Weekend BDSM Report

[SexyChele]

Thank you all for your kind words - it is much appreciated!

cym - yes, I now know the difference between rubber and suede! And I still can't decide which I like better. All the better to try it all over again? I may need several samplings before I can decide!

Seriously, I'm so very happy for you, cym. You've taken some hard hits this past year or so, and to see you finally happy, finally being able to take the first beginnings towards something that you've been seeking is wonderful to watch. And truly, in your experiences there are lessons for all of us.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Well, it's not the weekend, but I have a play date tomorrow afternoon with someone I met at that m/m spanking party I went to.

James, have good time! How about a report?

Eb

 

[WillowPuss]

James, have good time! How about a report?

Eb

I echo that ...

would have thought a report was absolutely essential - just to clarifiy thought in your own mind, you understand, not cos we are nosy or anything like that ... not us!

 

[James Blandings]

James, have good time! How about a report?

Eb

We had a good time.
As I said, I met him at the m/m spanking party. He is a "Daddy" type, but not of the real intense role playing type.
We chatted for a while, then went up to his bedroom where he spanked me across his knees, and then laid me on the bed for a strapping. We didn't go beyond that, but we will definitely get together again.

 

[MzChrista]

Cool beans, JB.

 

[Ebonyfire]

We had a good time.
As I said, I met him at the m/m spanking party. He is a "Daddy" type, but not of the real intense role playing type.
We chatted for a while, then went up to his bedroom where he spanked me across his knees, and then laid me on the bed for a strapping. We didn't go beyond that, but we will definitely get together again.

Thanks for sharing, James. Maybe your posting will encourage others who share the same interests as you do to post and inform the rest of us.

Eb

 

[cymbidia]

We didn't go beyond that, but we will definitely get together again.

You know, slow beginnings are nice, too, James.

 

[zipman]

Lately I've been a bad Dom

I have been working and traveling a great deal and I have honestly been too tired to have a good scene with my gf. It takes a lot of energy to control every element of a scene. The last two weeks we have engaged in a lot more 'nilla sex than I would care for, or that she would for that matter.

I just got sick on this business trip with a stomach virus, so I am sitting in a hotel room in Memphis, weak as a 10 year old girl. I get back into NYC late tomorrow night and we have a wedding to go to on Saturday night.

But Sunday morning, now that is a different story. I plan on pushing her limits on Sunday. I haven't worked out the details yet (I like to plan every last detail) but it will be intense!!

 

[CarolineOh]

Thanks for sharing, James. Maybe your posting will encourage others who share the same interests as you do to post and inform the rest of us.

Eb

I agree. The greater variety of experiences we are exposed to here, the better!

 

[A Desert Rose]

He liked my dog.

I had my date. We went for dinner and a movie. Dinner was Italian, we ate at Spagos. Had some wonderful wine, giggles and a great meal. Then, we went to the movie (My Fat Greek Wedding, which as you know is hilarious) Had lots of laughs. Stopped for another drink before coming home. He kisses well. I will not tell you any other details because it is really unimportant to you. But as is my usual habit, I did not keep score.

He did ask me out again (this upcoming Friday) so, in the words of my good friend, That's a plus. Oh and he golfs and liked my dog.

Rose

 

[Shadowsdream]

We had a good time.
As I said, I met him at the m/m spanking party. He is a "Daddy" type, but not of the real intense role playing type.
We chatted for a while, then went up to his bedroom where he spanked me across his knees, and then laid me on the bed for a strapping. We didn't go beyond that, but we will definitely get together again.

How wonderful and beautiful James, I am so pleased to hear that it will be more than a one time mutual pleasure.

 

[SierraMoon]

Re: Re: cym

~grinning big and for real~
I so appreciate you not telling me those things, Artful!

In truth, every new beginning is just that: it's a new start, a whole new world, a life of new possibilities, and the beginning of what could be forever.

How can any of us ever be ready for that, no matter what experiences life has thrown to us beforehand? Don't we start all over, all of us, at the beginning of that which is new and valuable? Aren't we all just feeling our way carefully and trying not to step off the path and into the quicksand that lies along the edge of the trail, quicksand that's hidden in the deep fog that keeps us from seeing too far in any direction?

