Weekend BDSM Report

[MzChrista]

It's all those low cut dresses and pushed up bosoms. Does it everytime!

And before you could find whips and floggers a lot of places you could buy them from the leather workers at the faire.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Ummm Chele, that was a great fantasy. Somebody in my house keeps messing with that damned thermostat tho....its hot in here....whew.


dixi

 

[Persephone36]

Okay folks -- no need to feel badly for me. I fucked up -- fucked up way big. I may have no chance at salvaging anything -- and I'll only have myself to blame for that.

That's my little update. I think I'll be staring at the walls this weekend hating myself.

 

[CarolineOh]

Okay folks -- no need to feel badly for me. I fucked up -- fucked up way big. I may have no chance at salvaging anything -- and I'll only have myself to blame for that.

That's my little update. I think I'll be staring at the walls this weekend hating myself.

Honey, everyone makes mistakes. I know you need some down time now, but remember that you are just starting on this journey, and you have a lifetime of amazing experiences just waiting for you to dicover them.

 

[Quint]

For lack of a better term, I'm obsessing over potential actions, events, and so on that my greedy body really wishes T were here to do to me. I have The List already in writing, and I plan to continue to add to it until the happy day when I can put it into action.

(So, if it's been one week and The List is already taking up an entire notebook page [college-rule lines, too!], then by the time Christmas comes around it should be how long?)

T's working on his own List, which he won't share with me, the meanie. I get the feeling I'd better set aside a week or so. And not plan on doing much sitting down for that week. So um yes, adding to The List is what I'm gonna be doing this weekend...that and, y'know, incidentals like schoolwork. o)



Perse. Strength. You have it.

 

[A Desert Rose]

My weekend

will be golf, unless it does rain as the forecast says it might.

No romance, no whips and chains. Just me, my lady friends and hopefully 18 holes of laughs and gin and tonics at the 19th.

Rose

 

[Lancecastor]

I'll be massaging....

...some pine trim into place around the windows at the cottage I think.

 

[Persephone36]

Thank you Quint and Caroline.

He might, if we both work at it, eventually forgive me. But I'm not sure I will forgive me. I was as mean, nasty and hurtful as I've ever been in my whole life. I don't even know why. Please NO one feel sorry for me.

 

[MissTaken]

I hope you all have wonderful weekends.

For me, this weekend will be a break from the forum.



Hugs to everyone.....

 

[cymbidia]

Now...you sure you want me to post the fantasy here? I mean, it's 5 pages in length. (I never have short fantasies!)

Oh chele! What a marvelous job you did on this. I hope you're writing it into a "real" story for Lit submission.

Your Dom-to-be will likely be impressed with your emotional range and softly sentimental eagerness to get the physical part of this going between you. Your willingness to experiment with that which is new to you may well earn you big points, darlin'. Even more immediately, it might net you an open vibrantly appreciative smile, one that accepts and understands the work you put into this--for him.

 

[cymbidia]

Please NO one feel sorry for me.

No one is going to feel sorry for you, darlin'. We'll be sad because you're sad. We'll be anxious to be of some comfort to you. We'll be ears when you need them - but no one will feel sorry for you. I promise.


Okay, so what did you do that was so terrible besides get really really angry for...what, now?

You want to talk?
We'll listen.

You don't?
Ignore me.

Whatever is best for you, perse.

 

[cymbidia]

If you aren't playing, what would you like to be doing?

Ah! On Saturday i'll be at a daytime (how interesting!) fetish party. It's a once-a-month, invitation-only event in these parts, and normally held at night. So from noon until 6pm, i'll be there, watching a fascinating parade of people i know and people i don't yet know [playing and socializing and eating and drinking (only soft stuff - no alcohol at this party). I won't be playing, though i've had invitations. Tex isn't going to be there and i can't play if he's not physically present and keeping an eye on things. I don't mind that little restriction at all, either, btw.

At 6pm, i'll leave the party and drive to the airport. After passing through security (i'm sure the metal detector part of that will be a lot of fun this time round! ), i'll board a plane and fly to Las Vegas to meet Tex for the remainder of the weekend. While there, at some point, i'll visit with Blackbich (and, hopefully, WH from other parts of Lit, too) for awhile.

On Monday morning, Tex will return to work and i'll fly home. (Another trip through the metal detector. )

That's all i'm doing this weekend.

I hope you all have wonderful weekends.

For me, this weekend will be a break from the forum.

It seems to me that voluntarily taking time off before we get to a place where we must take time off is the mark of wisdom and maturity. I hope you find the release and relaxation you need right now, my friend.

