we need more bbw stories

I agree. There is no reason why the skinny folk should have all the fun. BBWs like sex too. Come on now. Show some love.
 
BBW need to stop being so stand offish. If they decide to actually give it up, they could get more than plenty.

Just like small women, big women come in all sizes. There are a lot of very beautiful big women.

Ladies give us some help here. A lot of you won't give us the experience. I've been in...with a few big women and enjoyed myself, but it took a lot to get that far.

The first paragraph I would have to write would be how the BBW believes the guy is lying through his teeth.

I had to go with the straight truth. "I want to fuck your brains out!"
 
BBWs may come across as stand-offish more so because they are being cautious. A lifetime of teasing and prank pulling will do that to a person. But anyhoo... in stories, BBWs can act anyway the writer wants them to. That's all we ask for... a little more variety.
 
jadedlili76 said:
BBWs may come across as stand-offish more so because they are being cautious. A lifetime of teasing and prank pulling will do that to a person. But anyhoo... in stories, BBWs can act anyway the writer wants them to. That's all we ask for... a little more variety.


thanks you! i was just about to go off on him explaining this, being a BBW, i know how it feels, and i know im cautious, actually now, im getting to know a guy but cant seem to get over the self esteem thing, and i know i come off standoffish, even tho he tells me everyday that im beautiful and uses petnames, i just cant get over the fact of some of the shit that was said to me before, by grown men even. i know not all men are asshole, and some even have a thing for big women, but if your in my place, and have been with a guy who just kinda settled for me, it hurts to have your tummy grabbed and poked and being told you need to lose weight... and i hate to say this, but any realistic story written about BBW would definately need to go into her self esteem issues as all BBW have them, yes, some get over them, but we've all had bad relationships and such because of the way we look. for a story to be realistic, it wouold most likely have to be romance, and making her feel loved and getting her over her self esteem problems.
 
handlebars69 said:
thanks you! i was just about to go off on him explaining this, being a BBW, i know how it feels, and i know im cautious, actually now, im getting to know a guy but cant seem to get over the self esteem thing, and i know i come off standoffish, even tho he tells me everyday that im beautiful and uses petnames, i just cant get over the fact of some of the shit that was said to me before, by grown men even. i know not all men are asshole, and some even have a thing for big women, but if your in my place, and have been with a guy who just kinda settled for me, it hurts to have your tummy grabbed and poked and being told you need to lose weight... and i hate to say this, but any realistic story written about BBW would definately need to go into her self esteem issues as all BBW have them, yes, some get over them, but we've all had bad relationships and such because of the way we look. for a story to be realistic, it wouold most likely have to be romance, and making her feel loved and getting her over her self esteem problems.

Hey... it was nothing. I am a BBW myself so understand where you are coming from. Fortunately for me, my childhood was a good one. The teasing was down to a handfull whom I quickly put in their place. Congrats on the guy. I am sure the longer that you are with him, the more comfortable you will feel around him and about yourself. It is amazing what a little positive attention can do for the soul!

I guess I'll get started on that BBW love story that people can actually relate to... or I should say, want to relate to. Some on the stories about BBWs on here are a horrid mess. LoL! :D
 
Hi, was just reading through your thread and thought I'd add my two cence. I agree with everything thats been said so far, I no I was seeing a BBW last year and it only started off as a friendship but developed into more. Think any stories on here automatically assume people wanna just get it on straight away when in reality its not like that. I wrote a story kinda about what I had been through with her a bit but yeah, its hard to juggle the morality and thoughts while writing a story of this nature. Not sure if any of that made sense but there you go lol.
 
you'll find curvy women in my stories, not necessarily described in clinical detail, but no skinny minnies in my little world. "End of the Affair" touches on a curvy woman's reluctance to show her body completely to her long-time lover. "Company Meeting" describes a woman who is also curvy with ample hips and ass.

I prefer to write about women with womanly figures - that's who I am, and I write from experience. I have no idea what it's like to be a skinny woman having sex. I write what I know. :) But I also try to focus on universal feelings and experiences more than the physical characteristics of my female protagonists. A kiss feels the same whether you're 100 lbs or 300 lbs. The feel of him sliding inside you is the same. The touch of his hand on your breast, or your lips on his body --- none of it changes with your weight.
 
