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[different61]

Hey has anyone got any ideas how to introduce my wife to the possibility of another man... she is 48 and a great looking woman ... I love the idea of her flirting and more with another guy.... we have never really talked about it but id need to get her on the subject ...any ideas?
Maybe a well vetted guy or woman off here to mail her?

 

[cryingalien]

Hey has anyone got any ideas how to introduce my wife to the possibility of another man... she is 48 and a great looking woman ... I love the idea of her flirting and more with another guy.... we have never really talked about it but id need to get her on the subject ...any ideas?
Maybe a well vetted guy or woman off here to mail her?

love to help

 

[different61]

in what way could you help ?? I'm very interested

 

[cryingalien]

in what way could you help ?? I'm very interested

Just go out and see if any men hit on her while you are wandering around...then let it slip into conversation....ask what she thought of the guy...did it turn her on....make it a gradual process.....let her come to it on her own....thats just my opinion....I dont think slamming the idea down her throat will work well, but you know her best

 

[bobbyinhouston]

Wife

My wife and I oftened talked about bringing others into our bedroom and our sex lives. Nothing would come of these conversations until she decided to shut me up. On my 50th birthday she took me to a swingers club and of course the rest is history. I saw her have more fun than she has ever had. A truly great bday and one I will never forget.

 

[different61]

Just go out and see if any men hit on her while you are wandering around...then let it slip into conversation....ask what she thought of the guy...did it turn her on....make it a gradual process.....let her come to it on her own....thats just my opinion....I dont think slamming the idea down her throat will work well, but you know her best

You probably right .... I think a night out would be a good idea.... maybe leave her occasionally and see how many guys talk to her ...im sure they will .... !!! ..this could work

 

[2TryAnything]

Or, as an alternative, you could just talk directly to her about it. The reason I say this is that the introduction of a 3rd person into the bedroom or the idea of cuckolding (allowing your wife to see other men) requires that you both be very secure in your relationship, lest jealousy and other nasty negative issues become a problem. So, if you are secure enough in your relationship to open the marriage, you're certainly secure enough to discuss the subject.

If you are unsure of how to broach the topic, why not plan an intimate night together. Perhaps relax and have a few drinks, maybe watch a favorite porn flick that includes the kind of action you're thinking of and then, once the inhibitions are relaxed a little, say something like, "So, Babe, what are your hottest sex fantasies?". She may admit to fantasizing about another man. However, if she doesn't you can always tell her, after she's revealed her favorite fantasies, that one of yours is to see her with another man.

The bottom line is, however you go about it, direct communication is key.

 

[different61]

2 tryanything

Thanks for the advice...... ill try that .... in fact i've had a few different types of advice ... I might as well try them all !!!!! ...not much advice from the female population of Lit though?

 

[millieteases]

Or, as an alternative, you could just talk directly to her about it. The reason I say this is that the introduction of a 3rd person into the bedroom or the idea of cuckolding (allowing your wife to see other men) requires that you both be very secure in your relationship, lest jealousy and other nasty negative issues become a problem. So, if you are secure enough in your relationship to open the marriage, you're certainly secure enough to discuss the subject.

If you are unsure of how to broach the topic, why not plan an intimate night together. Perhaps relax and have a few drinks, maybe watch a favorite porn flick that includes the kind of action you're thinking of and then, once the inhibitions are relaxed a little, say something like, "So, Babe, what are your hottest sex fantasies?". She may admit to fantasizing about another man. However, if she doesn't you can always tell her, after she's revealed her favorite fantasies, that one of yours is to see her with another man.

The bottom line is, however you go about it, direct communication is key.

Yup, if you don't ask, you don't get. Be sweet, be understanding, and most of all don't push too hard.

 

[easytiger1964]

love to help

Hi what about a bar pickup senario, i'm always travelling the UK and can arrange a hotel room if your interested. I'll buy her a few drinks at the bar a flirt with her and make suggestions... i'll be willing if you are pls PM me.

 

[different61]

easytiger

not sure if that will work ...might be trying to run before we can walk ...... but we should keep in touch and you never know

 

[hondo53]

About 10 years ago I brought up the idea of my wife fucking other men with her. She at first did not believe that I would find the reality to be nearly as exciting as the fantasy. After just talking for a few years she decided that perhaps I really would enjoy her fucking other men and she even admitted that she enjoyed the idea of having the freedom to fuck anyone she wanted to. From there it still took another couple of years, but I was finally able to convince my wife to try it. She has now been having sex with other men for about 7 years and she enjoys the variety of guys.

 

[candeecain]

tell her you had a real hot dream about you watching her with another guy and see what her reaction is...personally the idea of sex with another guy turns me off though watching my old man with another chick is hot for me, we have talked about it as fantasy stuff me with another guy but it just doesnt do it for me

 

[different61]

candeecain

she does have fantasy's about women .... especially K.G.Lang ...... I'm not sure if shed ever act this out either .. maybe I should ask that as well?