 

[CarolineOh]

My best friend Trish and some crazy woman named Christa have decided that as I had not planned to have any kind of bacherorette party, they are going to take me out for a night on the town Saturday. I don't know what they have in mind, but I am sure it will be....interesting.

 

[CarolineOh]

Ah! On Saturday i'll be at a daytime (how interesting!) fetish party. It's a once-a-month, invitation-only event in these parts, and normally held at night. So from noon until 6pm, i'll be there, watching a fascinating parade of people i know and people i don't yet know [playing and socializing and eating and drinking (only soft stuff - no alcohol at this party). I won't be playing, though i've had invitations. Tex isn't going to be there and i can't play if he's not physically present and keeping an eye on things. I don't mind that little restriction at all, either, btw.

At 6pm, i'll leave the party and drive to the airport. After passing through security (i'm sure the metal detector part of that will be a lot of fun this time round! ), i'll board a plane and fly to Las Vegas to meet Tex for the remainder of the weekend. While there, at some point, i'll visit with Blackbich (and, hopefully, WH from other parts of Lit, too) for awhile.

On Monday morning, Tex will return to work and i'll fly home. (Another trip through the metal detector. )

That's all i'm doing this weekend.It seems to me that voluntarily taking time off before we get to a place where we must take time off is the mark of wisdom and maturity. I hope you find the release and relaxation you need right now, my friend.

So you are going to spent the afternoon watching all kinds of wonderfully kinky things going on, and then fly straight into your master's arms. Sounds like Tex had better be ready for a serious workout.

 

[Persephone36]

You want to talk?
We'll listen.

Whatever is best for you, perse.

Thank you cym, that's a very generous offer. And just knowing the support is there is really helping me not fall into hating myself. And getting that down on myself and that focused on me in a negative way -- isn't going to make *anything* in life better anyway.

I think that's the wisest thought I've had in days.

I'll definitely come to you if I need to. I promise to take you up on that offer.


P.

 

[Desdemona]

Great MG!!!!


I can just get out the cards and look at des's future... imminent but not immediate!

Next?

Hey Babe, do you know something I don't?? If so, spill it! LOL

 

[cymbidia]

So you are going to spent the afternoon watching all kinds of wonderfully kinky things going on, and then fly straight into your master's arms.

Yep. Tha't's the plan.



So where are MzC and your friend Trish taking you?
When, exactly, is the wedding?
What's Sam gonna be doing while you're out with the girls?
Who's catering your wedding? (I had to toss that one in. Who do caterers get to cater thier own important affairs????)
Got any last minute details left undone?
Where you going on your honesymoon?
Can we come?

 

[ShyGuy68]

Well since its Friday evening here, I suppose that it’s also count as a weekend.

I have a friend her in my town, who’s a Sadist like me, who’s married to a masochist. I’ve talked to her on ICQ a few times about my cane. She have never tried one, so she have been very curious about testing it out. A couple of weeks ago they were here visiting me, it was actually the evening before I went to get my tattoo, and she did misbehave a bit that evening. But they were having a rough spot in their relationship, so nothing evolved from that. But they have patched things up again now, so things could evolve tonight.

My friend and I went out Wednesday evening for a beer, after a meeting in a club that we both are in, to talk about a few things, among them was that his wife was very interested in testing my cane. He was also interested in knowing where my limits were, so that was clear if things did evolve.

So when they arrived tonight, she was wearing her collar. The evening started out as normal with conversation on different subjects, until he asked if she could see the “toys” I have. After she had seen them, he showed me a selection of toys that he had brought with him. She didn’t know what he had brought, since the first item he took out of his bag was a blindfold, which he fitted on her. So soon she was sitting blindfolded and handcuffed to a chair, while he showed me their different floggers and a few other items.

We started out with using the different floggers on her, so she wouldn’t be to cold when we started to use the cane on her. After a while she was finally ready, and I started out gently with the cane, to see where her limit was. It was very interesting to get to really use it for the first time, and figure out the different ways it can be used.

The evening ended after she had gotten well caned, and they had to get going. But I don’t think it’ll be the last time I get to play with her. It was also interesting to work as a tag team with him, so he used the cane, and I used the flogger. That sure had an effect!

I'll admit that it was nice to get to play again, it have been way to long ago since I did that the last time. It sure made me feel relaxed after they had to go. But I did tell my friend that he could always send her to visit me, if she had been to bad, with orders of what her punishment should be.

So right now I'm rather relaxed, and feeling good!

 

[CarolineOh]

Yep. Tha't's the plan.



