Ways to spice up spanking

[penshockey1983]

Looking for other ways to spice up spanking. I've done different types of paddles and bloggers. I'm hoping to find things that give different feelings, not just a bigger sting or things like that.

 

[emme8]

Try some capsaicin cream on before the spanking. That will heat things up

Or toothpaste in your anus.

 

[lisaharlot]

Have you thought about different positions? If you lay on your back and pull your knees to your chest you can look at your spanker which is kinda fun. You might need a pillow or two to prop yourself up for “comfort”.

 

[penshockey1983]

Have you thought about different positions? If you lay on your back and pull your knees to your chest you can look at your spanker which is kinda fun. You might need a pillow or two to prop yourself up for “comfort”.

Interesting idea

 

[BlazonG]

Have you thought about different positions? If you lay on your back and pull your knees to your chest you can look at your spanker which is kinda fun. You might need a pillow or two to prop yourself up for “comfort”.

Nice one, can’t wait to try it.

 

[Dearelliot]

My Mistress sometimes does it to the beat of Pomp and Circumstance music...We have an 11 minute you tube version of P & C

 

[HottieOlwen]

Looking for other ways to spice up spanking. I've done different types of paddles and bloggers. I'm hoping to find things that give different feelings, not just a bigger sting or things like that.

A condom filled with water and frozen is inserted into your arsehole before spanking begins. I'm told by my cuckold that the contrast between the freezing condom and the increasingly hot sensation of a well spanked arse is quite stimulating. A nice thick finger of peeled fresh ginger inserted before spanking begins is another alternative.

 

[likitisplit]

Looking for other ways to spice up spanking. I've done different types of paddles and bloggers. I'm hoping to find things that give different feelings, not just a bigger sting or things like that.

salt and pepper the victim

 

[BareAmy83]

For girls: a peeled ginger root in the anus prior to spanking. Its commonly known as “figging”, and dates back to Victorian times. The ginger burns the anus and keeps the girl from clinching her buttocks, resulting in a more painful spanking, not to mention the “anal burn” she gets inside.

for boys: lay over the spanker’s lap and place your penis between their thighs. They squeeze their thighs, effectively “holding” you in place, so if you struggle, you pull on your own penis.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Pause on occasion, run cool, soothing fingers over hot, inflamed skin. Fondle a little, cool the red area with a cool (not cold) damp cloth. Dry gently, fanning the skin. Check for any actual damage. Recommence.

This actually ties in very well with one of the primary responsibilities of the dom/domme, that being aftercare for the sub.

Edit WRT 'figging' It has a long history (Victorian porn was full of it) and there may be some people who actually enjoy it. Let's just say that it's an acquired taste and not something to be sprung on a sub without careful experimentation and prior discussion.

 

[lowcollar]

Some verbal berating also adds to the fun, as does some tiger balm on the sphincter. IMy favorite position is having to touch my toes.

 

[Dom70]

For girls: a peeled ginger root in the anus prior to spanking. Its commonly known as “figging”, and dates back to Victorian times. The ginger burns the anus and keeps the girl from clinching her buttocks, resulting in a more painful spanking, not to mention the “anal burn” she gets inside.

for boys: lay over the spanker’s lap and place your penis between their thighs. They squeeze their thighs, effectively “holding” you in place, so if you struggle, you pull on your own penis.

and HOW do you know about these things Amy ??? hmmm???

 

[BareAmy83]

LOTS of research!!!!

 

[sxPlasticity]

If you want to spice up a spanking.
You could stick a red pepper up their butt...

Sorry... I could not resist that one...

I don't mean "to rub salt into the wounds", but it was just there...

 

[SirAeghann]

Everyone else has already commented about actual spices and creams, but sometimes different feelings rely on shape and material of the implements. If you're looking to explore with sting versus impact balance you could try dowels of various thicknesses. Material differences and thickness can also play a part in the sensation. A thick leather flogger feels different from a thin leather belt, etc. Studded paddles can be great fun too, or those with hole patterns. The delivery can also change up, flicking the wrist can result in low impact high sting spankings, keeping it straight has the reverse effect, and so on.

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Timing is everything....coupled with preventing the sub from anticipating the lash. Throw some delays between swats to allow the pain to crest and start to recede and "hope" that it's over to flourish....blindfold or hood or otherwise isolate their senses so only the pain is perceivable. Spanking is as much a psychological form of discipline/sadism as a physical one so don't neglect the "mind-fuckery" aspect; it will complement and heighten the physical sensations.

 

[DevilishV8]

Face down on his knees with your nipples touching his skin. Legs slightly spread and your ass pulled up. A toy inserted into your pussy, half way, with the loose end sticking out. He holds you by your hair or neck. Each time an open handed spank is delivered, it leaves a mark on your ass and also leads to the toy's loose end swing hard making your juices run down your thighs. Sometimes his hand slides slowly between your butt cheeks and into your pussy, feeling the wet throbbing flesh under his fingertips. But only for a moment, making you want to be fucked even more. Then back to a sound, hard spanking.

 

[suzie_n1]

For girls: a peeled ginger root in the anus prior to spanking. Its commonly known as “figging”, and dates back to Victorian times. The ginger burns the anus and keeps the girl from clinching her buttocks, resulting in a more painful spanking, not to mention the “anal burn” she gets inside.

for boys: lay over the spanker’s lap and place your penis between their thighs. They squeeze their thighs, effectively “holding” you in place, so if you struggle, you pull on your own penis.

The Pearl is quite the satisfying read. Figging and the birch...

 

[33coco33]

Face down on his knees with your nipples touching his skin. Legs slightly spread and your ass pulled up. A toy inserted into your pussy, half way, with the loose end sticking out. He holds you by your hair or neck. Each time an open handed spank is delivered, it leaves a mark on your ass and also leads to the toy's loose end swing hard making your juices run down your thighs. Sometimes his hand slides slowly between your butt cheeks and into your pussy, feeling the wet throbbing flesh under his fingertips. But only for a moment, making you want to be fucked even more. Then back to a sound, hard spanking.

Well that sounds like some incredible foreplay!

 

[33coco33]

I’m highly intrigued with the “figging” as well.

 

[stargame]

For girls: a peeled ginger root in the anus prior to spanking. Its commonly known as “figging”, and dates back to Victorian times. The ginger burns the anus and keeps the girl from clinching her buttocks, resulting in a more painful spanking, not to mention the “anal burn” she gets inside.

for boys: lay over the spanker’s lap and place your penis between their thighs. They squeeze their thighs, effectively “holding” you in place, so if you struggle, you pull on your own penis.

Loving this

 

[BareAmy83]

Loving this

Thank you!!!! Now, the question is: are you the spanker, or the spankee?

 

[crashD]

Thank you!!!! Now, the question is: are you the spanker, or the spankee?

Spanker. Always.

 

[BareAmy83]

Spanker. Always.

Nice! The world needs both! I'm a spankee, 98% of the time....

 

[Dreamliner]

LOTS of research!!!!

Lots of practice to see what you prefer.