up killing her like it did her mother.
 
Oh serious bear hugs, honey, and I notified Nero to start a candle thread for her. I would but don't know the link.
 
Oh, no. I'd hoped you would get better news.

:rose::heart::(

We had too, but cancer runs rampant through my family and I'm not surprised and this isn't her first bout with cancer either.

Imagine explaining to her 9 year old nephew what is going on and having to explain that his grammy (his aunt and father's mother) died of cancer so that he could get a grasp of how dire it could be. I had to hug him and explain to my cousin that the doctors were doing all that they could to make sure that his aunt got the best chance possible so what happened to grammy doesn't happen to his aunt...
 
:rose: :heart:

Words fail me at times like these...*hugs*

*hugs back*

I'm trying so hard not to break down, so damn hard but I know I'm going to end up doing it, just have to fight it and keep in control of myself and my emotions until we know whether or not she has the type of cancer that can be treated or not but the wait is so damn hard and scary...
 
I'm so sorry Mama. :(

Sending calming thoughts and healing energies to your mother. :rose:

Don't lose heart, modern medicine can do wonderful things.

((((Hugs)))) darlin'. :kiss:
 
I'm so sorry Mama. :(

Sending calming thoughts and healing energies to your mother. :rose:

Don't lose heart, modern medicine can do wonderful things.

((((Hugs)))) darlin'. :kiss:

*hugs back* :kiss: Thanks, she will need all the energy that she can get.

UPDATE: PET scan is scheduled for Monday at 11am EST, she also has a doc appointment after that so she'll get the results. Her case worker for the Maine Cares (don't ask me to explain but covers her health stuff...) is going to help her and the cancer center to get her disability because of the location of the tumor she can't lift or anything else so there's pretty much nothing she can do...
 
*hugs back* :kiss: Thanks, she will need all the energy that she can get.

UPDATE: PET scan is scheduled for Monday at 11am EST, she also has a doc appointment after that so she'll get the results. Her case worker for the Maine Cares (don't ask me to explain but covers her health stuff...) is going to help her and the cancer center to get her disability because of the location of the tumor she can't lift or anything else so there's pretty much nothing she can do...

Nero and I have started a candlethread for Mama right here.
 
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