Watching.

[IcemanUk]

Forgive me if this subject has been covered before, I would just like to ask the assembled masses a not too complex question.

Does anyone out there enjoy watching their respective partner (be they male or female) whilst they masturbate? If your partner asked you to do it, would you? If you do enjoy doing this for your partner, why?

 

[A_Kefka]

I've only had this happen once, but I very much enjoyed watching her pleasure herself, and she seemed to like watching me. That was a while ago, not with her now.

 

[Eilan]

My husband and I do this pretty regularly.

 

[nipple jewelry]

Yes and Yes. I love to watch him cum all over himself. Depending on my mood, I might play wiht his cum or lick some off of him. Either way, VERY HOT for me!

he loves to watch me too.

 

[subwannabe]

yes and yes

 

[cromsgirl]

We do this on occasion, usually when we are too tired to have sex. My husband also really enjoys watching me.

 

[IcemanUk]

It is interesting to note, that those who have answered have all said a resounding yes to the questions, aprt from Why is it so enjoyable?

Could it be the exhibitionist part of ourselves, or do we do it because we know that it stimulates and arouses our respective partners?

 

[xox.sweet.xox]

Yes, my partner and I enjoy this very much. The reason (for me at least) is because I get to watch him pleasure himself without any distractions. Usually during sex, I have a hard time concentrating on just his enjoyment, because I'm very...um...preoccupied This way, I love to watch his face, his muscles contract, his technique. Maybe it is the voyeur in me, but I prefer to think that I just like to see someone I love experience the ultimate pleasure...it wouldn't be the same if it was a stranger.

 

[A_Kefka]

I think I find it enjoyable for a couple reasons. For one, guys are pretty visual, so of course seeing it excites me. But there's also something about seeing her enjoy it, knowing that she does it when I'm not there, its proof that she does enjoy sexual contact and isn't just putting up with it for me. I don't know if all guys are like this, but I really enjoy her getting off, even if sometimes I don't. and if she likes watching me then it adds even another level ov excitement.

 

[wild-thing]

Definitely Yes and definitely yes. Combining both voyeuristic and exhibitionist behavior at the same time is super hot!!

 

[romantic_always]

Oh, definitely. I think it shows that 1) both of us are comfortable with ourselves, sexually 2) we can get off by just having our lover watch us, not with distractions/porn (like someone else mentioned, I think) and 3) it's kind of intimate, because it's something we would normally do alone but are ok with doing in front of the person we're with.


He likes watching me, and I've never watched him to the point of having him come, we usually work ourselves into sex or oral sex, but it's very enjoyable and I like when it works this way

 

[KarennaC]

I've watched two or three male partners masturbate to orgasm, but it was because they couldn't come from fellatio and we couldn't fuck for one reason or another. It was kinda hot, though.

I've never been comfortable enough to really masturbate in front of a partner. I had one partner who begged me to try it, so I just kind of moved my hand over my pussy for a few seconds then begged him to fuck me.

I'm planning to try mutual masturbation with my boyfriend, though. He's one of the "can't come through fellatio" guys, and I got really turned on the last time he masturbated in front of me. So did he, and he asked if I'd do it for him sometime. Gonna have to work on not being too tense, though. Somehow the idea of having an audience for masturbation takes away the enjoyment of it for me, even though I have exhibitionist tendencies in other ways.

 

[MisterSir]

I have only just realised that I've actually never seen a woman masturbate.

This must be rectified.

 

[silverwhisper]

mutual masturbation is a very regular part of our routine, actually, and i think that a kefka really hit it when he said:

i really enjoy her getting off, even if sometimes i don't. and if she likes watching me then it adds even another level ov excitement.

i think that's really the crux of it for me and for her.

ed

 

[Derya]

great addition

I just had a PM conversation on this topic in the last few days with a Lit friend. I have thoroughly enjoyed masturbating in front of a partner. It is such a great addition to lovemaking. I think a lot of people perceive it as something that takes one away from another but it isn?t it just primes you more for someone, is great to share and helps you know how best to reach physical places of fantastic feelings. If you know how to pleasure yourself well you know how to gain pleasure out of your encounters with your partner.