As for slowing down, well, the fates are doing that for us.
He's in southern Utah.
I'm in northern Califonia.
So it shall be for two or three weeks more.
How could even it get slower than that?!?!

cym, i am ecstatically happy for you!! Tex seems like a keeper in my book..... a mixture of strength, control, authority, yet... kind, gentle and caring also!!

does he have a twin brother maybe?? for me??? hehe

 

[MissTaken]

Another date

Another Dom.

This one followed me home!


(And is still here

Seriously, the weekend has been incredible and the two of us connect on so many levels that we hope to be able to build on the seeds of something very good and positive.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Another date

Another Dom.

This one followed me home!


(And is still here

Seriously, the weekend has been incredible and the two of us connect on so many levels that we hope to be able to build on the seeds of something very good and positive.

You go girl!

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: He liked my dog.

I had my date. We went for dinner and a movie. Dinner was Italian, we ate at Spagos. Had some wonderful wine, giggles and a great meal. Then, we went to the movie (My Fat Greek Wedding, which as you know is hilarious) Had lots of laughs. Stopped for another drink before coming home. He kisses well. I will not tell you any other details because it is really unimportant to you. But as is my usual habit, I did not keep score.

He did ask me out again (this upcoming Friday) so, in the words of my good friend, That's a plus. Oh and he golfs and liked my dog.

Rose

Wonderful, Rose!

I am so happy for you!

Eb

 

[Rubyfruit]

Wow, sounds like people were having fun this weekend. I'm glad.

I've been alone with my two three-year olds and six-year old for 48 hours. *banging head on table*

I don't know how you single moms do it.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Saturday night

My guy and I investigated the basement. last night.

A good time was had by all. Again and again, and again.

Eb

 

[P. B. Walker]

I missed my daily yesterday...

guess I need to make up for it today with two LOL.

Ahhh the life of a bachelor.

PBW

 

[Ebonyfire]

Wow, sounds like people were having fun this weekend. I'm glad.

I've been alone with my two three-year olds and six-year old for 48 hours. *banging head on table*

I don't know how you single moms do it.

Being a single mom, I recall I had the secret weapon':

Grandma and Zoloft.

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Lately I've been a bad Dom

I have been working and traveling a great deal and I have honestly been too tired to have a good scene with my gf. It takes a lot of energy to control every element of a scene. The last two weeks we have engaged in a lot more 'nilla sex than I would care for, or that she would for that matter.

I just got sick on this business trip with a stomach virus, so I am sitting in a hotel room in Memphis, weak as a 10 year old girl. I get back into NYC late tomorrow night and we have a wedding to go to on Saturday night.

But Sunday morning, now that is a different story. I plan on pushing her limits on Sunday. I haven't worked out the details yet (I like to plan every last detail) but it will be intense!!

And I expect a full report! (Purely in the interest of science, not for any thrills or anything).

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

I missed my daily yesterday...

guess I need to make up for it today with two LOL.

Ahhh the life of a bachelor.

PBW

Yeah, but enquiring minds want to know...

How is tha tfine ass of mine that I let you wear?

Eb

 

[P. B. Walker]

Yeah, but enquiring minds want to know...

How is tha tfine ass of mine that I let you wear?

Eb

My ass is doing just dandy... even considering I was riding for over 11 hours yesterday LOL. And no.. it's not that sore... you can keep that lube to yourself. LOL.



PBW

 

[Ebonyfire]

My ass is doing just dandy... even considering I was riding for over 11 hours yesterday LOL. And no.. it's not that sore... you can keep that lube to yourself. LOL.



PBW

I was just gonna massage it for you. I cannot be held responsible if my finger slips between your cheeks.

Eb

 

[P. B. Walker]

I was just gonna massage it for you. I cannot be held responsible if my finger slips between your cheeks.

Eb

hehee... gee it must be that tremendous amount of lube caked on up to your mid forearm that is causing those fingers to "slip" in there. lol...

PBW "No I'm not a freak for duct taping my ass shut" hehe

 

[Ebonyfire]

hehee... gee it must be that tremendous amount of lube caked on up to your mid forearm that is causing those fingers to "slip" in there. lol...

PBW "No I'm not a freak for duct taping my ass shut" hehe

I have a pair of surgical scissors just perfect for cutting duct tape.

Eb <I claim that ass, it is mine, all mine!>