I have a story pending featuring a BBW. It's called A Tryst to Scream For and will be in the first times category (will be posted under my alt Lady in Disguise). It's a follow up of The Scavenger Hunt.

I'm a BBW, btw.
 
Obviously I'm new to these forums... I've been reading literotica stories for awhile now though, and intend to submit some of my own before too long.. just have to get up the nerve! ;)

I'm really curious though... do people want to read 'realistic' stories? Especially involving a BBW? (I am one myself). I can imagine myself writing a humorous one perhaps.. a dominant BBW, but as far as realistic and exploring the real feelings of a BBW in a relationship with someone... that's not necessarily easy or fun or a turn on to read. I just don't know if anyone would want to read that.

I've been through it all myself and still do have those inadequate and unattractive feelings from time to time, and it's not all that fun. :(

Stories celebrating it.. well.. maybe.
I guess I could only write stuff and see what happens. :)
 
Desamy that's the only way to do it, just put down what you want to, not everyone will like it, no matter how good or short or long it is, but it's almost guaranteed some will like it. However you probably won't hear from to many who do like it ;) Luckily you don't hear from to many who didn't either, most of them are smart enough to know you put down what you wanted to and how you wanted to, not all of them are though. :rolleyes:

I'm currently not thin either, I'm not happy with it and I am working on it, but I'm not having problems with myself because I'm not anymore, my guy is so wonderful, when I ask him if he finds me beautiful he tells me "I get it up right away when you're in the mood don't I" and he does. :heart:
 
I think women are women, regardless of their weight. I can think of ten thin women who obsess over their bodies, even more so than me or my other BBW friends. I also tend to believe that a BBW is more sexy and confident in bed because she's accepted her size, and knows her partner does or he wouldn't be in bed with her. Thin women constantly worry about every little jiggle or piece of grabbable flesh and whether or not they're pretty enough or thin enough. A BBW woman - for the most part - doesn't. She knows she's not thin, and isn't going to magically become thin the minute the lights go out. She can't hide a little jiggle or extra flesh by laying a certain way. So what's left? To have a great time in bed and feel good! Besides, boobs are boobs and curves are curves - some are more ample than others, but that doesn't make them any less sexy.

So my advice? Check the baggage at the door - write about a sexy beautiful woman, describe her as voluptuous, curvy, ample, wide-hipped, or whatever, and let her have fun and enjoy her sexuality. Put her with a good looking guy who appreciates her curves and confidence. But stay away from listing - like men so often do - her measurements and weight. Those numbers contribute nothing to the story, IMO, and limit your readers' imaginations.

*steps off her soapbox and returns you to your regularly scheduled life*
 
Well, I'm giving one a try...

A story that is! I couldn't agree more that we need more of these stories. I know in my case that in attempting several times in the past to add a BBW to a tale, I have chickened out at the last second feeling I didn't want to risk stepping on someone's toes with my inadequate handling. This thread prompted me to think about a story dedicated to just the BBW theme, and that made the necessary click in my mind take place. I'm letting it all hang out, getting my take on the subject down in type. I'll let the thread know when it's ready to go. Thanks a bunch for the inspiration to finally do something about this, and the great ideas here. I have added to that a lot of conversations of my own and will include all I can to give the story some realization, as well as compassion. Keep these ideas happenin'!
 
I don't know if this will will capture the meaning other contributors put onto BBW but I must say this: Some womens beuty is ruined by fat hanging off in unsightly places but there are yet more women whose visual apeal is strengthened by the rounding of their edges. In round curves I often feel the oportunity to express an inner love. I have not explained this very well and hope to clarify in the future. I hope this message forms part of the inspiration for a writter in the future.
 
Mine is done!

I've written and submitted my first story for literotica... it does have a BBW in it, though I don't know how well that will come through for you all. I am planning on writing a second story with the same characters, which will explore the whole BBW aspect a little bit more, so just letting you know!
It's called Midnight Mischief - so keep an eye out for it. :)
Looking forward to your feedback!
 
Although I like curvey "BBW" I rather object to the category as if there are "normal" women which ar OK for most men and then ther are BBW who are appreciated by lovers of the exotic. I think of Judith in "Judith and Me" as voluptious. ditto Carmen in My doctor my Maid and many others. I would not wnat them cateroriged as BBW stories.

I guess there could be "BBW" stories in which the plot revolves around ehther the man or the woman coming to accept her cerves.
 
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