I have also always enjoyed watching a man masturbate. There are parts of what your body does that is so sensual and masculine and powerful to watch and when you?re hitting it together you don?t take it in the same way because you are experiencing so much of your own sensation too. I?m supposing its similar for a man when watching a woman masturbate. Things you see about your partner that you don?t see when paired in sexuality. Plus it also indulges the exhibitionist side in a way that I enjoy?. to be watched and indulges a bit of my submissive feel because to work at cumming and just have the other person watch know they are very visually taking in my succumbing to my orgasm etc?.it strokes the submissive side for me.

I would love to pursue mutual masturbation on many more occasions than I have but have often had a discomfort in how to bring it up and suggest it. I was thrilled when my last partner asked so politely and easily.........hmmmm so nice

 

[klippert]

couldn't have said it better

I just had a PM conversation on this topic in the last few days with a Lit friend. I have thoroughly enjoyed masturbating in front of a partner. It is such a great addition to lovemaking. I think a lot of people perceive it as something that takes one away from another but it isn?t it just primes you more for someone, is great to share and helps you know how best to reach physical places of fantastic feelings. If you know how to pleasure yourself well you know how to gain pleasure out of your encounters with your partner.

I have also always enjoyed watching a man masturbate. There are parts of what your body does that is so sensual and masculine and powerful to watch and when you?re hitting it together you don?t take it in the same way because you are experiencing so much of your own sensation too. I?m supposing its similar for a man when watching a woman masturbate. Things you see about your partner that you don?t see when paired in sexuality. Plus it also indulges the exhibitionist side in a way that I enjoy?. to be watched and indulges a bit of my submissive feel because to work at cumming and just have the other person watch know they are very visually taking in my succumbing to my orgasm etc?.it strokes the submissive side for me.

I would love to pursue mutual masturbation on many more occasions than I have but have often had a discomfort in how to bring it up and suggest it. I was thrilled when my last partner asked so politely and easily.........hmmmm so nice

I really have a fetish for watching a lady taking pleasure in her body...This is a regular part of our sexual adventures, weather in our bed room or on a beach. I now hold the cam and tape MrsK pleasuring herself. Watching it later in the week makes up both hot. I have noticed, mrsK does become more submissive, allowing me too talk her through or (my favorite) probing her ass with another toy or my fingers and with luck my cock....I also luv being watched and having mrsK watch and join me, funny, when she watches me she becomes more aggressive.

I have also partaken in C2C masturbation with a complete stranger.....or just watching and stroking and chatting.......

 

[richxr7]

My wife, really likes me to masturbate in front of her

 

[surreality]

My girl loves to watch me and I love to perform for her. We also both masturbate for each other simultaneously. It's definitely an major turn on and most of the time leads to more sex! She has really brought out my enjoyment of masturbating for someone.

 

[Jack_Samuel]

Yes and Yes.

I love to watch my wife enjoy pleasure and i get a match better view when im not busy delivering that pleasure. Also watching her shows me where she likes to be touched and how firmly

 

[Marcothegod]

My wife has done this a couple of time when she has had too much to drink and I couldn't make her come.

I thought it was very erotic but only told her so recently, it's something I hope we will get around to soon, not sure if she's that bothered by seeing me though.

 

[Joankraig]

I love watching guys jack off - for me it is very erotic.

 

[lemmesee]

Forgive me if this subject has been covered before, I would just like to ask the assembled masses a not too complex question.

Does anyone out there enjoy watching their respective partner (be they male or female) whilst they masturbate? If your partner asked you to do it, would you? If you do enjoy doing this for your partner, why?

My S/O knows that I like to masturbate, and talk to her about it, while I look at her naked body....sometimes she calls me into the bathroom so watch her in the tub....I masturbate while I look at her washing hr breasts....sometimes she uses the drop-down nozzle to masturbate herself with, and I masturbate as I watch her....in bed, I get so close to her when she masturbates with her vibe that I can feel the vibrations in my own body....so I masturbate right along with her....she frequently gives me fashion shows, where she poses for me in see-thru nighties, so I can watch and masturbate....we always announce to each other when we're about to have our respective orgasms....

 

[hot_hunny_bunny]

i love to watch and play

 

[JakeandCassie]

Me and Cassie play the masturbation game into our roleplays. i often demand her to masturbate in front of me. looks even better when she does it reluctantly, but the starts to enjoy it.

 

[gm53]

For Religious Reasons/Divorce/ Until Annulment

Until annulment is granted by church for me, I am considered married in the eyes of the church and technically not divorced as I am in the eyes of the state. To have sexual intercourse would be considered adultery. Until the annulment goes through, this is as close as we can get to releasing our tensions and pleasuring each other.