So where are MzC and your friend Trish taking you?
When, exactly, is the wedding?
What's Sam gonna be doing while you're out with the girls?
Who's catering your wedding? (I had to toss that one in. Who do caterers get to cater thier own important affairs????)
Got any last minute details left undone?
Where you going on your honesymoon?
Can we come?

I don't know where we are going, but they kept snickering when they brought up the subject. Sam is going to have a little bachelor party with his friends. I doubt they will have as much fun as we will. Most likely they will smoke cigarss and play cards.
The wedding is Sunday, September 22. We are just having a small ceremony at Sam's church, and then we will have a nice dinner party at the restaurant where Sam and I went on out first date. So no caterer, but if i HAD to, I'd make the arrangements and have my staff take care of it. I work with some really wonderful people.
I think we've covered all the details, but I'm sure there will be some last minute thrills.
Back in June, Sam purchased a Hawaiian cruise, allegedly for my birthday present, but i suspect he planned it to be a honeymoon all along. We fly to Honolulu on the 25th and will be sailing the islands from the 27th until October 7. After that I will be loading his drained, exhausted body into a plane to fly home.

 

[CarolineOh]

Well since its Friday evening here, I suppose that it’s also count as a weekend.

I have a friend her in my town, who’s a Sadist like me, who’s married to a masochist. I’ve talked to her on ICQ a few times about my cane. She have never tried one, so she have been very curious about testing it out. A couple of weeks ago they were here visiting me, it was actually the evening before I went to get my tattoo, and she did misbehave a bit that evening. But they were having a rough spot in their relationship, so nothing evolved from that. But they have patched things up again now, so things could evolve tonight.

My friend and I went out Wednesday evening for a beer, after a meeting in a club that we both are in, to talk about a few things, among them was that his wife was very interested in testing my cane. He was also interested in knowing where my limits were, so that was clear if things did evolve.

So when they arrived tonight, she was wearing her collar. The evening started out as normal with conversation on different subjects, until he asked if she could see the “toys” I have. After she had seen them, he showed me a selection of toys that he had brought with him. She didn’t know what he had brought, since the first item he took out of his bag was a blindfold, which he fitted on her. So soon she was sitting blindfolded and handcuffed to a chair, while he showed me their different floggers and a few other items.

We started out with using the different floggers on her, so she wouldn’t be to cold when we started to use the cane on her. After a while she was finally ready, and I started out gently with the cane, to see where her limit was. It was very interesting to get to really use it for the first time, and figure out the different ways it can be used.

The evening ended after she had gotten well caned, and they had to get going. But I don’t think it’ll be the last time I get to play with her. It was also interesting to work as a tag team with him, so he used the cane, and I used the flogger. That sure had an effect!

I'll admit that it was nice to get to play again, it have been way to long ago since I did that the last time. It sure made me feel relaxed after they had to go. But I did tell my friend that he could always send her to visit me, if she had been to bad, with orders of what her punishment should be.

So right now I'm rather relaxed, and feeling good!

I think you should change your title to "The Dane with a cane"! I'm glad you had such a good time.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I think you should change your title to "The Dane with a cane"! I'm glad you had such a good time.

Lol Caroline, that was a good one. I'll consider that!!

 

[James Blandings]

My best friend Trish and some crazy woman named Christa have decided that as I had not planned to have any kind of bacherorette party, they are going to take me out for a night on the town Saturday. I don't know what they have in mind, but I am sure it will be....interesting.

I wish I looked better in drag, so I could sneak along with Caroline's bachelorette party!

 

[cymbidia]

I wish I looked better in drag, so I could sneak along with Caroline's bachelorette party!

I'd pay money to see this.

Seriously.

You go along in drag and i'll pay $100 for the pics.









Of course, i'll have to post them here.
You know that, right?

 

[James Blandings]

I'd pay money to see this.

Seriously.

You go along in drag and i'll pay $100 for the pics.









Of course, i'll have to post them here.
You know that, right?

I looked great in drag, oh about twenty years ago. I don't do it anymore, because if you don't look good, it's not worth the trouble.

Tomorrow I am going to Dally In The Alley, a great street party near the campus of Wayne State University in downtown Detroit. Lots of food, beer, great bands playing, for one day it's still 1970 down there.
Afterwards I might head to the eagle, a gay leather bar. I haven't been down there in quite a while, so I may stop in and see what's up there.

 

[cymbidia]

And i'm going to a daytime fetish party at a place called The Overlook and then walking the gauntlet of metal detectors at the Oakland Airport on my way to Las Vegas, and Tex (gonna see Weird Harold and Blackbich while i'm there, too), until Monday.