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A couple wants to get married in a particular chapel, but not with the regular minister of that chapel. Can they bring in their own? Let me explain the issue:
I presume that if they're Catholic, the church won't mind them bringing in their own priest—so long as it is a priest. Likewise if they're Jewish the synagogue won't mind them bringing in their favorite rabbi so long as he is a rabbi. But what about other Christian denominations? Would a Methodist church insist that the minster be a Methodist?
My thought here is that one partner belongs this church and wants to be married there. But the other partner wants a particular pastor to marry them, and he isn't the minister of that church, nor of that denomination.
I know there are non-denomiational chapels that exist just for weddings and any faith can have them. But this isn't the case in this situation. The church is attended by the one partner and is of a particular, denomination and does have its minister. Would that church be as strict as a Catholic church about the officiating person being of that denomination, or would they be more relaxed and, so long as the person officiating is Christian, allow him to perform the wedding at their altar?
If the answer is, "It depends on the denomination..." then which ones would likely be flexible and which inflexible? Because, frankly, they all look alike to me
I presume that if they're Catholic, the church won't mind them bringing in their own priest—so long as it is a priest. Likewise if they're Jewish the synagogue won't mind them bringing in their favorite rabbi so long as he is a rabbi. But what about other Christian denominations? Would a Methodist church insist that the minster be a Methodist?
My thought here is that one partner belongs this church and wants to be married there. But the other partner wants a particular pastor to marry them, and he isn't the minister of that church, nor of that denomination.
I know there are non-denomiational chapels that exist just for weddings and any faith can have them. But this isn't the case in this situation. The church is attended by the one partner and is of a particular, denomination and does have its minister. Would that church be as strict as a Catholic church about the officiating person being of that denomination, or would they be more relaxed and, so long as the person officiating is Christian, allow him to perform the wedding at their altar?
If the answer is, "It depends on the denomination..." then which ones would likely be flexible and which inflexible? Because, frankly, they all look alike to me